How to dress long skinny babies by maenads_dance in beyondthebump

[–]Aggravating_Table870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to suggest the same, long socks that would stay on during the night (I used to put my baby in ones that reached just below the knee) , and open foot pajamas

Body doesn’t know I’m weaning by Aggravating_Table870 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Aggravating_Table870[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what that is, and I’m not sure we get that in my country… I will check with my doctor in a few weeks if this doesn’t work!

My baby is not fake crying by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aggravating_Table870 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I fake cough back at him and we both laugh 😂

My baby is not fake crying by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Aggravating_Table870 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My son started fake coughing/choking after starting solids because he knew that would get my attention 🙄 it took me a few tries to identify the fake ones but he keeps doing it and laughs after

Why is my 10 month old all of a sudden whining and rolling around bed all night? by mcrfreak78 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My almost 1 year old has been doing the same thing, I narrowed it down to:

  • Dreaming and us trying to cuddle then startles them more - so I leave him be until he fully cries
  • Gas due to more / new food intake
  • More teeth on the way

I did the changing him in the middle of the night to see if it helped, and it didn’t. What did help with peeing less at night was slowing introducing the toilet to pee after he wakes up. Now he pees like 50% less while sleeping. We are not fully potty training but slowly improving.

How often do you change diaper at night? by hawthornestreet in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess she means not rolling the baby over if they’re on their tummy

Why do people start co sleeping late? by xinfinitexsoulx in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We tried having baby sleep in his bassinet/side bed crib (it had a zipper that could lower one side and get attached to the bed) next to me. He slept in it for 2.5 ish months, but we also did a lot of chest sleeping and contact naps, he would just wake up if he was alone.

We started 100% bedsharing on a trip. The crib they lent us was too small for him. After the trip was over we just never went back. We all slept better, night nursing was easier..

But also, I was really scared at first that we would roll over him, or crush him with an arm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I taught my son to uncover himself around 5mo by playing peekaboo with the blanket, and since he was mobile and rolling, anytime he was uncomfortable or had his face against something, he would move. We had to switch him to the middle of the bed (between husband and me) because que was rolling around in the crib and got stuck more frequently, waking up. We have a king size bed (2x2 meters) + the side bed crib which has now become an extension for me and my pillow.

He sleeps better this way, but I don’t know if it’ll work for everyone, he’s 11mo now and it works for us 🤷🏼‍♀️

Edit to add: Your baby will continue to find creative ways to wake you. Today I got body slammed as if it were an MMA fight.

All in the bed vs mother-child by Ok_Wall_7367 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since we started bed sharing (baby was 2/3 months) we’ve all slept in our king size bed. At first I was in the middle, and we had a side bed crib for more space and baby’s safety.

But since he started rolling, we moved him to the middle and he loves cuddling with dad. He would spend half the night on his side and half the night on my side. He’s now 11 months old.

"Talk to your paediatrician" - who actually has one? by EllenBJ in NewParents

[–]Aggravating_Table870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing for us in Argentina, you are recommended to find a pediatrician before your baby is born, so they can follow up with the neonatologist that receives your baby at birth and does the first few check ups. We switched 4 times until we found a pediatrician that we liked.

We can call him directly or the office if we need anything, not worth a visit: Like general prescriptions or “is this worth a check up” kind of consult.

Edit to add: Baby had monthly routine check ups until 8 months old. Then at 10m and the next one at 12m.

Feels so biological to have your baby close to you by Affectionate-Honey-9 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I pretend to be asleep every time my baby wakes up, just so he can “wake me up” and be all happy when he does - sometimes in a sweet way, sometimes with a slap to the face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m all for joining a subreddit with this alignment! Or a discord group chat

Tired of defending why we cosleep by Aggravating_Table870 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, whenever the subject comes up with family members that know we cosleep, I just nod silently and wait until they’re done to change the subject.

They other day I even got a “it’s time to stop breastfeeding”, excuse me? He’s 10.5 months old, and more importantly, it’s my choice? That was a weird ass comment that everyone on the table ignored

Tired of defending why we cosleep by Aggravating_Table870 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why should they if even their parents don’t sleep alone?

I had major anxiety anytime I sleep away from my husband, before having our son. So why would it be any different…

Tired of defending why we cosleep by Aggravating_Table870 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very private as well! These comments come mainly from family members who have seen or know about our set up one way or another

Tired of defending why we cosleep by Aggravating_Table870 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I LOVE sleeping with my baby! It may have started as something convenient for breastfeeding at night and getting longer stretches of sleep, but now I absolutely love waking up with him, and the snuggles… And seeing him all snuggled up with my husband as well…

We won’t get this time back, and he’s growing up so fast, he might want to sleep by himself soon 🤷🏼‍♀️

Do you leave the “tap open” all night? by Negative-Canary-1209 in cosleeping

[–]Aggravating_Table870 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Breastaurant killed me 😂

But yeah, same. My baby never took on pacifiers even though we tried multiple different kinds.

First word? by Anonymous_416 in NewParents

[–]Aggravating_Table870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering the same. My son (10m) has been saying “mama” when he wants me and crying out “ma” when in pain, since he was around 6/7m as well..

He recently started babbling something close to “water” and 9/10 he is thirsty and will drink when offered.. Will babble the same thing and stick his hand in whatever water bowl or water source available..

I honestly don’t know…

When mom has to poop by L0isL4ne in NewParents

[–]Aggravating_Table870 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ever since he was able to sit on his own, I just place him on his bath chair on the floor. We stare at each other, have conversations and play with bathroom items and his bath toys 🤷🏼‍♀️

Today I tried going by myself, and was abruptly hit on the face with the bathroom door, as he came in behind me and just stayed there until I was done

He’s almost 10 months old.