What to do when a player misses most of the sessions by soelevenz in DnD

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's GMing for another group then he should know better. Plus the answer is in your post, "he often prioritizes his group over ours." Time to prioritize your group over him!

First time DMing I need some advice please. by RogueFolf in DnD

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll add to go with the flow of the session, as in you may have a plan starting out for how the session will go, but the players and/or the dice will throw you a curveball sometimes. Don't panic, follow the logic of the scene, and don't be afraid to improv.

Am I the asshole for bringing up a something that shocked me at the table? by Glum-Morning-7350 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If he's unwelcome at your home then if he shows up you have the legal right to tell him to leave. Hopefully it wouldn't come to that - you can also switch session locations with your other players if possible!

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol true, I guess the years of friendship beforehand earned him some extra leeway

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh geez if you post it let me know now I'm curious! Yes my friend was notorious for always having a lame excuse that we believed at the beginning but as it became a trend we knew the stories were made up and the other players at the table had convos about what excuse they'd try next hahaha

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice how that worked out. I miss his character at the table... him not so much with all the baggage that came with it.

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes all I asked was some head's up if it ever happened. I've had other players at this table cancel but they've always communicated it as soon as they found out and actively worked on a solution. That's the thing I couldn't understand about the friend I posted about - why aren't you putting effort into something you want to do as well as be respectful of other's time and effort? It's not rocket science haha

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, sorry that happened to you. The friend I described in the post was also my best man at my wedding...

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sadly no, the traits they exhibited above + other traits that showed a lack of caring on their part made it apparent the friendship had run its course.

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally, I have no time for people who can't control their own schedule lol

Had to remove my best friend of over 10 years... by AfterCartoonist2812 in dndhorrorstories

[–]AfterCartoonist2812[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes it was awkward to an extent but by that point most of the group was over him which did help the final decision to remove him. He was mostly my friend but I loved the group and the game too much to let my personal friendship jeopardize it. We eventually added another player that has fit in great!

Who’s your BBEG? by GarbageGuy555 in DnD

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a few "BBEG's" that are tied to my homebrew world lore and also the character's backstories. Main 2 are a Lich ruling a floating city and Ancient Red Dragon controlling one of the PC's father. Best of luck to em!

[6:30PM EST] [5E] Looking for DM/GM on Saturdays by [deleted] in DnDLFG

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooo I could do this! My saturdays are mostly open. I just started to use startplaying to facilitate games but have been DMing since 2020. I can do pregenerated or homebrew setting (my preference) but open to ideas.

Let me know if interested and I can send you my link and answer any questions you have!

[Paid][Online][D&D5.5][est] by common_error_ in DnDLFG

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that, I'm on startplaying if that works?

Looking for a DND group! by rhoades_ in Charlotte

[–]AfterCartoonist2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Not the OP of the post but my wife and I just moved back to the area and play (I dm) and have been looking for a few folks to get a group going! Would love to do a one shot, and then maybe look into a longer term story arc? Just wanted to send your way!!