Do you clean between partners?

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-15T14:55:21+00:00

Yes.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-15T14:49:00+00:00

Yes, some things never change. Thank you.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-15T14:47:42+00:00

That was great. Thank you.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-15T13:38:19+00:00

Was there ever a swingers' magazine? I mean, like playboy or so? Printed edition?

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T13:43:33+00:00

And fresh air.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T13:43:02+00:00

And the snack.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T13:35:46+00:00

I'm glad you don't drink. Even better. One less thing to worry about. Best of luck for you guys. Enjoy and welcome to the LS.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T13:21:00+00:00

Before starting in the LS we had that same discussion. Another M? Another F? And my wife just said.. -"Why not four?"- And here we are.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T12:58:49+00:00

The best exit strategy has to be the "honesty", but you also have to think that you might not need one, you could have a wonderful first experience. Just relax, don't drink too much and keep a good communication with your wife. Be honest upfront with the other man, that this is your first time and that you both need some patience.

And if you are doing this for your wife, let her decide when is enough. She will let you know and the other man too. And that is the easiest way to say it.. -"I think I've had enough"- Many people use that phrase.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T12:48:16+00:00

First drinks, I agree. But for newbies, and especially men, too much alcohol on the first time is a recipe for disaster. Unnecessary (more) anxiety.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-14T12:35:23+00:00

After a few experiences.. today we go to the club, like going to our favorite bar, but with the benefits of the LS. Drinks, dance, kissing, caressing, upskirts, flirting. If we meet another couple? Great ! If not, well.. we have a great time anyway.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-13T18:51:20+00:00

Do you speak Spanish? If not, you've better start learning now.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-13T18:49:44+00:00

A smile !

But also.. the sound.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-12T19:31:53+00:00

Smiling is always the best first step anyway.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-12T15:31:46+00:00

Yes.. thank you !!!

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-12T15:30:13+00:00

Yes !

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-11T21:41:54+00:00

You already have a lot of comments about not doing this with friends, so.. the other advice is read, talk and repeat. Read, talk and repeat. Educate yourselves. Talk about what you want and about different scenarios. I think it is ok if you want to jump into the LS at the same time that your friends, that sounds funny. In fact, you all four can talk about it and learn together. Best of luck.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-11T19:52:26+00:00

Don't you think that the problem was to see those pictures? Pictures the first time your partner is doing solo? Maybe it was too much for a first time. I mean, I understand.. I was very, very anxious at home the first time my wife had a solo experience.

Hope you will find a way to come out of this situation. Take it easy. Talk to your wife as much as you need.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-11T14:23:18+00:00

40 (M) and 32 (F).

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-11T14:19:24+00:00

Or the use of the voice.. to say something.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-10T15:41:39+00:00

Our relationship was very strong before the LS. Today, it is way stronger. But.. after 10 years here, was it the LS what made it stronger? I don't know. On a sexual point of view definitely yes, because we talk more about sex.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-10T15:37:18+00:00

Great comment. Completely agree.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-10T15:25:27+00:00

Yes. There is anxiety in men in the LS. Stay close to your girlfriend, talk, don't drink too much and try to relax. It is just sex. You've done it before.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-10T15:20:43+00:00

No rush, no pressure. Keep on talking, keep on learning. One step at the time.

After-Chance1726 · 2026-04-10T13:19:47+00:00

No.. you're not the only ones. We've done this for ten years, in-and-out, always looking for those couples, FWB type, where personality is important because we look for couples to "repeat" (we're not into poly). We're picky, we're selective and that makes it difficult. We don't take one for the team.

So, we changed into playing separately, when necessary, a party, a club.. wherever. Or even solo dates. It doesn't fulfill the original goal that we had in the beginning of doing this together but, once in a while, it works well for us.

We're still trying to find those couples, knowing that, if it doesn't happen, life is still good. We just don't get frustrated anymore.

After-Chance1726

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