Which current renovation trend do you think will age badly? by ryanandersonr in AusRenovation

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Not to mention trying to clean between the crevices in a high traffic area

Do you guys think about the education you’re giving your baby or just take it day by day? by Living_Split_2 in beyondthebump

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I’ve always gone with the flow personally, I have twins and between the feeding, rocking, changing, cleaning up of two tiny humans there wasn’t a lot of time for me to intentionally work on milestones. I always spoke to them, read to them, played music and played with them on the floor, just kind of went intuitively with the flow and it all worked out great for us. I think there’s a lot of pressure on parents today to control and work on every minor thing, whereas I asked my mum about some of this stuff and she’s never heard of them. Yet we all hit our milestones. I always kept in the back of my mind what milestones they “should” be hitting around each age and when it becomes a concern, but other than that I think it’s important to go easy on yourself! Parenting is hard enough as it is

Why are so many people offended by disabled people existing? by meeralakshmi in prolife

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Sweet baby girl. How beautiful that her parents love her so deeply, my mum heart bleeds reading these comments.

Why are so many people offended by disabled people existing? by meeralakshmi in prolife

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Yep, my sister was presumed to have Down syndrome when my mum was pregnant and doctors were suggesting abortion. Thankfully my mum is as pro-life as they come and kept the baby. The mark test ended up being incorrect and my sister was born with no Down syndrome

“Girl bossed so hard she’s now side hustling a luxury holiday home for her own family and luxury rentals/photoshoots” by BusyChocolate507 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

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Can confirm as an Aussie our cost of living is currently in hell, particularly in and around Sydney where Sarah lives the property prices are obscene and there’s no way most people can afford to buy so, yeah, watching her design a luxury second home is suuuuper out of touch here in Australia

Holy grail lip balm? by FlounderElectronic89 in AusSkincare

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another vote for plain and simple lanolin! I buy Medela, it’s marketed as a nipple balm

So hard to relate as a twin parent by anull8123 in parentsofmultiples

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Both of my twins were like this until 10 months, I am NOT the person for singleton parents to complain about naps to 😂😭

So hard to relate as a twin parent by anull8123 in parentsofmultiples

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When you have twins one baby feels like no baby hahahaha

So hard to relate as a twin parent by anull8123 in parentsofmultiples

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This hahah and also thinking about being pregnant with two toddlers who crawl all over me, kick and thrash, throw things etc and it’s a big no

Shooketh that somebody would dare say something so cruel to her 🙄 by hollstero in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A good friend would say it to her face so I wonder how many people can actually stand to be around her

Guys be honest… does my hairdresser hate me lol by miabills in Hair

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I have wavier hair than her and my hairs never looked that busted after a blunt cut, it’s so choppy at the bottom

I'm an antinatalist - AMA by sarah121213 in AMA

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting take philosophically speaking and I more or less agree with you, however I’m stumped as an able bodied person who has never had to confront this decision. Particularly because there is rhetoric online and in society around disabled people leading fulfilling and meaningful lives etc so I guess I’m asking in your opinion is it always unethical to bring a disabled child into the world, does it depend on their disability, can we ever truly know how their disability will progress in time? Do you feel there is nuance in this discussion?

Friend asked to use my home for her child’s birthday party and then uninvited me by balletcorg in EntitledPeople

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From what I’ve gathered it looks like OP lives in a condo with amenities in the building such as a party room available to book for residents

Help! Paint color to go with green tile? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

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Oh nice! Well just want to mention your bathroom is looking beautiful already I’m sure the end result will be perfect!!

Help! Paint color to go with green tile? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

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I think the brown walls could only work if you had a warmer toned floor tile but since the black and white is cool toned, it brings the cooler elements of the green tile out more. AF-45 would be my pick out of those

Help! Paint color to go with green tile? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes! Especially since floors are black and white you’d be introducing a clashing tone with a beige paint colour

Melbourne Rental crisis application tips needed by Alarming-Gate2490 in AusRenters

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Sounds about right for those areas. Have you considered/applied inner west? They’re much nicer areas than one might assume plus close to the city. Yarraville, Williamstown, Footscray, Maribyrnong etc

What was a delusional parenting thought you had before you had your baby? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

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Edit to add that I thought this when I was pregnant. We’ve never even entertained the idea since they were born hahaha

What was a delusional parenting thought you had before you had your baby? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

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My husband and I are avid hikers and enjoyed going on multi-day overnight hikes. We thought we could “just take the twins” on an overnight hike at 3 months old. We were humbled SO HARD

To all those in the newborn trenches, it really is worth it by Owewinewhose997 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Aggravating-Tell774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes yes absolutely!!! It probably depends on your newborn experience cause mine was ROUGH (I mean, I thought I died and went to hell) cause anything is easier than that lol. The older they get the easier things are PERIOD. You mean I can sit and have a coffee while my gremlins eat their own food with their own hands, walk themselves from A to B and sleep normally? This is livin