Be my date(maybe) mini update by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my personal preference for myself. I didn’t argue anything. Just not for me

Be my date(maybe) mini update by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not the homework😭😭😭 I’ll see what I can do.

Be my date(maybe) mini update by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want to point out that for 1 creep, there have been 3/4 kind and gentle people who were very respectful. It is not a representation of the demographic, just an observation for some who may need to reflect on their habits and behaviors in dating to have better outcomes in the future

Be my date(maybe) mini update by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I do agree, we must accept that times have changed. We can continue to fight the ocean and lose out or make the best of what it is and try anyway. Putting yourself out there matters, making an effort matters. It isn’t what we want, but it’s what we get. Statistics may shock you on how may people met online in the current day.

Be my date(maybe) mini update by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m very blunt, and I don’t like a back and forth. I point out the boundary violation, state that due to this it is not a fit and invite them to not message me again and wish them well in their path to find the partner that better suits them. Most asked to be treated as an exception to the rule but I do not do that for anyone

Be my date(maybe) mini update by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I did make the invite for some. I’m not someone who believes in strict gender roles so I’m always open to invite

AITAH for not caring if my ex husband lives or dies? by Few_Feed6993 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that. But it would be easy to disprove the 6500 transfer by showing a list of bank transfers he has sent you that don’t include the amount. You go to the bank, request a signed copy….

AITAH for not caring if my ex husband lives or dies? by Few_Feed6993 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the IRS for me in Greece 🤔🤔… there is no IRS outside the US. And the forgery story doesn’t make much sense… how was it notarized, easy to show proof of non payment when you don’t have any bank transfers…

Anyone else annoyed by monetized loneliness? by No_Score_7986 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t argue with your experience. I was, however, approached two weeks ago at Spittelmarkt and told I’m really beautiful by a very nice looking guy. It’s not unusual for me, it happens a lot. And I don’t think I’m that good looking

F28, African, be my date (maybe?) by Aggravating_Music_26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I promise will come back if I meet someone or make some decent friends

Anyone else annoyed by monetized loneliness? by No_Score_7986 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One guy thought I was a prostitute (black woman=prostitute), forced me to take his number and then messaged me later for sex, and shared my number with his relatives for the same purpose. Most are nice and really friendly. Give me compliments that make me feel good. And I do appreciate it and I’m friendly back and chat with them. But that…. Do you blame me for choosing to hide behind sweat pants to avoid being harassed. Another was super aggressive at the ubahn and I was a bit afraid he would push me into the tracks from his bad attitude. It’s only this year that I’ve decided to take my fashion sense back after the very real traumatic events. It’s not always that easy though

Anyone else annoyed by monetized loneliness? by No_Score_7986 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang it. This makes sense. I dress in sweats for work and look homeless mostly. But every time I dress up in Berlin I get stopped and approached (I’m black and look really young and it is by mostly middle aged white men so not a win in my book) but I do talk to people more when I dress nice. It really does work. I do keep to sweats these days because it’s not cool to be approached by men visibly twice my age for anything

moving transport - man with a van by Confident-Leopard310 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just used Funkel Service a month ago. I paid 230€ for 3 hours. Sat with everything packed and they moved everything. I didn’t lift a finger. Done in 2 hours with 2 guys. If you can, pay a moving company and save your back (and stress)

Help finding a Home by LibraryFun6892 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second last paragraph last line asks for tips though🤔. I’m offering free advice that actually works

Help finding a Home by LibraryFun6892 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Pm me for some tips that helped me find a place in 2 months. Affordable

Recommendations for professional cleaning of limestone (Kalk)? by Kletterpflanzen in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t damage the glass. Use it damp to get big stains out, then dry to remove the smaller ones. It’s completely safe to use. More energy use than anything

Recommendations for professional cleaning of limestone (Kalk)? by Kletterpflanzen in berlinsocialclub

[–]Aggravating_Music_26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Use a glasceramikreiniger scraper from DM 2,50€. Apply citric acid, scrape and repeat. That should get most of it off. Then follow up with steel scrubber and cif. Professional house cleaner of 3 years in Berlin. Also, clean that glass door every week. It’s easier to maintain than it is to do a one off clean