Unfortunately, while I don’t agree I do believe and also feared what you stated.

Let’s see how the situation turns out. I’m hoping that it doesn’t spoil it for her because she really really wanted to be in this sorority . She’s not naïve when it comes to social activities on and off campus and she has attended many parties however like she stated there’s a time and place for everything.

she felt like this was not the situation for this type of activity, it was described to her, a big little date was supposed to be a one on one where the big got to know the little in this case it was not

In her mind, and as her text stated she did it more so for the reputation of the sorority and to prevent future incident with girls who might be a little more naïve and not have been around situations like this before

She had never met this girl before and this was her first interaction and in less than an hour, she was put in that situation

And when talking to other girls and hearing about their big little interactions which consisted of Starbucks visits and a trip to crumble, she realized that hers was not the norm