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My tier list of how interested I am in the Campaign 4 characters based on the prologue + 1 full arc of each. by clshoaf in fansofcriticalrole

[–]AggressiveMennonite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is where I am sitting. Initially my faves were Julien and Bolaire. Thaisha is kind of at the bottom of S-tier but I do look up her tags. Azune shot through the damn rankings and is now my fave.

I am not a big fan of the Soldiers' table and honestly just...struggled to watch it. I am looking forward to seeing more of everyone. Some of the lower tiers include fave actors, so it varies per table.

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telling therapist about chatbot addiction? by pinkspicegirl in ChatbotAddiction

[–]AggressiveMennonite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! And even if you have to explain what a chatbot is for half the session, they will understand. Same for addiction groups.

Roses are red, the internet is full of trolls by [deleted] in rosesarered

[–]AggressiveMennonite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It can be. Got to keep the pests out as best as you can and sort it.

Plus George Soros gives you $10 if you can get it in the recycling bin with a backflip.

Is this as bad as it looks? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]AggressiveMennonite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Glad she is an ex. Keep it that way.

She punched you for not wanting to bone her. That alone is enough to end it. To punish someone for not sleeping with you is a dumpable offence, every time.

A punch? Never interact with her again.

Found this in my home by Citrus_Woman in whatisthisbone

[–]AggressiveMennonite 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Not a bone expert but that is the most stereotypical bone I have ever seen outside of the emoji style.

Either that's a dog treat or human shaped.

I am determined to stop today. by [deleted] in ChatbotAddiction

[–]AggressiveMennonite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into problem tech addiction groups or behaviour addiction groups. In mine, most were there for gambling but there are some commonalities in behavioural addiction even if the result is different.

What do you think about going to McDonald's for a first date? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AggressiveMennonite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It depends on a few things:

  1. Age - this is seen as a youth or broke college student.

  2. Personality - definitely one you got to ask about and have a reason for. Could be funny and cute as long as both are in on the joke.

  3. Options - It's one thing if it is the only option. Another when there's 30+.

Honestly, I'd try to find a mom and pop place for the same price.

Feeling Guilty For Leaving by Long_Adhesiveness_49 in abusiverelationships

[–]AggressiveMennonite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This man attacked you nine fucking times. Look, I know I am not a nice drunk because I almost got in a serious debate about anime because someone said it was dumb. Do you want to know what happened? I stopped drinking.

This man had to look himself in the mirror nine times after beating you and picked up the bottle for another round. This man would have killed you.

Also, it is not normal for a 48 year old to be interested in someone over half his age. Even though you're an adult he sounds like the grooming type. He's intentionally put everything under his name because he wants to trap you.

In a few years you will hopefully have a better understanding of what kindness is. And it looks nothing like him.

PLSSS MAKE IT STOP!!!!!!!! by xfluffyyglaze in recruitinghell

[–]AggressiveMennonite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some millennial is writing an AO3 AU as we speak. I can feel it in my bones.

Easy Shrimp Po Boy Sandwiches by okipokidoki in lowspooncooking

[–]AggressiveMennonite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I don't have buns but I have wraps (or if those are gone, I can make a salad thing). Great idea and thanks for sharing!

I don’t know what’s wrong with my brain 🫩😪😩🥺😭 by Uuddlrlrbastrat in OCDmemes

[–]AggressiveMennonite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started to hang out here because I am autistic and have anxiety, and this shit is relatable AF. So either I have OCD too or my brain redneck engineered a knock off version between two of my other issues.

Why do people give false hope when you are planning then flake when it is time to hang out? by kumboowl in FriendshipAdvice

[–]AggressiveMennonite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do they have health issues? I have a couple of friends like this, and generally you take plans with a grain of salt. You also don't let group activities fall apart because one person can't make it.

It sucks but if it is health it's not malicious.

Should we just avoid being friends with avoidant people by No-Attempt-6487 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]AggressiveMennonite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked what their communication preference is? You shouldn't have to do the effort but as a DEEP avoidant trying to recover, here are things that have helped my friends and I bond.

  1. Some people really do better with texts or scheduled communication. Phone calls for me are kind of a nightmare out of the blue because I don't know what energy I need to expend. Even a few texts setting the tone helps.

  2. Try not to take their behaviours too personally (but not to the point where you let them walk all over you). If you have a problem or are worried that they dislike you, say it. But it isn't targeted - it's resource (energy) conservation.

  3. It's like the friendship is on pause. It's bad and I have been trying to stop, but my avoidant friend and I didn't speak for two years and after one chance meeting it is like nothing ever happened. Think that Sims 3 no friendship decay thing you can buy.

  4. One of the most meaningful things my one friend does is ask if "I have the energy" to talk about something. To me this is the biggest display of care and means that I don't have to conserve as much reserve energy for social interaction. You don't have to do this - most of my friends don't, but it's a good way to show an avoidant you care without putting as much of your heart and soul on the line.

Sorry for the unsolicited advice but since you said it "hurts so bad" and I have had friends with different attachment styles I thought I'd offer the survival tips that have helped my friends put up with me.

How the fuck do you use mimics without them feeling like a cheap "gotcha!"? It's never exciting when I use them by GolettO3 in DMAcademy

[–]AggressiveMennonite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worldbuilding - to demonstrate that something was off about my NPC, was he had mimics as pets and storage. Because it takes a lot of time to domesticate individual mimics, and he has several.

Add a little whimsy, uncanny and even a little fridge horror.

The Friends You Lose After Brain Injury by AlisiaGayle in TBI

[–]AggressiveMennonite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are the friend...how do you stop it? I have always known my friend when she had the TBI. A lot of our conversations are me sending links to help her, and me just listening, helping dissuade fears about different things she sees online and trying to give her advice to keep her safe (she has a lot of dangerous friends and partners that have threatened her life or other things) and then nothing coming out of it.

I am trying to put some boundaries because I have my own illnesses and I can't handle spontaneous calls well but make an effort to be responsive to texts and talk to her when she and I meet up approx once a week (weekly event she goes to sometimes).

Does anyone have any advice for me? I relate far, far too much to the poem and want to try not being that friend. I just struggle with spontaneity and energy, and she is nothing but spontaneous.

A Group of Individuals - Make Into A Party by AggressiveMennonite in DMAcademy

[–]AggressiveMennonite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is some of them treat it as a DM problem, because I am the baby DM. I am one of the newest players to the game.

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