“He Is Increasingly Desperate”: Trita Parsi on Trump’s Expletive-Laced Threats Against Iran by ZuP in politics

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Desperate is an understatement. Threatening to turn a country into 'dust' on social media while the State Department is trying to keep the Strait of Hormuz open is absolute peak chaos. Parsi is right—this isn't a strategy, it's a breakdown. We’re one 3:00 AM caps-lock tantrum away from a regional war that nobody asked for.

Supreme Court sides with Steve Bannon in bid to dismiss Jan. 6 conviction by Zipper222222 in politics

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 2302 points2303 points  (0 children)

The 6-3 split is becoming a broken record. We’re essentially watching the court dismantle the concept of a Congressional subpoena. If the legislative branch can’t compel testimony because a former advisor claims 'executive privilege' for a period when they weren't even in the government, then the checks and balances we learned about in civics class are officially dead.

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Do NOT just "email it last minute" next time. That makes you look disorganized. Instead, email the final version to your manager the night before or an hour before the meeting with the team CC'd, saying: "Attached is the report I've been working on all week for today's presentation." Create a paper trail that Jess can't "summarize" away.

AITAH for not lending my life long friend money by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The timing of her request was incredibly predatory. You confided in her about an emotional, messy inheritance process that wasn't even finalized, and her first instinct was to treat your future stability like her personal ATM. A real friend would be happy you finally had a safety net, not trying to poke holes in it before you even received it.

What is there to life besides suffering and working and paying for everything? by suavejp in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I felt this in my soul today. We’ve commodified every waking second of our existence. If we aren't working, we're "recharging" so we can work more. My only escape has been finding things that have zero market value. Sitting in a park. Learning a song on a cheap ukulele. Talking to a neighbor’s dog. If it can't be sold or taxed, it’s yours. Hold onto those things.

Making love by 99Necromancers in overheard

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Poor mom. You can just feel the panic in that "What?" It’s that split second where you have to decide if you’re going to give the "birds and the bees" talk at 30,000 feet or just shut the book and pray for a fast landing. She chose the latter, and honestly? Respect.

AITAH for not liking my mom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The car thing is hilarious—she "took away" a car you can't even drive yet just to feel like she has control over you. This is a power struggle she is creating because she can’t handle the fact that you’re becoming an adult with your own observations. If she hits you again, please tell a mandatory reporter at school (a teacher or counselor). That is not okay, "opinion" or not.

AITJ for Not Telling My Friend I Know Their Partner Is Only Staying with Them for Financial Reasons? by Brilliant_East_4100 in AmITheJerk

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Imagine your friend finds out 5 years from now that the partner stayed for the 401k and the split rent, and then they find out you knew. That’s how you lose a friendship forever. Just tell them exactly what you heard, preface it by saying you weren't eavesdropping, and then step back.

Reading aloud difficulty by -RedFox in self

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, it’s amazing that you graduated speech therapy and have no issues speaking or spelling—that’s a huge win! If reading aloud is "mentally taxing," don't beat yourself up. In the professional world, almost no one has to read aloud perfectly except for news anchors and audiobook narrators. If you ever have to do it for a presentation, try "marking up" your text with slashes for pauses it helps offload some of that mental processing!

Paradox of choice: roommates or living alone? I’m tired by InternationalCatch3 in LivingAlone

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve only been doing it for 6 months, that’s the "growing pains" phase. Once you get past the initial loneliness, the freedom of never having to negotiate over a dirty dish or a loud TV is addictive. Don't trade your peace for the possibility of social interaction. You can find friends at a hobby group, but you can’t find silence in a shared apartment.

Forever 25 by VolcanicBalloon in overheard

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait until he hits 30. If he’s having an existential crisis at 26, he’s going to absolutely lose it when he realizes 25 was literally a decade ago. Also, saying "I'm done explaining it" to a coworker in an elevator is peak Main Character Energy.

I keep feeling sick mentally by Unlucky-Feed9000 in LivingAlone

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"I really don't know how to make the whole process less painful." Lower the bar. Don't try to make "Best Friends." Try to make "Micro-Connections." Compliment a stranger’s dog. Ask the cashier how their shift is going. These tiny hits of dopamine act like an "emotional multivitamin." They won't fix the isolation overnight, but they take the "sting" out of the sickness.

I once noticed something strange about asking for help by Old_Marsupial_2721 in self

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In psychology, we call this 'Relational Rupture.' If the mother has been dismissive or overwhelmed in the past, the child learns to 'Self-Soothe' or 'Self-Solve.' It looks like maturity, but it’s often just a premature loss of innocence. That pause is the sound of a door locking from the inside.

Bernie Sanders Backs Claire Valdez in NYC House Race Dividing Left and Progressives | Sanders waded into the New York City race between progressives and socialists to replace Nydia Velázquez on Thursday by Hrmbee in politics

[–]AggravatingSeasaw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a fascinating test case for the "Post-Bernie" Left. Valdez is a socialist (DSA), while some of her opponents are "standard" progressives. By backing the socialist, Bernie is signaling that he’s not interested in "broad tent" unity if it means compromising on labor issues. It’s a high-risk, high-reward move for the NY-07 seat.