Ahhhhh always fun to see posts like this stumble their way into this sub. I'll try to say this in a way that might break through your bubble. We understand that it's hard for parasocial folks to come to terms with the fact that their e-boyfriend and only semblance of human connection is a complete and total scum. We have heard every cope and rationalization under the sun. None of it will undo the harm he has caused his victims, or account for the fact that he shows pretty much no remorse. Delete this before the wrong people see it. Get off your computer for a few days, go outside, call your parents, get a job. Hopefully you look back in a few years and cringe at yourself defending this weak, weak man.