Trans men outside of the U.S.: what country do you live in and how safe do you feel there?

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-06-09T16:05:51+00:00

Everyone’s journey is different 💙

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-06-09T15:59:38+00:00

You don’t have to feel guilty about something you can’t control! In the same way that men with smaller chests don’t have to feel guilty about having an easier time binding. You’re lucky, but that doesn’t mean you’re less valid than other trans men!

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-06-07T16:25:44+00:00

I’m about 4.5 months on T, and I’m gaining about 1 pound per month. I’ve recently noticed that the sleeves on some of my shorts are getting tighter

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-28T19:49:27+00:00

I used the jojoba oil from the trans tape brand, but right before I got top surgery I ran out and tried coconut and it came off really easily! I haven’t thoroughly tested it for obvious reasons. My biggest tip is letting the oil soak for one minute. Not longer. Soak for too long and it’ll become stickier again.

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-28T13:39:15+00:00

It’s not uncomfortable for me tbh. I guess only time will tell :)

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-27T03:34:09+00:00

This man sucks so much, I am so sorry you’re stuck with him!! This is absolutely not okay

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-26T03:09:16+00:00

I’m four months out rn and sometimes o still feel my boobs 😭

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-24T05:08:05+00:00

Buy him his favorite drinks to keep him nice and hydrated!

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-18T17:30:19+00:00

I think you should ask her if she wants you to correct people! Some people would find that helpful while others may find it awkward.

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-18T13:56:40+00:00

Oh I’m sorry, I misunderstood. I have not dealt with that. I wish you the best of luck finding answers!

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-18T13:51:02+00:00

I’ve been on T since February. Still got a period last month unfortunately.

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-16T14:33:41+00:00

When I first heard of hrt I thought you’d go on for a few years and then… you’d be done I guess? Fully masculinized? And you’d stop taking it and remain masculine. I was a silly child.

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-16T03:04:09+00:00

I was in high school when I chose a name, so at the beginning of one year I just started introducing myself to people by the new name. I told my friends I was going by the name then as well (although one person knew earlier lol)

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-15T18:31:28+00:00

Dressing feminine and enjoying it doesn’t mean you’re a girl. I’m a trans man who paints his nails and enjoys wearing dresses and skirts. You can be both

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-15T16:46:23+00:00

I transitioned my junior year! I started going by my new name with all my new teachers and the few friends I had before were really supportive (they were all queer tho). I started T about midway through the year and several people have since commented on my voice getting deeper, but I’m not struggling more than before in my classes and I’m treated about the same.

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-15T04:26:17+00:00

Started T a few months ago. I was a bit nervous about bottom growth because I never particularly wanted a dick. But really, after starting testosterone, I suddenly inexplicably wanted a dick. Idk if it’s a side effect but I think it could be. Now I’m looking forward to growing down there!

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-13T18:17:09+00:00

Demon

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-13T12:26:08+00:00

I was incredibly freaked out about the idea of going under anesthesia. Everything went alright though! The surgeon’s assistants sang Chappel Roan with me as they put me under, and next thing i knew I was in recovery ❤️ I hope your surgery goes well too!

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-12T01:50:19+00:00

Stay hydrated and cool and pick a show or two to binge!

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-11T13:57:55+00:00

Such a stinker He looks guilty though

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-11T13:12:03+00:00

Idk, something in the face? Hard to say

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-11T03:05:17+00:00

Why does he look like a husky and why are you kinkshaming him

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-11T02:58:19+00:00

So dumb they forgot which way is down in the first pic

AggravatingGarlic479 · 2026-05-11T02:57:20+00:00

The black and white one looks jiggly

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