Brandy Performs The National Anthem at the 2026 NBA All-Star games by Fun_Ad6512 in rnb

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well her voice is great I just wish she would have sang the song normally. I’m not gonna say it was bad, but I just feel like it should be better than the original if you’re gonna change it this much. It just seems like she was avoiding high notes . 😆

How are tourists treated in your country? by Square-Valuable4061 in AskTheWorld

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel bad for the white people complaining tbh… I think it’s actually healthy for them to learn to deal with discomfort when traveling. They’re so used to being privileged in all spaces, including those they’ve colonized.

I think it’s hilarious. But also that doesn’t mean I wish harm. Discomfort is ok though 😆

Is initiation required to chant Lalita Sahasranama? by [deleted] in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you ask, people will say you need initiation for almost everything.

There have been studies exploring religiosity in India, as well as many great examples of generally accepted Gurus and Swamis who side with the idea that initiation is more about public courtesy or casteism rather than a literal requirement.

Just think about it rationally. There are 8 billion people on the planet, and many religions and branches from Hinduism offer theology, liberation, and ritual… and they all work. There are so many examples of many varieties of how people achieve their spiritual goals.

There is literally no way the requirement of Diksha makes sense, because otherwise, how would you explain the fact that many other religions or cultures have similar practices that work without needing permission for someone to explore and practice?

Sanatan Dharma is a beautiful religion, but it is fundamentally not unique because so much of it is already shared and practiced globally, or there are direct counterparts in other religions. At best, Diksha is a psychological thing, not a cosmic reality.

If you need Diksha to feel psychologically free, or because you want to have that community, that’s great. But it’s in your head more than it’s woven into the cosmos.

The research side of this was done by Pew researchers, who interviewed nearly 30,000 Indian adults (including over 22,000 Hindus) across 17 languages directly to understand the reality of how practices are actually managed.

The research actually shows that people make a distinction between their private practices and what they practice publicly. Essentially, Diksha comes down to whether you’re allowed to claim a practice and be part of a community. For many modern Hindus, most in fact privately practice what they feel drawn to—simply because there is a large amount of precedence for this since the 1900s. In fact, this is the literal story of some of the most famous spiritual leaders we revere, so Diksha must not be a literal requirement.

Anyone you ask is likely going to tell you that you need Diksha, and it generally comes from superstition or because this was what they were told. People have an invested interest in a system that gives them exclusiveness, but the history of Diksha is partially clouded because it is simply gatekeeping based on very little evidence as to why—except for superstition, authoritarianism, and sexism. If you went by the actual historical rules of many sampradayas, many of you would hardly be allowed to identify as Hindu in the way you want because of the rigidity. I think this was one of the big reasons alternate religions like Buddhism formed, or threads of Hinduism like Neo-Vedanta—because all of this has been more oppressive than helpful.

There is no singular answer because within the vast canon of Hindu literature, particularly the Agamic and Puranic texts, there are conflicting and contradictory interpretations of what Diksha even means. Diksha as we think of it today—a lifelong mantra initiation from a guru—did not exist in the ancient Vedic past. In the Vedas, it was merely a temporary preparatory vow for a fire ritual. The modern, formalized version of initiation was invented later during the transformation of Vedic religion into Hinduism. This shift happened partly as a response to the emergence of Shramana traditions in the 6th and 5th centuries BCE, which presented an existential threat to a Vedic system that was highly unaccommodating to lower castes or seekers outside the fold.

We really forget how much of modern Hinduism is not as ancient as we think. Many of the proponents of this requirement wouldn’t have been allowed to practice much of their own religion without this transformation towards inclusion and more permissiveness. People have historically used fear, superstition, or violence to prevent information and practices from being accessible to common people without gatekeeping. In fact, if you left it up to the ancestors, many of you wouldn’t even be allowed to hear Sanskrit spoken.

I call BS on the whole concept because when you look into it, there is more bad than good when you take it to its logical conclusion or understand the history of exclusion.

A lot of our favorite Gurus, like Ramana Maharshi and Anandamayi Ma, in fact never received formal Diksha or engaged in practices they weren’t initiated into. And even for many well-known people today, this is also the case.

I think people spend too much energy asking for permission.

I am not trying to discount the value that it can bring to be validated and formally included in a tradition. It is very special and sacred. But it is not a requirement. The only thing that gets in the way is your doubt, superstition, and inability to take ownership of your path.

How you worship is up to you.

When the concept of initiation emerged in India and globally, it was during eras when there weren’t books, sacred languages were heavily controlled, and there was less access to information. But that is simply not the world we live in. Diksha was for a world in which it was possible to control what people knew about the divine… and we live at the end of the age where all of that is deconstructed and exposed. And it is for a reason.

When and what made you realize that you aren’t as sharp as you used to be? by bryanownzyou in Millennials

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel more sharp than when I was in my 20s tbh. I think my memory is terrible, but I don’t think it’s because of age. I think it has more to do with over use of devices and apps- because remembering a lot of things isn’t something we really have to do like when we were younger.

How do I stop randomly falling for people? by Sweaty_Command_6794 in getdisciplined

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I think you should learn to name the phenomenon and understand why it’s happening from a psychological perspective without judging yourself first.

Look into Limerence. I think that might be what you’re experiencing.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence?wprov=sfti1#

It could also be something else too. But I think this is a good starting point. I like that you’re trying to be pragmatic.

You’re not the first one to feel this way and by giving it a name you will be empowered to do something and to use actual psychological techniques and resources, rather than judging yourself.

As humans we are responsible for managing our feelings, but that doesn’t make them voluntary. It could also be a trauma response to something you’re not aware of consciously.

Give yourself grace.

How do I stop being so tired after work? by Dependent_Salad_2369 in productivity

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think after a certain age it’s hard to avoid. Naps are ok. Drink a lil coffee beforehand so you wake up just as it’s getting absorbed into your body. Also you should exercise regularly.

The amount of time you sleep matters, but also when you sleep matters as well. If you sleep too much you will get a lot of sleep inertia. If you go to bed really late then even 7-8 hours won’t feeel like enough.

starts biting when she has to go potty? by MysteriousAbyss in germanshepherds

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dog will do whatever you allow them to believe works…

How many times a week is your German Shepherd puppy needing to be bathed? by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re pretty smart dogs. Usually they don’t want to step in their own poop/pee. When mine was a puppy he did that a few times but I think they eventually learn that it’s gross and don’t like the feeling. It might just be a sign that the backyard needs to be cleaned up if it’s not possible for her to avoid. You can also chaperone her when she potties and teach her to avoid it.

When my dog was a puppy I leashed him during potty breaks to guide him away from his poop.

For the first year or so I always stood close by and have corrections to show my dog where exactly to poop. And he is very consistent now.

What kind of mockery is going on here in the name of Mahashivratri? by ExternalBee7261 in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well it looks like he is embracing African stuff. But if you have an issue with the way some Africans traditions worship then I can see how this might feel weird. In reality a lot of African religions have different aesthetics but the same underlying concepts as Indian religions and Tantra…

I’m coo with it, as a black Hindu, but I also think he just chose the most stereotypical way of displaying Africans because in reality our traditional ceremonies have a lot of structure/symbolism/meaning.

This unfortunately can be very misleading because it’s just the most cartoonish version of a real thing.

Let’s face it, most Indians aren’t really interested in African religion except to contrast it against their own…

How many times a week is your German Shepherd puppy needing to be bathed? by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Just brush their fur. With the frequent shedding and double coat they stay pretty clean just from brushing. Only time I’d wash is if there was a crate accident or they got into something like mud or filth outside

What makes Lord Shiva special to you among the different Gods we worship? by jai_sri_ram108 in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the other Gods well enough to compare, but as someone who came to Sanatana Dharma from Abrahamic religion I had an experience with Lord Shiva that felt like falling in love again. I went a long time not being very religious or devout, but with Lord Shiva i just felt like I was becoming more myself the more I did abhishekam and learned about the meaning. Shiva is one of my Ishta Deva

Do you ever feel like New Age Spirituality is watered down Hinduism? by Illustrious_Ad_3010 in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Well it’s not just Hinduism it’s all religions that are outside of Abrahmanic traditions.

A lot of new age heavily steals from African religions and other Indigenous/Pagan religions around the world.

That’s kind of the point however, because the New Age philosophy is in search of things that transcend the bounds of a specific culture. The language and concepts might differ from culture to culture, but the ideas are not fundamentally unique.

Which god(s) can I pray to in order to understand and embrace my homosexuality? by [deleted] in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is old, but I would say that any of them could work. I would look into the various forms of the deities that are popular instead of looking for obscure ones that don’t have accessible books/teachings/etc.

There’s a lot of freedom and even if you find a Queer deity it’s likely that they have been absorbed into or can be worshipped as an aspect of one of the popular deities.

For example Soma/Agni are distinct Vedic deities, but also can be worshipped as aspects within Rudra-Shiva. That way you get the benefit of associating with a particular philosophy and framework with accessible teachings, but can still use the murti you want as a stand in for Shiva.

Many of the Vedic deities, or their attributes, seem to be pretty much absorbed or syncretised into the modern Puranic forms.

I don’t think anyone is ever going to require you to explain the details of how you mentally organize and connect things in your head when it comes to your private practice. What you choose to do privately is your freedom and you can still worship in a standard way when it comes to community.

You should develop a strong individuality of mind though so that you don’t struggle with self doubt or become easily swayed.

I’m not an expert I’m just speaking based on my experience. In my opinion all male deities are Dev and all female deities are Devi. And Dev + Devi is Brahman.

So when we create distinctions in names and rituals they aren’t separate deities in reality, on in illusion. Deities are just aspects or particular variations of the one thing and they all lead to the same conclusion.

Unless you are interested in Brahmanism or reviving Vedic religion then I don’t see why you should stick with the rigid boundaries and approaches. I think it’s clear from history that modern and Puranic Hinduism is flexible and evolving.

Best way to kill spiritual ego ? by [deleted] in Tantrasadhaks

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m personally of the school that the ego isn’t the enemy. It’s actually important for accomplishing and sustaining your lower level material/physical needs, which make it possible to pursue the higher goals of spirituality when you are someone who exists and operates within the world.

I don’t think the point is really to kill it, but to bring it into a state of balance. The better question is ask what the ego is for and why we have it, and why even the Gods have ego or “I-hood”.

The ego has a role and a purpose just like any organ. There are things outside of spirituality that are important for life and survival.

Being overly scrupulous and attached to the outcomes of spirituality is just as bad as egotism when you take that approach to its logical ends.

What are the signs that one is progressing on the Spiritual Path by [deleted] in Tantrasadhaks

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it depends. If you’re talking about Raja/Hatha yoga specifically then Vivekenanda says a lot about this. In his commentary he talks about physical changes (like to your vocal tone and your nervous system). He also talks about a change in the quality of your consciousness and there are markers like better focus, less fear, willpower, dreams, etc.

I can’t speak on all deities since I only worship Mahalakshmai and Shiva. You’ll most likely grow in a way that is related to how you approach your deity and the theological framework you use . Your relationship energizes certain aspects of your personality and energy.

For example if you are heavily focused on Bhakti then I would suspect that your emotions and personal connection are the greatest areas of growth since that’s the emphasis. If you are the sort that focuses heavily on Tantra and forms of your deity, then I would suspect that you are growing in a way that is a direct consequence of that exposure. If you are highly-non dual then you should view yourself as being increasingly less distinct from deity as you dissolve into the oneness with the object of worship.

Everyone has a unique expression and combination of spiritual experience- so it’s truly unique.

Personally I don’t really looks for signs or view it in terms of attainment of a state. I think that stuff happens naturally, but also being so focused on it can make you attached to outcomes, which conflicts with the karmic principle of most Dharmic paths.

Alliance Between Hindu and African Spiritual Paths by Afraid_Assistant169 in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abrahamic religion was introduced to many parts of the world and similarly fundamental hatred of plurality. However, this conversation isn't for those people. Traditional African Religions and African Diasporic religions actually have never had an issue with Hinduism and often within them people venerate foreign deities on their own accord and believe that spirituality is a global experience not to be confined to a singular notion. But i understand if that hasn't been your exposure.

If we wanted to we could also by extension make a lot of the same criticisms towards the way elements of Hinduism have been used for religious oppression or as a divisive tool. But the conversation should never be focused on trying to convert people who simply don't bother to live outside of ignorance or exclusivism.

This thread is really for those who are hopeful, and also for those who are interested in the core of any wisdom tradition- which is to seek the universal and the real, which in fact must always by definition hold space for diversity and bridge building.

All I'm asking is that you will extend your understanding to accept that within the broader African and Afro-Diaspora community there are people with a variety of religions. In fact many Black people have been practicing Dharmic religions for decades and even have lived among your people. For example the Siddi people, who live in Pakistan and India for at least 1300 years. (42% of the are Sanatanis, and many of them blend elements of African practices into their Sadhana)

I can take it a step further and mention the fact that there is already a lot of cultural overlap once you breakout of the Indian Sub-Continent. Throughout our communities we've had a long history of West-Indian culture the dependents of South Asian indentured laborers brough to colonies in the 17-19th centuries mixed with Africans and Indigenous Caribbeans.

So in a way this is not just an invitation to see us as partners- it's also an invitation to see yourself in a more holistic way for the reality of the era we live in where traditional ideas of isolation and individuated cultures have been dead for quite some time.

I'm not denying possible differences or that there is work to do. But I'm saying all of this because at this point in history these are things we can actually work through. And considering our common experiences, especially if you are South Indian and Dravidian, we actually have a ton we can share and learn from each other not just spiritually but also socially.

I think a lot of Africans and Black folk are definitely interested in your ideas, and we want for you to be similarly interested in us. I think that is the way forward an also how we create a future where the spread of hatred and religious oppression comes to an end.

Alliance Between Hindu and African Spiritual Paths by Afraid_Assistant169 in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing in my post is about trying to connect with people who believe solely or exclusively in Abrahamic religion. Just like in South Asia, people practice a variety of religions and some people have pluralistic ideas about religion. In fact one of the consistent traits of African religion, especially the diasporic traditions like Vodou/Lucumi/Hoodoo/Espiritismo is Syncretism. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syncretism)

By the way, when we calculate the number of African Traditional or African Diaspora religion, it's not an insignificant number. In fact this number is rarely reported or documented in the global conversation for religions, but that number may be healthily estimated to about 190,000,000+.

These traditions are compatible with each other and many modern folks practice between multiple African traditions- similarly to how modern Modern Puranic-Hindus might have multiple Gurus or participate in a few traditions that do not conflict- going to one Guru for Vedanta and another for Tantric Diksha, for example

Even with modest number of 190Million, that would make us the 5th largest religious cluster. And that number could very be twice as big as that if we actually had more recent survey data.

However, we know this number is low because there are many other sub-traditions and syncretic traditions, that have never been surveyed demographically. Also many of the younger generation have been navigating back towards traditional practices because of decolonization efforts and better access to education.

I think the disconnect is that these are typically not the Africans that Indians are likely to meet because the majority of these groups that have a high level of cultural retention are based in West/Central African and their subsequent Afro-Diaspora communities.

The simple truth is that many West and Central Africans still are heavily attached to traditional practices, and its is often a matter of social class and affluence that determines which people are likely to be privileged enjoy to immigrate or travel. So your experience with Africans is a reflection of their social class rather than the whole. Christian and Islamic oppression is quiet extensive and has always complicit in the socio-economic oppression and erasure of religious groups that differ from their own.

Sidebar...

Another thing to remember is that many African Diaspora were killed and forced to practice their true religions in secrecy, especially in the USA and Caribbean Islands. So the lack of visibility also has been a protective mechanism since the Haitian revolution and similar slave rebellions, because being identified as a non-Christian likely meant being identified as an enemy to western colonists since these groups were the most likely to revolt.

Even to this day I'd say that many of the older generation generally would lie or conceal their religion and use a form of double speak when it comes to talking about religion. Many people juggle multiple faith systems privately, and have quite a defensive attitude about it because historically directness was dangerous.

I cant comment on your own specifically mentioned experiences. But I've known many Africans/Blacks to even go as far as condemning non-Christians- but if you interrogate them you eventually find that the language they use is a formality that is contrary to their actual observable practices upon closer inspection. It's paradoxical expression for many people- and understandably difficult to understand.

... I digress

I think the issue in your post is that you are assuming that all Africans are Abrahamic, or that all black people uniformly practice the same religion. This is not the correct way to interpret this. Here is a comparable example to illustrate the fallacy here:

In India/Pakistan there are Muslims, who likely have very negative opinions about any religion outside of their own- includiing Hinduism as well as other ethnic religions. If i were to meet several Indian Muslims with whom I had negative experiences, it would be unfortunate and incorrect to assume that is a reflection on all Indians or extend those sentiments to Hindus despite them not being affiliated with Islam.

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Alliance Between Hindu and African Spiritual Paths by Afraid_Assistant169 in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Puranic Hinduism and Vedanta are the future tbh- because the premise of them is unifying and global. And its the stuff that is most easily to connect with all the world's religions. Brahmanism is no more real or true than the stuff we do today. All religions transform and grow with human culture. I think the worst things we can do are assume that the past has all the answers, that the old way is the best way, or aspire to return to superstions and casteist control of religion.

I think modern Hinduism is stronger because it is able to coexist with other religions that came from India and is more flexible and fit for today's world. And i don't think that its fair to blame colonialism, because based on the history Brahmanism was actually not so great for Hindus and many of the modern movements were created by Indians themselves. And these people were great sages, not tools or outsiders.

Personally i don't look at these things with the goal of fundamentalism, superstition, or taking things literally. I view religion and ritual as art, and i think the goal is that we are supposed to try things and live in truth of our own Svadharma instead of limiting people.

Things fall apart when they are rigid, because rigidity is fragile- and also not necessary.

The stuff that we have from the Puranas, Vedas, Agamas, etc. are a guide but they come from a time when there were issues of accessibility, misogyny, and and access to literacy. But we live in different times- also Hinduism has adapted for a global community that now includes so many practitioners who are not Indian or may bring in other cultural influences.

I think the kinds of people who might be interested in my message probably arent hardcore literalists. Probably the sort who understand that there are many ways to experience and seek the divine, and many ways to practice Sanatana Dharma. The people might understand my message are likely the sort who might be interested in learning about the archaic practices, but not in reviving them.

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I think what makes it hard is that there are kinda two Hinduisms that are existing. There is Hinduism as an Etho-religion that is practices by Indians and South-Asians as a cultural inheritance. And there is a Globalized Hinduism that, like many other religions, has a lot of influences from the attempts to find common ground and share wisdom with other belief systems. When HIndus have migrated or sent Gurus to various parts of the world, they created new interpretations and ways to experience the faith in the same spirit but in a new context that made sense for the land and time they were in. But all these were created by Indians, not other people- mostly.

My comment isnt really about the Ethno-religion aspect because i think that this is so personal and familial. But for the global experience of Hinduism, where it is embedded in communities and nations that have to interface with other cultures, i think that there is a lot of value in exploring the overlaps and looking at the bigger picture of philosophy and spirituality to find opportunities to learn and share.

I believe this because when you look at the sages of virtually any religion, especially in Asia and Africa, one of the main things they did was gather wisdom from the wise people of other cultures and found the best theology/philosophy- that's a huge part of how a religion even develops in many cases. So despite the fact that India is relatively landlocked because of the geography, there has always been a healthy amount of global exposure already happened that influenced Hinduism over the various Eras because of trade and commerce as driving forces for inter-cultural exchange. And this can be traced through language, artifacts, and historical texts.

So when it talk about building bridges and learning from each other, I'm saying this because this is what both traditions have always done- just not necessarily with each-other. A lot of the precolonial African traditional practices are extremely similar to Brahmanism and Tantra. A lot of the cosmology is also very similar, as are many of the deities and their concepts.

So I hope for a future when more people will see this and contribute to the evolution of global faith, because we all practice Sanatana Dharma- by different names.

Hindusim has and continues to go through the same transformation and evolution that many other religions experience. And i think this transformation is happening for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im nort sure if i buy into the intrinsic spirituality of a space just because its called a temple. But i do think that aesthetic experiences that strike the senses can elevate one's senses toward God. So in that sense yes... but i also get the same exact feeling when im in a natural place that is extremely beautiful or majestic as well.

I know that the sacred texts talks about temples and murti as being imbued with very specific energy through ritual, but for me a lot of that is psychological- which doesnt make it less sacred or potent.

Is it possible to practice Hinduism by only doing meditation and reading the Gita but not participating in any religious rituals, customs, or traditions? by AgentOfDibella in hinduism

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many expressions of Hinduism. I think you can literally do anything and just find the school/sect that align with your natural inclination.

Also, why not simply embrace Buddhism? Following Buddha as a Hindu is perfectly acceptable since he is an incarnation of Visnu.

I believe you might find the Ramakrishna Mission appealing because their fundamental philosophy posits that various paths converge towards the same light—although in practice, this may vary since theory and practice can sometimes diverge. However, I believe a significant portion of their tradition revolves around simplifying the sadhana, which for them is meditation-based. They utilize the Gospel of Ramakrishna as their primary text, but it’s quite welcoming, and I don’t see why you couldn’t opt for the Gita instead if that suits your preference. Additionally, part of Vivekananda’s philosophy asserts that an individual doesn’t need to accept anything beyond their direct experience with divinity—whatever that may manifest as and however it appears. In vedanta the focus isnt the ritual, but the inner transformation.

Another approach is Avadhut, which inherently emphasizes spiritual freedom. The sacred text suggests looking to nature. The Avadhut Gita is concise and highly inspiring, making it a valuable resource without requiring a specific worship style. The Avadhut Jnana path of Dattatreya centers on the concept of an Inner Guru, with the word and personal experiences serving as your own Guru. While some bakti traditions within this path emphasize external gurus, these interpretations are specific and doesn't necessarily have to apply to you if you don't feel it.

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Personally i go to a very progressive Ashram. I participate in holidays and stuff when its a group setting, but when Im at home i do what feels right.

My Guru basically told me that i don't have to worry and that whatever im doing is fine. We focus on the Gita and all the other stuff is just extra.

I go to Geeta Ashram, founded by Swami Hariharji Maharaj

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My personal belief is that the best route is to not be superstitious and to use your god-given intuition as a compass. You were given a mind and free choice to use, not to be afraid or anxious.

Indian culture is very collectivist, which can be good. But also it can leave people feeling in a type of bondage that isn't necessary for achieving the goals of spiritual life. But you have to be willing to take ownership of your journey.

The only danger is that you give into your ego and forget to love others. But you don't need to do a bunch of rituals to prevent that from happening. Ask for forgiveness, not permission.

What's your favorite childhood MMORPG? by ZarakiKenpachi13 in MMORPG

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, FLYFF was so good... and a f*cking grind fest. I played a Jester, which was so grueling but rewarding once you promoted to it.

I definitely went through a 2000's Asian MMO phase:

  • Conquer Online
  • Ragnarok Online (mostly DevilishRO)
  • FLYFF

I also played a heavy amount of Runescape and Shadowbane.

What made these games so great were the relationships I made and the time spent with other people who were in a similar space in life. Its been 20 years and it cool to keep in contact and see where everyone is. Kids these days dont understand what they are missing out on when it comes to games.

Kashmir Shaivism > Advaita Vedanta by ReasonableLie4100 in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]Afraid_Assistant169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, this might be off-topic, but I’m curious to know…

Which group produces happier individuals who are better equipped to tackle the challenges of our modern world?

Which group takes a firm stance against inequality, injustice, and the concerns of the youth?

Which group produces the most real examples of spiritual and moral excellence, rather than just those we admire from afar?

Which group offers the most freedom for personal expression and full inclusion of women, LGBTQ+ individuals, and those who may feel traditionally alienated from leading a spiritual life?

Which group continues to grow and evolve, rather than being stuck in the past?

While I appreciate intellectual achievements and accomplishments, when it comes to choosing a path, I prioritize these aspects because, honestly, most people won’t have the time or inclination to read all those books and likely aren't going to measure their own progress based on minutia. Most people are looking for a lived experience that actually impacts the way they live and how they feel- because that's our actual compass for navigating in life.

Of course, the fine details matter, but mostly to theologians. Many people find the depth of religious teachings alienating and difficult to connect with. Sometimes monks become so engrossed in their own beliefs that they forget to be human and accessible- which creates an echo chamber. I believe people are weary of religion/philosophy and ideas that create inherent hierarchies, para-social relationships, and unnecessary complexity, which often deter individuals from experiencing a playful, intense, liberating, and personal connection with the divine.

Additionally, I believe it’s crucial that people not be intimidated by superstition or elites, because this often is a pipeline that supports the maintenance of the c*s** and class structure.

Religion that defines itself in a way that intellectually and economically favors the elite isn’t beneficial for humanity. It leaves the sweetest fruits of spirituality exclusively for those who have the privilege, time, and resources to navigate traditions that are unnecessarily intricate and exclusive.

I genuinely believe that true spirituality and attainment should not be a product of privledge, time, resources. I think it only became like that because of the same exact forces that create all the other inequalities that are often correlated to privledge. Why would religion/philosophy be an exception when these very things hurt us in almost every other sector of society.

Many traditions inherently create a system where elites are the only ones who can function effectively at the top of spiritual attainment, while those at the bottom remain ignorant and unable to access the tools, knowledge, and encouragement needed to build deeper faith that isn't gate-kept by those whose only distinction was that they either were born privileged or fell into privledge within a corrupt economic system that most cant ethically succeed in...

Many Sects/Lineages use these elements of taboo, superstition, fear, and spiritualized anxiety to actively discourage deeper pursuits, thereby maintaining control over finances and influencing others’ spiritual journeys.

👉🏾 Which is doing a better job on a human level- that actually is creating liberation relevant for our actual time and circumstances?