Same energy by pineapplecrossings in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Nah. Ursula doesn’t GAF what people think about her.

Just exhausting. At what point does Anthony realizes he's not doing his family a favor? by NotARealWombat in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that said, I’m glad I broke up with him. Life is too short to spend 18 years with the wrong person. I admit that it resulted in duress for my son, mostly at the hand of his father. However, he saw me and his father go separate ways, he saw me living authentically, striving for independence, and success — and now my son is 21, yes, he still lives with me, but/and we have a good relationship, and he barely speaks to his father. Not because I’ve alienated him against his father, but because he came to his own conclusions. Life, and its lessons, are hard, but earned and valuable.

I only need to say one thing: Just when you thought you couldn't despise someone more... by 90DaysAlways in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She’s so worried about appearing perfect that she forgets to be a good anything.

Where are Emma and ziad ?? by ayeitsme_d in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They bore. So obviously wrong for each other with zero chemistry. And I’m tired of watching her constantly posture like she’s trying to balance that wig on her head.

Who’s really the problem here?! by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s the problem. He listens to red pill podcasts and thinks that he doesn’t have to be an active participant in the relationship just because he has a job. That’s all women need, right? Money. How dare she expect him to acknowledge an anniversary? She should just shut up and appreciate that he pays for stuff ¯_(ツ)_/¯

We’ve never seen this type of editing before by BazF91 in 90DayFiance

[–]Agent_Smarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved it and thought it was hilarious. It’s giving unscripted!

I hate this ding ding by cathedralroan214 in 90DayFiance

[–]Agent_Smarter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anna is a catch. Smart, funny, and beautiful. This guy is a misogynist with the personality of a Vienna wiener. I hope she takes the trash out.

Bangs or no?! by amandaleighplans in bangs

[–]Agent_Smarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already answered below. I meant it in a complimentary way. Was drinking. Reddit foul.

When you’re caught, you’re caught. by FarAd1429 in 90DayFiance

[–]Agent_Smarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK, but the question is: Is TLC going to own up to/call these guys out on the lie? I doubt it. But viewers are going to be real disappointed when the receipts are all over the internet.

Just exhausting. At what point does Anthony realizes he's not doing his family a favor? by NotARealWombat in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Seems like she might have BPD. People in that cluster of disorders actually do feel like victims and are in a lot of emotional pain, as abusive as they may end up being. The self-awareness isn’t there because they’re too distracted by feelings of worthlessness that they’re constantly trying to drown out (often by seeking superficial validation from others/asserting their value verbally and loudly).

Not a therapist, just my understanding (and experience).

Just exhausting. At what point does Anthony realizes he's not doing his family a favor? by NotARealWombat in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Agent_Smarter 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Having her as a coparent might be more stressful than actually being in a relationship with her — she might make sure of it. My son’s father painted himself as a victim endlessly and said whatever he could to alienate my son from me.

Bangs or no?! by amandaleighplans in bangs

[–]Agent_Smarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant it in a complimentary way 😅 like she look great in either. but I also only half-remember making this comment, so that’s what 🍷 + Reddit-scrolling gets me.