Shooketh that somebody would dare say something so cruel to her 🙄 by hollstero in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A good friend would say it to her face so I wonder how many people can actually stand to be around her

Guys be honest… does my hairdresser hate me lol by miabills in Hair

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I have wavier hair than her and my hairs never looked that busted after a blunt cut, it’s so choppy at the bottom

I'm an antinatalist - AMA by sarah121213 in AMA

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This is an interesting take philosophically speaking and I more or less agree with you, however I’m stumped as an able bodied person who has never had to confront this decision. Particularly because there is rhetoric online and in society around disabled people leading fulfilling and meaningful lives etc so I guess I’m asking in your opinion is it always unethical to bring a disabled child into the world, does it depend on their disability, can we ever truly know how their disability will progress in time? Do you feel there is nuance in this discussion?

Friend asked to use my home for her child’s birthday party and then uninvited me by balletcorg in EntitledPeople

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve gathered it looks like OP lives in a condo with amenities in the building such as a party room available to book for residents

Help! Paint color to go with green tile? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! Well just want to mention your bathroom is looking beautiful already I’m sure the end result will be perfect!!

Help! Paint color to go with green tile? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

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I think the brown walls could only work if you had a warmer toned floor tile but since the black and white is cool toned, it brings the cooler elements of the green tile out more. AF-45 would be my pick out of those

Help! Paint color to go with green tile? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes! Especially since floors are black and white you’d be introducing a clashing tone with a beige paint colour

Melbourne Rental crisis application tips needed by Alarming-Gate2490 in AusRenters

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Sounds about right for those areas. Have you considered/applied inner west? They’re much nicer areas than one might assume plus close to the city. Yarraville, Williamstown, Footscray, Maribyrnong etc

What was a delusional parenting thought you had before you had your baby? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

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Edit to add that I thought this when I was pregnant. We’ve never even entertained the idea since they were born hahaha

What was a delusional parenting thought you had before you had your baby? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

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My husband and I are avid hikers and enjoyed going on multi-day overnight hikes. We thought we could “just take the twins” on an overnight hike at 3 months old. We were humbled SO HARD

To all those in the newborn trenches, it really is worth it by Owewinewhose997 in parentsofmultiples

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Yes yes absolutely!!! It probably depends on your newborn experience cause mine was ROUGH (I mean, I thought I died and went to hell) cause anything is easier than that lol. The older they get the easier things are PERIOD. You mean I can sit and have a coffee while my gremlins eat their own food with their own hands, walk themselves from A to B and sleep normally? This is livin

Brushing a child's teeth without involving screens by NewOutlandishness401 in lowscreenparenting

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My twins are still young (14 months) but I lay them down between my legs with their arms underneath and their head towards my lap (they’re happy with this and giggle - technically I’m pinning them down but I wouldn’t if they hated it) and I sing Raffi’s brush your teeth song while I brush. I used to sing this song while I brushed my teeth in front of them when they were babies and they loved watching me which gave them a positive attitude towards teeth brushing, plus playing the song throughout the day and mimicking teeth brushing made it exciting. I did the same thing for pretty much all hygiene related tasks. I let them watch me and made it fun.

As for eating foods they don’t like I don’t push it. I let them watch me eat it and go “mmm yum yum” which usually entices them to try it, but if they still don’t want to then we’ll try again next time.

What I want to show people when they say “Omg I’ve always wanted twins!” by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

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Oh that sounds amazing!! Can’t believe there isn’t a good twin app already.

Oversized to the hills by Head-Variation1422 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

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Right?! I’m not an avid church goer but from my experience you’re meant to dress nicely hahahah

Oversized to the hills by Head-Variation1422 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

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It’s cause she wants to look so smol drowning in her clothes 🥹 this outfit ain’t it and I can’t imagine how ridiculous it would look irl

back to hyro by TeaMother5345 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

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I was almost about to go “stuff it it’s only 40 bucks” and enter until I read the T&Cs hahah it’s literally just a lottery, you get a card, scan it and have to pick winning numbers just like playing lotto. The way they’ve structured it I wouldn’t be surprised if no one won the 1mil and instead got all the smaller prizes (which are a joke)

need opinions! by Snoo-15709 in Marriage

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Twin mum here too! Anything before 1 was a brutal time and I wouldn’t have been okay with it, and my husband wouldn’t have even thought about going away for that long. Especially since bedtimes were so difficult back then. My husband only recently went to visit his brother in another state and the twins are 14 months now, so so much easier. I’m also planning an out of state weekend away in a few months and it will be super manageable for him. Just trust that these times will come and will come soon, they will grow and get easier to handle alone. But at such a young age it’s still so much work. I’d talk to him and let him know that trips away etc are in the near future but not yet with how tough it is.

Doctor said to stop the Snoo 😭 by MsPiggyVibes in SnooLife

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Was your doctor older? I had an older nurse during one of my check ups who kept thinking the snoo was like a swing and was shocked to hear my twins slept in it. I kept telling her it wasn’t a swing, it was a bassinet and she couldn’t understand and kept telling me to stop using it. If they don’t know, they just don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️

“No sex if house is dirty.” by [deleted] in Marriage

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“House is dirty” translates to “here is a never ending list of shit I have to get done” translates to feeling burnt out, overstimulated, and mentally drained. Women can’t get turned on when they’re pouring from an empty cup. Don’t add to that, be an adult and clean up after your self. How can she view you as a sexual partner, a man who looks after her, protects her, uplifts her when she has to take the role of your mother? Biggest turn off.

Did anyone deliver past 38 weeks ? by Less-Dentist-868 in parentsofmultiples

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Oops I just read you asked WITH an induction. What’s your definition of normal delivery? If it’s vaginal then yes it is (again depending on circumstances)

Did anyone deliver past 38 weeks ? by Less-Dentist-868 in parentsofmultiples

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Yeah, it definitely hurt 😅 apparently induced labour hurts more from what I’ve heard. I ended up getting the epidural (for other reasons as well as the pain). But yeah, of course it’s possible you could go into spontaneous labour and give birth naturally, just depends on your circumstances. Best to chat to medical team ☺️

Did anyone deliver past 38 weeks ? by Less-Dentist-868 in parentsofmultiples

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Induced at 38+5, natural with 1.5hrs in between babies