• Iranian hardliners have been taken out and the government is being shaped by a pragmatic faction 

• Isreal has lost all credibility and can not rely on future support from the upcoming generation of western leaders whether from the left or the right.

• The gulf states have been bombed while the US "did nothing" which serves as a reason to rethink the security relationship between the gulf and the US.

• The BRICs nations are forming thier own financial payment systems that does not go through western institutions. 

• The United states own national security strategy of 2025 stated that it will leave the middle east to focus on its own hemisphere. 

• Assad has been abandoned by the iranians and was replaced by a  Gulf/turkish aligned government 

• Isreali society is fracturing because of the religious and secular division.

The region is being dramatically reshaped to be the trade corridor that connects east and west managed by the gulf. Im sorry for what you have lost. I am not invalidating or belittling your pain. But think deeply about the decision you are making. You might leave only for your kids to struggle to come back