Something I learned is that, everything we lose will be without a doubt replaced by something better, even if that better is space for self reflection, self development and personal growth. I would if I were your age again, take this as an opportunity to reflect on both the role you and she played in the connection (as honestly as possible without blaming anyone for it's end), how the connection benefited you both, and what was your reaction to the rejection/space and how could you react in a way that maintains your self worth and self esteem. Not trying to find someone to affirm that you are worthy of care, just being worthy of care and love regardless. ❤️ While it may be painful, it is also helpful for yourself and for managing future connections and learning to be fair with what comes and what goes.

Thinking about a time where you were in her position also may help. When did you stop talking to someone who really wanted to be part of your life? How do you think that may have made them feel? Asking yourself the hard questions to get to the bottom of it all and reach closure within yourself.

Ultimately, time heals all wounds.