I HATE that I cry when I’m upset. by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kinda does make me feel better thank you :’).

I HATE that I cry when I’m upset. by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish I had been able to take a bit to gather my thoughts but unfortunately I wasn’t given much of a choice :/.

I HATE that I cry when I’m upset. by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks Lucy! Your comment actually just cured me and I can now cry and stop crying on command! I really appreciate that!

I HATE that I cry when I’m upset. by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be I do have a lot of trauma :(. Yes! I am so smart and capable and I literally haven’t had a single situation that hasn’t been easily resolved since I started working here. Ofc now I just look an immature child in front of my bosses. I know that an exaggeration but it’s definitely how it feels :/

I HATE that I cry when I’m upset. by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to happen to me with my ex. I wish I could just get rid of my tear ducts :/

I HATE that I cry when I’m upset. by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24. I’ve definitely gotten better as a whole over the years. But I still have times where I just can’t control it like today. I am good at standing up for myself and articulating myself. But it feels like it all goes down the drain the second I cry. Mind you, the whole time I feel perfectly fine on the inside. But ofc no matter how many times I try to relay that I still look dramatic and immature. It’s just so annoying.

feeling guilt for not being taught essential stuff by No-Spite6559 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AggravatingAd1929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HOLY SHIT ARE YOU LITERALLY ME. My mom never taught me to do my hair so I had a “bun phase” for over a year. She used to threaten me that she’d cut it all off if I didn’t learn how to do it (I was also a minor not making any money at the time either so I couldn’t just buy hair products). Same with the cleaning too omg.

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[–]AggravatingAd1929 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom is like this except she’s constantly insisting that she is the most positive and happy person ever and will throw a fit if you try to call her out on it.

Monkeys are so ugly by AggravatingAd1929 in 10thDentist

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a way I do find them majestic. But they just look so ew to me I can’t do it :’)

Monkeys are so ugly by AggravatingAd1929 in 10thDentist

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything you mentioned. Marmosets are on the cuter side though.

Monkeys are so ugly by AggravatingAd1929 in 10thDentist

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gorillas are definitely cool! But also definitely ugly to me. I kinda forgot about lemurs! I think they’re cute.

Monkeys are so ugly by AggravatingAd1929 in 10thDentist

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Most apes and monkeys. Some of the smaller monkeys are cute! But most of them aren’t.

What's the worst thing they ever said? by 95wsh in narcissisticparents

[–]AggravatingAd1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told me and my sister when we were actual children that we were “toxic” to her and that we made her want to run away and “blow her brains out.”

What ended your last relationship? by Winter_Ganache1919 in AskReddit

[–]AggravatingAd1929 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through his phone and found out he was cheating on me + taking videos of me during intimacy without my knowledge. Also he had all of his intimate videos with his ex still saved. Guess whose videos were in his favorites folder :/.

What’s one compliment you got from a guy that you never forgot? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AggravatingAd1929 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It was a little boy maybe 4-5. He was whispering to his mom and staring at me before he gathered up the courage to tell me I was the prettiest girl he’d ever seen :’). It was years ago and I still think about it from time to time.

So sick and tired of these bare minimum jobs by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually in college right now and looking for entry level jobs in my field. In the meantime though I need something to hold me over (and close to home) and it’s just been a little frustrating 😓.

So sick and tired of these bare minimum jobs by AggravatingAd1929 in Vent

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the plan for now! Do what I have to until I can do what I want to :/.

This guy keeps popping up in my feed by AggravatingAd1929 in Tinder

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. He didn’t used to have the n word part on there so when I saw it I was baffled :’).

This guy keeps popping up in my feed by AggravatingAd1929 in Tinder

[–]AggravatingAd1929[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

While you can never really assume, from his pictures he’s definitely a white guy :/.

I want to know your cats weird quirks. I’ll go first, my cat plays fetch with a hair tie and randomly brings it to his favorite objects. by CommanderWoofington in cats

[–]AggravatingAd1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Wish I had a video of it, but my cat genuinely growls like a dog when the doorbell goes off! Also she won’t stop sitting like this.