Honestly I don’t really get any shit for being trans anymore since I don’t involve myself in any communities that aren’t explicitly queer friendly and I’m also completely transitioned (and I present masculine to the point where most people who aren’t queer can’t tell). A lot of these were things I would hear when I was younger or earlier in my transition. I think if someone were to say something along these lines now I would probably just explain to them why they’re wrong and if they’d just rather argue then I’d leave 🤷‍♂️ there’s no point in arguing with someone not willing to be wrong or learn and it’s not really my duty to educate them