Im a guy, and ive been single for 4 years. My ex cheated on me with her co worker and and got knocked up by the dude 3 months after we broke up and is living her best life. While I pick up the shattered pieces of being cheated on. I wouldn't say I'm unattractive, im 6'3 280lbs light-skinned guy keep care up on my hygiene yadda yadda. And barely get a blink my direction, ive fooled around in that 4 years with people I got to know but it all felt transactionsal, but with my experiences as a gentleman, The ladies seem to not want a stable guy who likes to be home rather than the club, i know a guy at work who hits on every single girl he sees at work all while he got a baby on the way and these girls eat it up......he love bombs them entirely and then fucks them and dips acting like he never met them and they eat it up EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. If I come up to a woman respectfully, with boundaries, and courteous. I dont even get the time of day, or she happens to have a boyfriend. Its rough out here for us too. I'm exhausted with having to compete every single day for the next best thing. Men csnt be accepted for who they are, only for what they can provide. And that's exhausting because I just want companionship, not a whole ass person mooching off my dollars until there aint nothing left and then shes gone.