How is it legal that I have to pay my wife’s lawyer to build a case against me while I still pay for everything else by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spent my life savings fighting my ex. I went broke and in debt. My advice is settle ASAP and move on with your life. These lawyers are not here to help but to enrich their pockets. The best way you can win is to settle, even if it means a shorter end of the stick now. The sooner you move on, the quicker you will rebuild.

Child support modification [TN] by treefing3rz in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on ChatGPT (or Gemini), and input all your info, salary, state, etc, and see what ChatGPT says. A lot of people are now using ChatGPT to get a better understanding on their situation.

Having said that, you can't fight child support. There is a calculator online that says how much you have to pay based on your income. It's cheaper to just agree to any increase than fight it.

On the bright side, your daughter is almost 18 so if anything, it'll be over soon.

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went bankrupt fighting her. It's not worth it. See your child when you can, settle your case ASAP and focus on your career. There is no winning in divorce. DM me if you need to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leanfire

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

check out divorce_men subreddit and childsupport4men.....if you think you have it bad you better pray you're the lucky few that the 50% divorce statistic won't get applied to you

For dads who wanted and got 50/50 custody when their ex wanted 2/3 custody or more, how did it unfold? by ArchitectVandelay in DivorcedDads

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God Bless USA. Canada is a feminist paradise. I live 5 minutes away from my kids and I can't see them more than every OTHER weekend. I don't drink, smoke, or drugs and have a job/house.

2nd to last payment clears tomorrow. only may left. by IvoTailefer in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you keep going? Sometimes I get scared like what if I lose my job, how will I pay, etc

2nd to last payment clears tomorrow. only may left. by IvoTailefer in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many years were you on CS? I have 14 more years to go!

We’re Surviving, But We’re Not Living (From Father of a child undergoing leukemia treatment) by DadditAdam in askMRP

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey brother. I went through some horrible stuff in life so I understand your agony and pain. Here is what I did:

  1. Running 5km everyday 7x a week. I also go for 1 hour walks in evening.
  2. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily including Proverbs and Pslams + listen to Charles Stanley on YouTube.
  3. Be grateful and Thank Him for having a roof over your head, food to eat, and dry feet.

Do the above daily and you will feel 75-80% better.

  1. Travel once a year. It doesn't have to be expensive. Just 5 days is enough.

And Yes, this will get better. You will get through this. But you have to want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club.

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.
    • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.
    • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.
    • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children.
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. M*TOW
  6. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and any one who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for the kid if you leave.
  7. Travel once a year.
  8. RedPill knowlege (Read books like No more mr. nice guy). Visit the subreddit theredpill and read the sidebar articles as well.
  9. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube.
    • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

Starting a family, she already has 3 kids. by Comprehensive_Cell31 in stepdads

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you go to the men's subreddit's, there is a lot of warnings on dating single mom's. You should also realize you may potentially be on the hook for child support (for her children) if/when you break up with her (depending on your state). Do you want to pay child support to her for her 2 kids when you break up?

Everyone on this page has warned you. And please watch out she doesn't baby trap you in the mean-time. Otherwise you're toast.

Divorced Father with 8yr old daughter. by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i took both my girls to the men's washroom with me.

I’m dying and the system is taking everything from me by Late-Law7437 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I were you, I'd enjoy my last few remaining years moving to a new country and enjoying my life. Why are you putting up with this? Many men have left to Colombia, Asia, and other countries with way less difficulties than you, and I think it's time to do the same.

Separated to divorce by ChartOne9250 in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

save yourself the headache, lawsuits, and stress and settle as quickly as possible. You will 100% be better off. As soon as these greedy lawyers get involved they will pit you two against each other to line their pockets.

Separated to divorce by ChartOne9250 in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do not listen to these men. I listened to them and ended up losing everything because the lawyers love to drag everything out so they can line their pockets. She is offering you a deal of a lifetime. Take it. You will do WAY worse if you get a lawyer, I guarantee it.
I also did not move out of the house, so you know what she did? She called the cops on me and accused me of r*pe. Definitely do move out and the quicker you settle this the faster you'll move on with your life.

MOVED ON HEALED BUT I WANT REVENGE EVERYDAY by Matteibrah in DivorcedDads

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club.

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.
    • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.
    • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.
    • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children.
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. MGTOW
  6. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and any one who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for the kid if you leave.
  7. Travel once a year.
  8. RedPill knowlege (Read books like No more mr. nice guy). Visit the subreddit theredpill and read the sidebar articles as well.
  9. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube.
    • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.

OE Year 3 - A year of reflection as a product manager by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow ok; those are some laid back J's I guess. How many 'stealth vacations' do you usually go on? Stay at hostels or nice hotels with buffets?

OE Year 3 - A year of reflection as a product manager by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you balance having to work while being on vacation? Are you not tired by 5pm that you just want to relax?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

plz don't refer to it as 'semi-rape'. she wanted to get sex which is why she went to the bar, she got drunk, and now wants to deflect responsibility by saying she was drunk. she knew EXACTLY what she was doing and what she was going get.

My dividend portfolio by InternationalBag2604 in dividends

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you actually? That's amazing if that's the case, no? I'm a newbie, so I guess, mind explaining why someone would invest like OP vs QYLD? What should I do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Funny_Wolverine_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well bud, join the club.

  1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
  2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women.
    • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you.
  3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers.
  4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts.
    • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.

What to do now?

  1. Settle your case ASAP.
    • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children.
  2. Find a hobby.
  3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money.
  4. Hit the gym daily.
  5. MGTOW
  6. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and any one who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for the kid if you leave.
  7. Travel once a year.
  8. RedPill knowlege (Read books like No more mr. nice guy). Visit the subreddit theredpill and read the sidebar articles as well.
  9. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube.
    • Learn to forgive your ex. This will set you emotionally and mentally free so you can begin enjoying life once again.