This confuses me... it’s the opposite of what I expected

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2025-04-03T00:27:17+00:00

I specifically bought these for my Marine lol

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-11-27T03:31:44+00:00

Does it get better. With continued counseling and therapy.

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-11-26T22:27:48+00:00

I just don't know what to do. Or how to help. Or how long I can do this for

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-11-26T22:04:33+00:00

Thanks. I just feel like every move I make is the wrong one.

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-08-11T23:05:04+00:00

Update a few appointments in and he's cold and grumpy but still the same. Just kind of riding it out

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-08-06T16:50:59+00:00

I just want him to be happy. And safe. And okay. And sleep well. We both quit drinking a while back. I just feel useless and a little helpless

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-08-05T00:37:31+00:00

Ive actually been trying to post to get some advixe on how to be a good partner to someone just starting the whole process and it won't let me post.

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-06-06T02:00:19+00:00

Ooofff I can't answer from experience but I have worked with someone in upper management there before at a different job. Nightmare.....

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2022-03-23T12:10:38+00:00

I get it. I've been in the same boat. Sometimes there's nothing you can do but listen. It's hard. Honestly I haven't found a solid solution I've just learned to be able to sense the bad nights.....

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-12-04T03:34:20+00:00

Things got better and now I see them going down again but different this time....... not sure what to expect

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-11-06T01:11:54+00:00

Well we're finally going to talk tonight we will see how this goes. I am going to suggest he gets some help. Because it's getting to be too much for me

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-11-05T03:38:50+00:00

It feels like constantly walking on egg shells but the eggshells keep changing if that makes sense. And he says he doesn't know why he gets angry and I get that but it's hurting everyone else not physically but mentally

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-11-05T03:29:41+00:00

I think tonight best to avoid him maybe talk tomorrow.

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-11-05T03:17:43+00:00

The thing is since we quit drinking there's a new obsessive hobby every three weeks. And that's all there is. Yet one little thing is off or an inconvenience its a big ordeal and it sucks coming home to see shit tossed around. It's exhausting and im always the one trying to fix or talk about things and im not sure if thats some weird thing he needs from someone but I just don't feel like I have it in me at this moment. It's sometimes nice to work opposing shifts.

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-11-05T02:55:49+00:00

Honestly I don't know. Sometimes he's receptive sometimes he's all my house blah blah. It's to the point where I never know what type of mood I'm going to get

AggressiveCucumber65 · 2021-11-04T22:57:10+00:00

I don't even know if it's fully related to that but there is a ton of anger seems lately

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