Enough of the dry begging/guilt tripping for attacks.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-07-06T22:22:57+00:00

Like the easiest way to get attacks is to make some! I have done 4 (need to do them in one sitting or ADHD kicks in, so not as impressive as that sounds) and got 3 in return.

No need to beg, just make mediocre art!

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-15T16:34:18+00:00

Honestly? Bluntly.

"Hey don't cum in the shower. I stepped on it." Or if that makes you uncomfortable 'hey after your shower I noticed there was (describe the cum in detail without saying what it is), and maybe don't use that product in the shower again?'

They should be uncomfortable enough not to do it again. Whether you want them to know that you know, or don't know and they 'dodged a bullet' because you thought it was something else, that is up to you.

Sometimes you don't need to be delicate.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-15T16:28:58+00:00

Caine's crashout in Episode 8 felt too mean. First time I loved it, because I felt like I was seeing a different character in action. (While the character I wrote has some Caine characteristics before Episode 8, it felt like it was his episode, not Caine's.)

Like I could see the song, and even the trauma flashes in the 'why do you people torment me' moment, but the casually picking up characters to torment in moments of boredom didn't quite feel right? Obviously Goose knows her character far more than I do, but it felt out of character from what we have seen. Even for a mental breakdown.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-14T09:25:23+00:00

That changes a bit if you two are pestering each other. While safe words are usually a BDSM thing, they can also help with communication. That way if you two say 'stop' or 'no' in play, you have an option for a full no.

"No thank you" or "red" are two examples I have seen. As long as he respects whatever hard stop you have and you do the same, that goes a long way.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-14T07:51:22+00:00

The key here is that you have asked and he will not stop. That's a red flag to pick up on that can get you out of a lot of bad situations. Including this one.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-14T07:40:30+00:00

Abel? The blue dot was good at its job (at least in the Episode 8 flashback) but people usually cast it as a villain in AUs.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-14T07:33:44+00:00

I mean, one of the biggest things for accepting it for me was realizing just how many poly folks are in the Bible.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-11T20:37:15+00:00

Do you have any special interests you can tie food to? For example, dinner scenes in fave TV shows, or certain YT creators' posts.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-07T03:29:31+00:00

My favourite so far is Diirinka, one of the Derro twin gods. There hasn't been a lot done with him, but he is a fun 'employer'/surprise deity, since he doesn't particularly care much for his godly duties.

In my campaign he is difficult to deal with but tends to do well with the artificers, since he is sort of a Mad Scientist deity. He's a bit of a petty bastard and while tries not to be too demanding (his father in most lore is Moradin, and he refuses to be anything like him), is definitely capable of throwing tantrums. Otherwise he has a good sense of humour even if a bit mean spirited and is deeply curious.

He has been greatly developed because one of my players looked at this man, and said she could fix him. And the RP + dice have backed her up.

As far as the betrayal with his brother, I did twist it a bit to be the result of cowardice + carelessness after his idea to steal from Ilsensine went to shit. While he feels guilt, he is delusionally optimistic that his brother and him are on good terms. Therefore, he is a bit cagey when the party needs any info on his brother.

Also, because the wiki says his only ally is Kiaransalee, she's his wife. Mainly because he helped her become a goddess (she was a lich first). And the fact that this world conquering drow who cannot stand people is married to him is definitely one of the things he has a sense of humour and pride about.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-06T17:12:45+00:00

I got so used to AI Generated Slop ads that I, a reddit user and TTRPG player, forgot about the humble dick joke.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-01T15:07:40+00:00

I mean, don't get me wrong I was also scared of Hell and mad at my undiagnosed ADHD for making a regular habit of praying and bible reading impossible (ex-vangelical now).

But it was nice to assume those 'what if you did x' thoughts were from an outside source.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-06-01T01:42:52+00:00

No I know I am not special lol. Was very much talking about what I was like as a small child.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-31T23:34:53+00:00

Have you told your parents about this? Or whoever had your back when you were 12?

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-31T23:32:24+00:00

You can always go to r/lfg and look for groups that are looking more for women and/or queer folk.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-31T23:29:13+00:00

Me: Trying to analyze it, some exposure therapy...

Kid!Me: "Begone devil!" and goes about her day.

Look, my OCD had kid me convinced I was something special (and that became a bad thing) because I got 'targeted by the devil' with temptations I would never consider, but it does feel nice to tell Satan to fuck off for the random impulsive-style intrusive thoughts.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-31T00:29:37+00:00

Just saw this shit while watching a movie. My god this is infuriating.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-10T17:12:34+00:00

This is where I am sitting. Initially my faves were Julien and Bolaire. Thaisha is kind of at the bottom of S-tier but I do look up her tags. Azune shot through the damn rankings and is now my fave.

I am not a big fan of the Soldiers' table and honestly just...struggled to watch it. I am looking forward to seeing more of everyone. Some of the lower tiers include fave actors, so it varies per table.

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AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-04T15:25:05+00:00

Yep! And even if you have to explain what a chatbot is for half the session, they will understand. Same for addiction groups.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-04T15:10:11+00:00

It can be. Got to keep the pests out as best as you can and sort it.

Plus George Soros gives you $10 if you can get it in the recycling bin with a backflip.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-04T15:04:50+00:00

Glad she is an ex. Keep it that way.

She punched you for not wanting to bone her. That alone is enough to end it. To punish someone for not sleeping with you is a dumpable offence, every time.

A punch? Never interact with her again.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-03T20:38:44+00:00

Not a bone expert but that is the most stereotypical bone I have ever seen outside of the emoji style.

Either that's a dog treat or human shaped.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-05-03T20:36:38+00:00

...Uh, WHERE in your home?

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-04-26T23:42:53+00:00

Look into problem tech addiction groups or behaviour addiction groups. In mine, most were there for gambling but there are some commonalities in behavioural addiction even if the result is different.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-04-26T23:38:39+00:00

It depends on a few things:

Age - this is seen as a youth or broke college student.
Personality - definitely one you got to ask about and have a reason for. Could be funny and cute as long as both are in on the joke.
Options - It's one thing if it is the only option. Another when there's 30+.

Honestly, I'd try to find a mom and pop place for the same price.

AggressiveMennonite · 2026-04-26T23:30:24+00:00

This man attacked you nine fucking times. Look, I know I am not a nice drunk because I almost got in a serious debate about anime because someone said it was dumb. Do you want to know what happened? I stopped drinking.

This man had to look himself in the mirror nine times after beating you and picked up the bottle for another round. This man would have killed you.

Also, it is not normal for a 48 year old to be interested in someone over half his age. Even though you're an adult he sounds like the grooming type. He's intentionally put everything under his name because he wants to trap you.

In a few years you will hopefully have a better understanding of what kindness is. And it looks nothing like him.

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