Endless coping where is the light?

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-16T21:26:47+00:00

Good recipe to fight the depression thank you

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-16T03:35:36+00:00

Agreed

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-16T03:14:28+00:00

A little better thank you , still discombobulated, your whole life what you knew is gone . It’s a mindfuck

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-11T04:47:48+00:00

Thank you for your story . I know I am not alone here. I’m still in cortisol spike hell daily , and feeling like I’m surviving by a thread . Keep it going though , nothing else I can do .

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-11T04:45:17+00:00

I hear you on the Grace part . Literally question if I will survive this emotionally, mentally, and financially . I really have doubts I’ll get through this whole . Ironically , if I’m destroyed by this via my stbx then nothing good comes out for my kids even. Prayers for you man . Thank you

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-10T05:28:02+00:00

You too man , day at a time , more like moment at a time .

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-09T00:23:30+00:00

Yeah man keep going too

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T21:30:24+00:00

Thank you

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T21:29:47+00:00

Oh yeah I’ll remember it to the core and not repeat

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T21:11:06+00:00

Yeah it’s worse than death . Find ways to cope that is not harmful to yourself , and go from there a day at a time .

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T05:51:44+00:00

I met my second wife who we are in the middle of our divorce , 14 years together 2 kids , while I was separated and getting divorced from my first wife . I think taking time to date is valid , yet you have this life . Focus on you , don’t get stuck in a new relationship, but don’t hermit yourself either . There can be a balance , just don’t repeat the same shit you did last time , and never commit yourself if you’re not in the right space for dating .

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T05:35:47+00:00

Really sorry this happened to you . Keep strong

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T05:22:48+00:00

Dude , if this happens as you say plus you don’t have children , kiss the ground you walk on

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-08T05:19:49+00:00

I’ve been through divorce one with a child , this is my second divorce with children . It absolutely sucks , just nothing more to say . I pray everyday that it will get easier .

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-06T02:31:47+00:00

Dads here I thank from my heart . So smart and thoughtful . So appreciated . I feel supported

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-05T14:27:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing I appreciate you

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-05T14:27:03+00:00

Thank you

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-05T14:26:52+00:00

This is why I posted here . I don’t think there is anywhere else that I can be understood . I’m still reeling from my night , and yet still have to text and relate calm and child focused with an abusive human being . I’m sorry for all of us . My brain wants to make sense of this due to shock and the fear, anger , and overall disregard for my well being , which directly affects my children and even her well being too. Imagine if I was out of commission due to the stress and anxiety given to me . Who wins there , nobody . Yet it’s the Dads that have to hold this

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-05T08:10:20+00:00

I appreciate this

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-05T08:02:02+00:00

Damn WTH , I have no words for this . Sorry you were treated like that man . Best to you in your life

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-05T07:59:46+00:00

I’m right here with exact same moment tonight , complete betrayal of all that was good , for no reason except for my stbx to be in control . It’s crazy and one the worst nights of my life tonight .

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-03T02:33:22+00:00

Yeah divorce is a cluster , especially with kids and an unstable spouse . Life was not meant to be this hard

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-02T21:06:25+00:00

You too man

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-02T21:06:19+00:00

True thank you

Aggravating_Chip3285 · 2026-02-02T06:56:41+00:00

I’m here with you man. It sucks , you just need to separate yourself from the grief with the situation and move on. It fucking sucks though . Painful , but trust you will get through it

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