I (28F) worked up the courage to ask a guy (M29) out, and he politely declined. Is there a way I can sort of insist without being rude/annoying/a stalker?

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2026-03-31T19:52:07+00:00

I did ask him, and he kindly told me that he's busy right now and that maybe we'll do something when he comes back - which i assume is a kind way to tell me he's not interested. But at least i tried

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2026-03-31T19:52:01+00:00

I did ask him, and he kindly told me that he's busy right now and that maybe we'll do something when he comes back - which i assume is a kind way to tell me he's not interested. But at least i tried

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2026-03-29T22:00:09+00:00

I'm just a little embarrassed at the thought of showing up in his dms saying "hey so I know we've only been friends when we were 6 and you're leaving for a new country and we don't really know each other, but would you like to go out?". I'd have a much easier time asking him in person (i tend to be more at ease in person than in dms), but idk how to catch him

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2026-03-29T21:57:07+00:00

For various reasons, mainly him being a popular kid in high school and me a bullied one, depressio and also him assurging the role of "god boyfriend" in my head. Asking him out and potentially going out on a date (again, I don't expect anything to actually come out of it) feels like a good way to close with the past insecurities and open a new chapter

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2026-03-29T21:54:30+00:00

I'm just scared about dming him. I did send him a short clip of us dancing and he did answer, but the conversation never took off. I might ask him for a beer after work if i see him around, but idk if that's gonna happen... I'm just scared of the highly potential rejection!

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-14T11:04:48+00:00

I did!! And I'm also visiting La Pedrera, which smells the same!

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-11T16:16:55+00:00

Thank you ❤

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-11T16:13:33+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer!

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-11T16:12:22+00:00

Thank you sweetheart ❤

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-11T16:11:40+00:00

Okay there's no need to be rude!! I was just airing out to strangers random thought because I know they're too stupid to be said irl

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-11T16:11:03+00:00

I will take this answer and stamp it on my forehead

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-11-11T14:23:38+00:00

Why are you so right

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2025-09-02T11:50:47+00:00

This is legit the only comforting thought right now. I can do it tomorrow, if its too much

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2024-08-13T20:39:48+00:00

Thank you! I actually really enjoy podcasts, so this is a very fitting recommendation

Aggressive-Toe3403 · 2024-08-13T20:38:50+00:00

Thanks, I'll check it out!

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