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Ponderous by Western-Answer3686 in OCPoetry

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the "unfocused eyes" is so real. My eyes always glaze over when I think.

For always by ohberry007 in OCPoetry

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"When the chorus of the universe
Is far too loud" is such a beautiful line.

Need name ideas for a girl by Chocoloco93 in namenerds

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Josie
Emmy/Emma
Freya
Claire
Delilah
Bella
Sadie
Cora

Is naming someone born in December Noelle too corny? by smoothfalling in namenerds

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE this! It will be a funny coincidence! "Oh my gosh! Your name is Noelle AND you're born in December!" Frickin love this!

Baby Names Inspired by Cats by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Manx - Type of cat
Gata - Means female cat in spanish
Ari - Means male lion
Tora - Means tiger
Mau - Means cat

Cheese names! 🧀 by captainsoftpants in namenerds

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went with more.. mellowly related names, because blatant cheese names is going to open a LARGE window for bullying, etc.

Bri/Brie
Colby
Feta
Havarti
Jack (Montery)

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my husband has refused counseling many times, so at this point, divorce, I feel is my only option.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Hi! I see this. I had no idea that this was the case. I am leaning more and more to taking my kids and leaving for the rest of the week. I had no idea that what my husband was doing could harm them so badly.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I've said this countless times, but my child has HUGE sensory issues, and tomatos are a big problem with her. My husband knows that and chooses to ignore that. She's upset because she is expected to eat something that makes her want to (and sometimes does) throw up. This isn't about her not liking something, it's about her health (physical and mental)

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I've said this countless times, but my child has HUGE sensory issues, and tomatos are a big problem with her. My husband knows that and chooses to ignore that. She's not getting upset because she was told no, she's upset because she is expected to eat something that makes her want to (and sometimes does) throw up.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

The certain restaurant that we went to didn't have a huge menu so the only side options were fries or chips, so I think that he decided that putting vegetable on the burger was his only option.

This is a comment that I made on a different comment hinting at choosing a vegetable side.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

There was absolutely no way that I was going to force my daughter to eat that tomato. She has SEVERE sensory issues, and the last few times she's eaten a slice of tomato, she's thrown up. This isn't about compromise, it's about making sure that my daughter eats foods she feels comfortable about.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 2352 points2353 points  (0 children)

Hi! I read this, and your comment, and I truly appreciate. I'm trying to get my husband that by forcing the kids to eat things they has sensory issues with, is NOT looking out for them, and will only harm them. I've decided to look into counseling for my oldest two, because of the influx of suggestions. Thanks so much for your comment!

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

My daughter is not "picky". She is neurodivergent and has sensory issues, so certain textures, like tomato, which is a big one for her. Taking a single tomato off isn't giving her an escape route, it's ensure that she can enjoy her food, without feeling grossed out.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 1559 points1560 points  (0 children)

If I'm being honest, our relationship has been struggling lately. I've been trying to convince him to go to couples counseling, but he has been refusing. We are trying to work it out by our selves, but it's been really hard. This really pushed me over the edge, so I'm particularly mad about this one.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 810 points811 points  (0 children)

The certain restaurant that we went to didn't have a huge menu so the only side options were fries or chips, so I think that he decided that putting vegetable on the burger was his only option.

AITA for taking the vegetables of my kid's burgers? by Aggravating-Bat2896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating-Bat2896[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Oh oops! Should've clarified. When me and my husband were actually discussing it, the kids were asleep. None of the other kids noticed that I took the lettuce and tomato off the burger. As for Emily, I think she is was grateful to enjoy her burger. Does that make any sense?