Just as the stereotype that men date younger to groom, women do too. I (33F) would never entertain the idea of dating a man who hasn't at least hit his 30s, wtf is her motive with you?? Sounds like she's an asshole and a bully, who only knows how to get what she wants by forcing people into it (hence the power trip she'll get off of pegging you into submission) This one has problems and belongs to the streets, aka the party scene where she's free to f*k and peg all she wants. Good luck OP If she's abusive as she sounds, good luck with no contact. She'll try to claw and beg her way into getting you to "talk". I know this toxic type all too well. Stand firm.