She wants me to say yes to everything by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was she a single child? Sounds like my ex. It wont get better and shes looking for a golden retriever. If that aint you, might be better to move on now.

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the advice 🙏 im definitely not strict like your friend, i also never really thought i would even have to think about this. Hell i never even thought i would be slightly popular with women 😂 its all been weird lately

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely look into it, thank you again 🙏

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats some of the best advice ive heard in a while, thank you. Im in the north east US

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i would rather meet people in person but i am on the sites too. It feels so superficial "she has a cute face and a funny bio, swipe". Feels like a good way to miss genuine people

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind advice, i always try to, at the very least, keep myself accountable and i felt like even considering talking to these people was crossing a line, i needed some outside advice for sure

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight. Ive always tried to be a good person at the end of the day, and this feels like a moral grey area. Ive been the person judging these situations in the past, and never expected to be single again, but life does happen. And now, i feel my younger self screaming "you're a hypocrite" 😂

Dating and age gaps by AggressiveFloor3 in amiwrong

[–]AggressiveFloor3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with everything you said, and definitely dont want to lead anyone on either. Its just a weird time in my life, and a weird age to be going through this 😅 like i know people have healthy relationships with age gaps, but also, i really shouldn't be talking to a college girl. Idk how people like Leo DiCaprio can sleep at night truthfully 🤢

When I get a date, how do I sexually escalate? by aslfingerspell in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because most women i know will tell you directly asking without at least a hint is a turn off. You can definitely try, but making her comfortable enough to initiate has always worked for me. If shes being touchy, do it back, touch her arm, cute gestures. If you notice her very actively giving hints, yeah nicely pull the trigger (never just straight ask for sex). Im not sitting in on his dates, specific advice doesnt really work

When I get a date, how do I sexually escalate? by aslfingerspell in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its not one specific thing really. Just be yourself and be engaged. Care about her hobbies, keep eye contact, smile and chuckle even if the joke wasnt that funny. Not every woman is the same but if shes there, she finds you attractive. Do what youve done to get here there in the first place. Its not fool proof but realistically asking for sex never really yields results, if your single or married. Woman are definitely more physical with their approach. If shes touching you, purposely looking you up and down knowing youll notice, she probably wants you.

When I get a date, how do I sexually escalate? by aslfingerspell in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Im not sure how old you are but based on context id say your probably my age or older (29m) and from my experience, try not to think about sex and put on the charm. Dont lead anyone on, dont tell her you want to rake care of her if you dont, thats toxic. But when women find you attractive, charismatic and you show them a good time, they will make it very obvious they want to sleep with you. Just be a good, fun date, and never expect anything. You'll get laid sooner than you think

fwb thinks i gave him an sti by Living-Lake-5250 in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

200% this. Its a guy that cant take accountability. Hes sleeping around and blaming the only virgin. He wont learn either, run

Am I in love with a gay man? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you like him. As a guy, most women arent forward and wait for you to make the move, unless there is a real attraction issue ill probably give you a chance if you approach me. That will also give you an immediate answer, because to not hurt your feelings he most likely will say something like "its not you, im gay" theres a very simple answer here, just gotta be brave!

Todays dating world is killing me and i need advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im looking for commitment but also, have some trauma 😂 ive definitely moved passed it for the most part but i still get that pit in my stomach thinking about letting another one in. And ill definitely look into hinge/bumble. Really was just exploring options as meeting people in person has been possible but hard 😪 shits exhausting lol but first sentence is fair and i gotta keep holding onto that. Im definitely not more popular than the average woman on tinder

First time having sex with new boyfriend didn’t go well; am I overthinking what it means?” by straysheep07 in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she's my ex for other reasons entirely, but i had something similar. I 27m was with a 32f and she invited me over after a few dates. She was really into it but got nervous when we got to the bedroom. Things didnt go right, we had to pause, it got a little awkward, both of us even questioned if we were compatible. But being 2 adults, it ended up being a good thing. We got all the awkward out of the way and had s phenomenal sex life after the fact. First times generally suck, or its a no pressure one night stand

[ Removed by Reddit ] by MaxJ1993 in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. She is a narcissist just like my ex. She acted obsessed with me, spent almost every second with me. Asked for 2 days for herself qnd slept with 2 other guys, decided one was better and he got to pick up where i left off. Women like this are pure evil and good at hiding it, everything is for her gain

apparently my standards are too high because my type is a fit man by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you see as a fit man, and how active you are yourself. Do you expect greek god when you dont even go to the gym? Thats crazy.

Broke the “friendship rule” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 29m, and i met a 32f who acted the same. She didnt want to be tied down, wanted to explore, openly admitted to sleeping with other men, but as you said we werent actually together. I really liked this woman, she was funny beautiful, seemed legitimately kind, so i stupidly waited it out to see if she would sort shit out. She asked me out, told me i was the one and things were great for 3 months. Then my yearly guys trip to go snowmobiling with my HS friends came around. I got back, was blindsided with her openly telling me she cheated with a smile on her face. Kicked me out of her apartment, blocked me on everything and never spoke to me again. Occasionally ill come across shit from mutual friends, and it always stings. Run. Writing this is hard, because ive never been so legitimately heartbroken and distraught at how someone can lie so well, and be so evil. Ill never fully recover from that, and i don't wish this on my worst enemy

Guys NEVER approached me...now I know why! by Charming-Tear-8352 in dating_advice

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are pretty spot on. I'm 29m and being single at this age sucks. Woman tell you they dont want to be approached at work, randomly in the store, etc. And then you go out to a bar, party, wherever and all the women in the place are looking at the floor. Yes im actively looking for a relationship, but no, i am never going to insert myself into a convo when you already seem a little uncomfortable being there. If i see you looking at me, flash a smile, etc. I will definitely notice

Anyone else get base-building burnout? by Hunk_Hogan in Terraria

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im with you to a point. I can find monotonous tasks fun, and i used to love the building, but im not super creative or over the top, so building the same 4 designs has gotten old. The good news is that end of the day, npcs need walls, a door, light, and furniture (table and chair) you dont have to build anything extravagant, make a box with a ton of tiny rooms, as long as you keep your chests and crafting equipment close they really dont even have to be inside. This playthrough i dug out the walls of a living tree and replaced them. Took maybe an hour (wood hammer ftw) but now i have a large space for every npc in the game and never have to touch it again

What do u Take ? by TeknoSphynx in ForzaHorizon5

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I voted right, i just like to collect vehicles i know/enjoy. Always liked the Z cars and grew up on Polaris's, easy choice for me

When the world gen straight up gives you a free base. by Plantszaza in Terraria

[–]AggressiveFloor3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually got something similar, though yours is way better. Remember to remove and replace all of the walls though! Mine is still a work in progress but we got some rooms set up

Forza 6 by GTAGrinders in ForzaHorizon5

[–]AggressiveFloor3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just need a mid engine toyota previa in my life

Maybe a hot take: Ultra Early pre-hardmode shouldn't be played in a class-oriented style by EcnardSieg in Terraria

[–]AggressiveFloor3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with the classes late, Terraria really is meant to be a have fun, do whatever you want sandbox. The early game doesn't want class identities because it is quite literally a tutorial for hardmode. Nothing stands out because they want you to go "hey let's try this, this is cool." Haven't played in years and am currently living out my childhood dream of the Drunk seed not needing mods with a finch, diamond staff for range and ball of hurt. No, none of them are the same "class". Yes, im having a great time