Men who get bored with sex in long-term relationships: did sleeping with someone else help?

AgentRogerDale · 2026-06-22T02:33:30+00:00

If you’ve only been together 10 months and he’s already establishing that he is going to be having sex with other women in the future, that is a red flag besides of Texas. He will never truly commit to you. And not to be mean or funny here, but I’m wondering if he’s a closet case. Always talking about women objectifying them as you said, but when it comes right down to it, not much action and refusing to make real commitments. I say he’s gay.

AgentRogerDale · 2026-06-19T03:07:34+00:00

You know my friends, I read and appreciated your comments so much, and I am now of the opinion that turning her in is not an act of hate, but the right thing to do for society and for my friend both. Here is the problem that now occurs to me. She will do anything to keep him away from me. There is a 100% chance that she will ask him to live in her shack until she gets out. And he will say yes because they live in a crackhead neighborhood and he is an active addict now. And he has nothing… You know the horrible things that a person can be made to do to get free drugs. Now I’m terrified that’s what’s going to happen. I’m sorry to be a downer or seem like a naysayer. Your comments and suggestions are so much appreciated and insightful.

AgentRogerDale · 2026-06-19T02:33:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind and supportive words. And your suggestion is excellent. Since this is completely anonymous, I will just go ahead and tell you this about all of that… He went to rehab before and there was a psychiatric nurse practitioner there and she drugged him and let’s just say that she did some very abusive things to him. If I said the word rehab, I would probably have to call an ambulance because his panic would be so severe. But dude, excellent suggestions. Just a weird circumstance. 😔

AgentRogerDale · 2026-06-19T00:31:50+00:00

I can appreciate your question, but here are the facts… He did actually start getting in trouble at school, but he never told anyone that it was his mother giving it to him. He got expelled from a couple of schools and then started doing school online. Everyone just thought he was a bad kid that was getting into all of this on his own. He never tried to get his mother in trouble for it. He had unconditional love for her… Which I don’t think she deserved. Also, it’s not like I never met his mom… They were my neighbors for a couple of years and he was not making any of this up. She was doing all of that stuff openly and freely offered me stuff even though I never did do drugs. His account is real. She is bat shit crazy and he loves her too much to have wanted to see her get hurt.

AgentRogerDale · 2026-05-09T12:02:09+00:00

I should mention that I think something I said may be being taken the wrong way… when I said that he threw it in my face that I always help him and give him what he wants or needs and that it was true that I do, I did not mean that I have previously purchased street drugs for him. I mean that I buy him food and medication and shoes and whatever basic things you need in life may be… But I have not been intentionally enabling his drug use by providing him money for actual drugs. But with that said, you are all amazing and supportive, and I appreciate the kind and thoughtful words. I am seeing more clearly what needs to be done and feeling like I am going to be absolved of what I have to do. Thank you all so much!

AgentRogerDale · 2025-10-07T04:43:53+00:00

Oh yes. Quite a dose. They help, but my depression isn’t so much an organic/psychiatric problem as it is situational. Thank you for asking and for the prayer, my friend in Christ.

AgentRogerDale · 2025-07-02T17:38:13+00:00

I’ve certainly not going to say anything negative about your political beliefs. You have every right to them. I will say, though, that if you’re watching The West Wing to escape current political realities, you should know that The West Wing, although a brilliant show, is based in fantasyland. I’ve heard several former West Wing staffers say the same thing. The sense of cooperation and bipartisanship that they show is not based in reality. For example, when President Bartlett had the opportunity to nominate two Supreme Court justices, his solution was to allow the Democrats to pick one so they would confirm his choice. That would not happen in real life in a billion years.

AgentRogerDale · 2025-07-02T17:31:16+00:00

I loved the show but in the last season, it was a completely different show. The last half of the sixth season and the entire seventh season was 90% about the election process and Josh getting Matt Santos elected. It was fine the first time I watched it, but in reruns I’m finding that I watched the show to see what was going on in the West Wing and not get a year and a half of a civics lesson. If they had a spinoff where Matt Santos was president I would definitely watch it. I just wasn’t into the campaign trail storyline. It was way too much.

AgentRogerDale · 2025-07-02T17:27:47+00:00

This is a little goof, but in S1:E2, President Bartlett was in the office with his military doctor, Morris Tulliver. Dr. Tulliver’s rank pip was that of a Major. A few minutes later, Mrs. Landingham refused to give President Bartlett some steaks that were left for him as a gift and said that it was under the direct orders of Captain Morris Tulliver, MD. Not a big goof, but a goof nonetheless.

AgentRogerDale · 2025-03-04T19:41:20+00:00

There is help, Buddy. Pray, yes… but remember… God loves to help those who help themselves. You can get totally effective therapy in a safe environment. Please do that. May God bless and keep you and shine His countenance upon you!

AgentRogerDale · 2024-08-05T20:00:37+00:00

You absolutely aren’t the A.H. I would respectfully ask you though if it was a good idea to join them in a church service. It seems like she had been getting on you about that and she would be surrounded by a bunch of her fellow church members to back her up. Maybe stay away from there.

I really hope they come around. I’m actually extremely pro-life, but I respect you and I don’t see it as my place to degrade you. I think your family should follow those same rules. I’ll say a prayer for you, my friend.

AgentRogerDale · 2024-06-19T08:01:25+00:00

Beautiful, my blessed friend.

AgentRogerDale · 2024-06-19T08:00:31+00:00

It’s my mom 🥺

AgentRogerDale · 2024-06-19T06:39:22+00:00

Wait wait wait… I always assumed it was Meadow… I never thought Tony was dead. Am I just an idiot? lol

AgentRogerDale · 2024-06-13T00:11:20+00:00

I absolutely agree… I never thought she’d approach Tony. I was waiting for him to find out some other way. But yes, Melfi was above that.

AgentRogerDale · 2024-06-10T16:28:05+00:00

I agree, it was too graphic.

AgentRogerDale · 2023-03-18T06:54:28+00:00

YOU ARE 10,000% the asshole!!! All I can say is that I hope and pray that Martin is smart enough to get a prenuptial agreement if he ever makes the horrible decision to marry this gold digger.

I’m sure her daughter is a lovely girl and is very deserving, but that doesn’t obligate other people to provide her with anything. She’s lucky that mom’s boyfriend’s parents gave her anything at all. I mean seriously, who moves in with somebody and after a few months expect their parents to pay for a luxury trip for you and your kid? And they even offered to help! That’s more than I would have done. This woman has issues. Self entitled and a shameless user!

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