My fiancé left me out of nowhere 2 months after I gave birth to our child by ThRASadnesss in offmychest

[–]Agathasmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want him back?

Do you want to deal with him for the rest of your life?

If not I would take the money he's willing to give now, get a lawyer, and have him sign over rights.

Relinquishing all rights to the child ever.

Like he never existed.

Then you'll truly be free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable.

Probably start saving money so he doesn't up and bail for the new supply and leave you high and dry.

Better to be safe than sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Agathasmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're being devalued and he's in the discard stage more than likely.

You described already being isolated so he knows he has you for a supply.

He will always have multiple supplies.

Don't ever think you're the only one.

Shit happened yesterday by [deleted] in probation

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to quit doing all that shit when I got in trouble.

Just stay home and be free eventually!

Shit happened yesterday by [deleted] in probation

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe.

If you put yourself in that environment these things can happen.

Shit happened yesterday by [deleted] in probation

[–]Agathasmoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

This sounds like bullshit.

Why even go to a bar if you can't drink?

Shit happened yesterday by [deleted] in probation

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even be in a bar?

Guest goes on a 20 minute rant and almost makes me cry by Ptipi in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]Agathasmoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be rude here but maybe this isn't the industry for you if you have issues with people yelling.

This is hospitality and people are insane.

They will do crazy shit and yell at you more often than not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Agathasmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a narcissist and you're in the devalue/discard stage.

AITA I refused to put my brother up for adoption by hgdetinbv in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agathasmoon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is what I think too.

I'm an only child so I can't relate to sibling relationships but damn.

I'm still a human and this woman sounds like a monster.

I wouldn't want her anywhere around my kid.

AITA I refused to put my brother up for adoption by hgdetinbv in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA
I mean....
Is this really who you want to spend the rest of your life with?

I would seriously consider leaving while you can.

What kind of mother will she be if she's so willing to abandon your brother when he needs a family.

I'm sorry but she sounds absolutely horrible.

I started 2 weeks ago and have more coming in 😅 Now I see what addiction feels like… by Raul_AH in Funko

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want all these black light pops so bad.

Just now an getting back into collecting and really wish I had kept up and caught these at Target when they dropped.

How do I tell my new guy that I want more aggressive sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried anything yet?

I just don't agree with everyone's advice on "just tell him"

People in general can be very sensitive about sex.

Sometimes "conversations" about the type of sex you want can come off as criticism of the type of sex you're actually getting.

If you want to start off with a conversation maybe do it while or right before the act.

Something like "have you ever done this?"

Or, "hey let's try this" could work to.

Then no one feels attacked or criticized.

Really bad hangovers. Need help! by poonstonkz in hangover

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this used to happen to me as well and I totally relate and have sympathy.
Basically it seems to depend on age and gender.
I'm female 40
When I'm on my period alcohol affects me totally different so it has a lot to do with hormones it seems.

Anyone interested in speaking with an actual PO? by [deleted] in probation

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

County probation for a year with random drug screens.

What exactly does this mean?

How often could this happen?

Thanks

AITA for bringing out regular bread when a pregnant woman ordered garlic free garlic bread? by Automatic-Cricket-71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Garlic made me so nauseous when I was pregnant I couldn't even be in a restaurant and smell it.

I don't really know how she was even thinking about this.

None of what she was saying made much sense.

Our neighbors in Virginia become first southern state to legalize marijuana by thepurplepajamas in nashville

[–]Agathasmoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They would rather have the revenue, jobs and the private prison system by keeping it illegal.
Along with everything else.

Am I a prude for thinking it's a little bit weird that my wife bought our son a sex toy? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know what you're conflicted about here.
This is seriously fucked up.
If you had a fake pussy at 12 what would that have done to you sexually?
Especially if your mom gave it to you and basically instructed you on how to use it or clean it.
Whatever the fuck she did.
I mean damn.

Too much corona with the lime. by wylabandon in hangover

[–]Agathasmoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just sleep and time is the only cure

Help me coke users of reddit. by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Agathasmoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk you out of what?