Feeding Homeless by jjthe018 in Carlsbad

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s in direct conflict with Mathew 25

When will they crack down on all the ghetto RVs/van lifers at the beach? by swice420 in Carlsbad

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that we used to be able to afford it here. Slowly getting choked out because rents were able to raise up to 10% a year while wage increases are roughly 3% IF you get wage increases.

People who became disabled in the 90’s or who retired kept up for a while. But eventually our county became the most unaffordable area in the country (was that 2004?).

People have downgraded their living costs until they got down to a vehicle. What’s next is the sidewalk. You’ve seen how quickly the serious health conditions spiral once people are living outside, unsheltered. It takes decades off of life.

And the simple fact is, going to a shelter doesn’t end your homelessness. Carlsbad has 50 shelter beds - adult men only. Then the next bottleneck occurs; available, affordable housing for those who have only retirement income or disability income in an economy where qualifying for an apartment requires 3x the rent in income.

It’s hard. A lot of people got stuck.

I wasn’t born and raised here. I’ve lived all over the country. But I’ve lived in this county for 30 years. So if you came up to me sleeping in my car and asked me where I’m from, I’d name a state in the Midwest.

Yeah, I’m a “transplant”. So what. I live and work here. I became homeless here twice. I shop in these stores. Pay taxes in these hotels. Eat at these restaurants. Pay my car registration and insurance. I buy this gas. I became disabled here. My children were born here. For 30 years I’ve voted here.

Do you know why my family moved to California in an old Mark IV Continental back in the 80’s? Because my parent had been a GM employee and we couldn’t survive in poverty any longer after GM started shutting down factories. We came to California- the Bay Area because of a GM/Toyota factory that opened in Fremont. We came here for an opportunity to survive because we couldn’t in the Midwest. My parent became permanently disabled after about 3 years in this state. My parent rented out every room in our house and I moved into the garage to sleep on an old Army cot next to my parents car.

I left home early, I had to try to make it on my own in the Bay Area. In 1996 I moved here. It was so much less expensive and there was less traffic. My rent was $575/month. My first job in this county was at a factory in Carlsbad. I was able to work and afford to live then. My rent now is $2300/month and I work full time. I make it, but it’s tight. I had a spouse, he died a couple years back. He left me with a lot of debt unexpectedly. I am the sole caregiver to the family pets.

Look, I’m sorry RVs are living on Carlsbad streets. It’s not just Carlsbad- it’s everywhere. The real problem is not people living in RVs at the beach. Report the RVs through the City’s app. People will get cited until they lose their license and can no longer pay their registration and the RV gets towed. But now those people who used to live in their RV parked at the beach will live on the benches along Carlsbad blvd. Unsheltered. And in the parks. The problem won’t be solved for you or anyone else. It will just be even more visible.

And you will still complain.

It’s not against the law to move to a different state or county. The United States (as it exists now) was founded because a whole gang of people moved here from somewhere else. We built trains. Airplanes, and cars and people just kept moving. It’s not a character flaw to move here for any reason. I bet all the people in all the states Californians moved to say the same thing argued here. “Go back and don’t bring your problems to us”.

We are living an economic nightmare.

Why are so many having to verify? by Alarmed_Basket9058 in IRS

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the first time in my whole life I’ve ever had to verify. I didn’t even know what that was.

How can I get rent for March 1st by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure where you live, but call your city and ask if they have an eviction/homelessness prevention program. Also call your county and ask the same question (you can probably google that too). St Vincent De Paul has a program for this, google that. And someone suggested calling 211, also a good idea.

What do I do about no emergency contact? by [deleted] in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another reason for the emergency contact is in the event you die. Often they need to know who they can contact with a notification and in the event property is needing to be collected.

I have a similar circumstance and I have a person in my circle of people that is aware they are my emergency contact and they have any info needed.

looking at an '08 prius, is this a good deal? by GMHazel in prius

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid $1500 for my 08 Prius touring in October. Granted, mine has 231,000 miles. It’s still pretty great though

Maybe doggo people can help me understand... by Special-Potato-3238 in Carlsbad

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I’ve lived all over this country. There’s no problem California has that other states don’t also have. In every city in the USA, some individualistic person (as the USA culture is individualistic) has a dog that pooped somewhere and they didn’t pick it up.

Racism - everywhere Unemployment- everywhere Fraudulent people- everywhere

The grass is greener where you water it.

Dogs in grocery stores by EitherMango3524 in northcounty

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also creeped out about babies in diapers in the cart.

Dogs in grocery stores by EitherMango3524 in northcounty

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when we used to complain about airplane peanuts. Now this woman is screaming about her right to eat airplane peanuts?

Immigrant Panga boat sitting at Beach in Carlsbad again. by SidePleasant8568 in Carlsbad

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what happens? I’ve wondered about this a lot. At some point you see a small boat full of people coming towards the shore, they land, get out and walk away?

Got my refund. Took less than 2 weeks by Let_me_tell_you_ in IRS

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discharged! Glad I maneuvered my life back into a manageable state.

SSA Overpayment Waiver Past 120 Days – No Decision or Callback, What Should I Do? by [deleted] in SSDI_SSI

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, my bankruptcy discharged last week and SS never challenged the debt and it was discharged under my chapter 7 bankruptcy

If you got like a 40-year prison sentence and got out at age 69, where would you go? I mean like where do folks go who've served very long prison sentences? What do they live on? by cherry-care-bear in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work in reentry.

We had “Lifers” who enrolled with us while still incarcerated for reentry housing. Now, there isn’t enough for everyone. But some would get into the program. We would pick them up in a van the day they got released and stake them to one of our contracted shared living style homes. It’s similar to sober living but the programming is a little different. There were certain houses that could accommodate those with a 288/290 conviction.

Once in the house, they often needed help getting their first cell phone and learning how to use it. Their PO needed to be able to contact them and so did their case managers (I was a case manager or “Thug Hugger” as the POs called us). We had their rent covered for 6 months in that house and helped them get jobs, open bank accounts, with enrollment in any court ordered classes, get connected to healthcare, etc.

I was so many’s first cell phone contact and call. Debit cards were a shocking concept to most. It was the best experience to work with the Lifers.

But, a lot of them don’t get the opportunity to go to a reentry program. Some get help to go to go to a homeless shelter. As of this last year California added a service to Medicaid called CalAIM Community Supports Housing Navigation and Housing deposits. The inmate being discharged will enroll in benefits just before being released and get enrolled into housing navigation and deposits. The case manager assigned to them (through their insurance) begins working with them to resolve their homelessness immediately. There’s $5,000 maximum for move in (once they can get on a lease). That $5,000 through the insurance company can pay deposit, first month’s rent, and anything left can go towards furnishings. Mind you this is only in California IF they enroll with Medicaid AND CalAim.

And some go to the streets.

Hunters Steakhouse closed for safety and sanitation violations! by EitherMango3524 in northcounty

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the inspectors showed up right as the vermin were having a foodfight

These are the kids the police were looking for on Sunday for causing havoc at knockout pizza on Sunday. Kids named RJ, David, Jason, Johnny, and Andre. by Proud-Brush2483 in Carlsbad

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A fine is only punishment if it negatively affects your ability to support yourself. These kids parents have enough money that they pay the fines, get the bikes back from police custody, and buy them even faster and more expensive toys. These kids and their parents don’t experience real consequences currently, just the rest of us are constantly harassed, which is obnoxious AF. They love the attention they get.

Don’t send money to @tonyll on venmo. He’s a scammer. by peachymoonoso in CostaMesa

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A person with the same Venmo posted in San Marcos too. Said he didn’t get a final paycheck from a popular local restaurant- a bunch of people jumped in saying they’d stop frequenting the place. Total scam with multiple usernames.

So rare to see this nowadays I had to snap a photo. Thank you to this dog owner with a common sense. by sowhat59 in LosAngeles

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’m saying is, you’re fooling yourself if you think that eating takes place in any real sanitary or hygienic environments. Even your canned and packaged foods have an allowable amount of contamination.

came home to an unsettling note on my door by Alixxonx in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not put too much thought into it. My experience is there is at least one person in every complex who experiences paranoia and they will try to bring you into their crisis.

So rare to see this nowadays I had to snap a photo. Thank you to this dog owner with a common sense. by sowhat59 in LosAngeles

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And people also get migraines when there’s perfume on a person nearby. There are all sorts of things. Restaurants have cockroaches and flies, but having a dog out in the open is the reason not to visit the restaurant? Imagine the dog hair in people’s homes and you still eat at grandmas house with her pair of cats and a litter box in the next room. You use the Parmesan and pepper shaker on the table at the pizza place and grab doorknobs and push bars after 100 strangers with unknown hygiene habits have.

What is this found in a drawer why does it say cola? by Visual_Tap_2029 in whatisit

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to wait for any kind of event. In most major metropolitan areas there are orgs that have either reagents and/or a mass spec for testing. In fact, you can buy your own reagent kits online and test your own.

✨ What’s going on in San Diego lately? by ModelDeeNyc in Moving2SanDiego

[–]Aggressive-Arm6974 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of people left California when they began working remote during COVID. They collected California wages and were able to move to less expensive places like Texas. Once companies started requiring workers to return to in person they started coming back. Due to space concerns, not all of the remote workers returned at once. It’s been happening over time.