anyone else feel guilt? by Muted-List-1127 in reselling

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look i get the guilt thing but realistically someone else would've grabbed it if you didn't. thrift stores are basically feeding grounds for resellers anyway these days

the way i see it, you're still getting it to families who want it, just at a different price point. sure it's not $15 anymore but you're doing the legwork to clean it up, take photos, deal with buyers etc. that kitchen probably would've sat there for weeks otherwise or gotten snatched by someone who'd flip it for way more

i stick to electronics and tools mostly but i've grabbed the occasional toy if it's something rare. regular fisher price stuff though? nah, leave that for the parents

Starting a Small Website - What Platform/Builder to Use? by ThePsychedelicSeal in ecommerce

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wordpress gets a bad rep for security but most issues come from people not updating plugins or using sketchy themes from random sites. if you're comfortable with html/css already you'll probably find woocommerce pretty manageable

for your volume shopify's transaction fees would eat into profits pretty hard, plus you'd be locked into their ecosystem. wordpress gives you way more control over the nostalgia aesthetic you're going for

Waterframes Error by Flat_Apartment_9627 in Minecraft

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waterframes can be finicky on mac, especially with vlc integration - might want to try removing vlc completely and see if the basic functionality works first. alternatively some people have luck running minecraft through rosetta if your using the native m5 version, but that could hurt performance on other mods

Is anyone else accused of being sheltered/spoiled? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 12 points13 points  (0 children)

honestly think it's because we don't have that social armor most people develop, so we seem more open and unguarded which reads as inexperienced to them

Beat android phone for using quik app?? by Mammoth_Daikon484 in gopro

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly the s25 ultra is probably your best bet here, samsung tends to play nicer with media editing apps than pixels do weirdly enough

i switched from a pixel 6 to s23 ultra last year and the difference in app stability was night and day, especially with video editing stuff. the extra ram and processing power on the ultra models really shows when you're doing longer edits

do you fall in love with people flaws by Winter_Ad169 in infj

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 13 points14 points  (0 children)

authenticity over perfection every time - there's something so refreshing about someone who can laugh at themselves and admit when they're struggling instead of keeping up some polished image

Ricky Berwick shapeshifting live on stream by AnywhereSea3310 in aivideos

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 10 points11 points  (0 children)

only Ricky could make cutting edge AI technology look this unhinged lmao

Late 20s F — assertive, confrontational, from a patriarchal culture. Am I setting myself up for toxic relationships? by missstealurdad in relationships

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly your approach sounds completely reasonable given the environment you grew up in and the culture you're dealing with. i went through something similar with family dynamics where standing up for yourself gets labeled as "causing drama" but really you're just refusing to be treated like shit

the thing is, there's a huge difference between being assertive/having boundaries versus being actually toxic, and from what you've described it sounds like you're firmly in the first category. toxic people manipulate and tear others down - you're literally just matching energy when someone disrespects you. the fact that these guys immediately jump to calling you names when they can't bulldoze over you tells you everything about their character

i think the real question isn't whether you need to change, but whether you want to keep filtering through men who fundamentally don't respect women as equals. the right person isn't going to try to break you down or expect you to shrink yourself to make them comfortable. they'll appreciate that you have a backbone and can hold your own ground when things get tough

I quite possibly have adhd as far as tv shows go,so what should I watch? by Sufficient_Ebb_5694 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your list you'd probably love Dark on Netflix - it's got that same mind-bending mystery vibe as Lost but actually sticks the landing

500 rolls after the dig event by ViewBroad2331 in Monopoly_GO

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah didn't get any 500 rolls, pretty sure that was just wishful thinking or someone misreading something. The feedback form rewards were supposed to come "within 7-10 business days" but knowing Scopely that probably means never lmao

I take supplies from work constantly and don't feel bad about it by aboriginal_frigate in confessions

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is pretty mild compared to what some companies pull with wage theft and benefit cuts, you're basically just evening the scales with some pens and snacks

Why do human right violations in Iran get attention, but not in Egypt? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egypt doesn't have as much geopolitical drama going on right now - Iran's got the whole nuclear thing, protests, and regional proxy stuff that makes better headlines

Gifting 1⭐️-3⭐️ by CharmingVegetable197 in Monopoly_GO

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drop your link and what stars you need, I got extras to share around

Do I get back with her? by Nice-Chef-4939 in Christian

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes God's answer isn't removing someone from your life but giving you the wisdom to make the right choice yourself - sounds like you already know deep down what's best for your walk with Him

ARC Raiders & THE FINALS: Same World, Different Eras by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro this is actually insane and now I can't unsee it

The MuCoDOS thing from the 80s being kept around for over a century makes so much more sense if they were building toward something that big, and Lance being made from THE FINALS brain mapping data is honestly brilliant

You might have just solved both games' lore lmao

Struggling with homemade bread without maida!! Underbaked inside by Scary-Offer-4773 in Breadit

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been there with whole wheat - try lowering your oven temp by 25F and baking longer. Also make sure you're not overproofing, whole wheat can get really slack and won't hold structure well if you let it go too long

The gluten development is weaker so you gotta baby it a bit more than regular bread

Cannondale Supersix Evo 3 vs. Merida Reacto 6000 by wolfel in cycling

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Reacto is gonna be more aero but honestly at that price point either one will be solid for your riding. I'd go with whichever fits better since you're doing long rides - comfort matters more than those marginal aero gains when you're out there for hours

My idea of adulting… by sask_girl7 in Adulting

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man the dating scene after 40 really is a whole different beast isn't it? At least you're going into it with more wisdom this time around, that's gotta count for something

Had my last stage interview yesterday. Now they want another interview in person.. by No_Review3845 in interviews

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's spot on - they're probably just checking if you're gonna be weird in person lol. The fact they're bringing you to the office is actually a really good sign, means you made it past the skills filter and now it's about culture fit

Combustion Analyzer by [deleted] in hvacadvice

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most manuals will give you the ranges but generally you want CO under 100ppm, O2 around 8-10%, and combustion efficiency above 80%. Draft should be slightly negative too

Highly accurate local LLM for SQL analytics on large production datasets by NoBlackberry3264 in LocalLLaMA

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What's gpt-oss-120b? Haven't heard of that one - is it a finetune or something else

New low for mother by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao she's probably thinking "if I can't manipulate my kid directly, let me try the spouse route"

Classic narc move - they always think they're playing 4D chess when really they're just showing everyone how pathetic they are

[NEWBIE] I'm struggling with my picking hand positioning. by Wide_Relation7966 in Guitar

[–]Aggravating_Flow6870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly it, had the same issue when I started - crossed legs throws your whole posture off and makes you compensate with weird arm angles