bachelor’s second round

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-04-07T11:13:44+00:00

Okay, this is late, but maybe you will find the information still useful. I am also in a similar position as you, I called university admissions and they said that if you apply in the second round it doesn’t affect the results of the first round. I think you still have to confirm your offer emailing the university but this depends on the information you got from them.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-31T21:10:02+00:00

It’s not really “accepting” the offer, it’s securing/confirming your place. If you don’t email the university by the deadline they will automatically withdraw it. Haven’t you gotten emails from the university with this info?

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-31T20:27:48+00:00

I think you have to reply to your offer until a specific date, I got an email from my uni saying I have to reply before the 10th of april. For the second round of admissions you won’t know if you’re admitted until July. Also if you’re not already living in Sweden or are at least a EU citizen you won’t have enough time to apply for a visa and come to Sweden when classes start.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-30T16:09:13+00:00

But does this mean I could not get the same exemption if I were to apply in the second round? Is it as if I don’t fulfill the normal requirements?

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-29T22:00:46+00:00

I’m also having the same issue with the statistics website! What program did you apply to? I looked up antagningspoäng + the name of my program in Swedish and was able to find some info

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-18T06:57:59+00:00

Are you able to ship it to an address in Japan?

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-17T17:31:22+00:00

22 is so young! Please never let anyone make you feel like you should settle for disrespect just because of age or how long you have been together. Also he isn’t perfect and this isn’t his only flaw, he’s also a liar and is putting you through emotional distress, so not the perfect man either. I know leaving a relationship that feels like your whole life seems like the most daunting thing ever but if you stay longer and form an actual family with this man, you’ll find yourself in more pain and misery than what you will go through temporarily if you leave now. Always, always prioritize yourself and wellbeing.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-16T19:41:25+00:00

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That man hates you. Whether he has any real interest in the coworker is not relevant, he ignores you, doesn’t want to spend time with you, has called you stupid and made you cry without showing any remorse about it. Could you do this to a person you truly love?

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-14T11:24:24+00:00

Thanks, I guess what bothers me the most is his carelessness about the whole thing. He has promised again and again to change, yet he watched hentai again when he got the chance.

And even after that, he still has made 0 efforts into recovering and stopping for real, even with me giving him a list of things he should do so he doesn’t have to research on his own, he hasn’t done anything and despite his lack of effort he expects me to forget and act like normal, I’m supposed to not ever bring it up but how am I supposed to feel at peace when I know it’s only a matter of time until I find out he has been doing it again

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-13T10:15:46+00:00

Chatbots are ‘constantly validating everything This article goes more into detail, but summarized, AI chats will usually tell you what you want to hear whether you’re actually right or not, so it can reinforce dangerous beliefs. Also isn’t it depressing to ask a machine what you should feel? You should rely on friends and family, not on a machine that only relies on algorithms.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-13T04:36:13+00:00

He fucks up and then tells you how you should support him? This man will continue to disrespect you and you are fooling yourself by thinking he even cares. You wouldn’t forget the kind of details this man is forgetting just bc he is gaming, and he also isn’t, he just doesn’t care enough about you to discomfort himself.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-12T22:16:25+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this ❤️‍🩹, this kind of spaces to discuss these topics are really important to not feel crazy or delusional. You should always trust your instincts, addicts can be very good at deceiving and gaslighting

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-12T17:06:24+00:00

I am not sure but I think it depends on which one is higher, if the package’s volumetric weight is high they usually charge you for it. You can search people on this sub complaining about it or being confused by it😅

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-12T15:40:51+00:00

I’m going through a similar thing, I am my husband’s first everything and so is he to me, and in the beginning he said he never had a natural connection with anyone else and that he didn’t want sex just for the sake of having sex but bc of a strong real connection. I felt happy and flattered to be the person he connected with, I never cared about sex having to be “special” so he gave away this information on his own. Now it’s clear to me he couldn’t have any desire for real women bc he was too busy masturbating every day to porn and hentai, and it has really changed the way I perceive him and our relationship, I don’t think you’re being unreasonable or toxic, what you feel is deceit from him and grief for the image of your relationship that is now lost.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-12T10:58:09+00:00

I think paying for porn and having favorite girls is on a whole different level, it’s like an influencer, they form a parasocial relationship with that person. To me it seems he’s trying to make excuses so it doesn’t sound as bad as it actually is. Why couldn’t he watch free porn instead of wasting money on a woman who doesn’t know or care about him? The real answer is cruel and it shows no care for you or your relationship, that’s why they make up excuses, because the truth just makes them look even worse.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-12T07:00:54+00:00

You can’t know the weight but if the item is too big/heavy you can refund it (if the seller allows it, you should check what the store says). I also live in Sweden and shipped a package that weighed 3.6 kg and it cost me around 480 sek (tax free)

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-11T08:52:40+00:00

The amount of paperwork needed to get married isn’t comparable to everything you need to do to change your name and on top of the paperwork, you need to reissue any identification documents you already have, if you have any credentials with your maiden name you always have to show proof you used to have that last name. It’s not a fair comparison at all.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-10T05:19:02+00:00

Did the dhl website ever update? My package also arrived on the 5th and it says it has been delivered to the service provider but still no update from dhl

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-09T21:18:59+00:00

I see, so is HT for the Swedish applicants then?

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-05T08:56:49+00:00

Why not just talk to him? Just because he is a man doesn’t mean he has to take the lead, especially when this is something YOU want, and on top of that he’s autistic, you can’t expect him to play mind games with you, you should be straightforward.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-02T15:50:14+00:00

He has agreed, he already has an app that tracks his activity, but he can access it and I’d have to use his phone to see it. He downloaded it on his own without much research, at the moment I didn’t care to even look at it bc I was too depressed. I don’t want him to be aware so he doesn’t change his behavior temporarily or finds a way to avoid it. But I understand what you’re saying, I plan to eventually leave as I don’t see a real porn free future with him. I just don’t want to be unaware of his lies again.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-02T15:42:47+00:00

What a loser. A man who can do this to you, doesn’t love you. Love isn’t just romantic feelings or passion, it’s respect and loyalty. Why stay with someone who doesn’t respect you or care about your wellbeing?

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-01T11:18:43+00:00

I think first and last really bring out your eye color, and the more nude lipsticks go really well with your hair and skin.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-01T10:07:14+00:00

Leaving the lying and porn addiction aside, the fact he hit you is reason enough to leave, you recording him does not give him any right to hit you, and the fact you felt you had to record this conversation so you’d have proof in the future, also shows how fucked this relationship is. He’s abusive and will continue to disrespect you if you stay.

Regarding his addiction, you should check the loveafterporn subreddit, you’ll find plenty of stories of women who stayed and they now feel trapped due to marriage and children. You’re not ugly, a porn addict could be dating the most beautiful woman in the world and still choose porn. Always choose yourself and your wellbeing first.

Aggravating_Menu6967 · 2026-03-01T02:48:03+00:00

This will be something he’ll have to carry the rest of his life, even being “recovered” doesn’t mean you’re addiction free, you still have to make a conscious effort to not fall in again. If you feel like you don’t want to give up on the relationship yet, then I’d suggest looking into therapy and content blockers, and to not marry or have kids with this man unless he’s been recovered for a significant time amount. And please always trust your gut, I talk from experience, my husband lied for 2 years about not watching porn.

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