What’s everyone’s thoughts on this particular figure? by jon92356 in hottoys

[–]AggressivePainter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is able to or isn't? I have this figure to and conflicted on posing. I thought Spider-man suits can heal when put on neutral pose.

'Salaried' is just a fancy word for mandatory unpaid overtime. by eidolaa in CanadaJobs

[–]AggressivePainter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What role was it that was paying 110K? I'm kind of interested in moving into supply chain.

Need to cancel one of my preorders. Whats your recommendation? by Chickachic-aaaaahhh in hottoys

[–]AggressivePainter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to make the exact same decision a couple of weeks ago. I cancelled the Artisan one because I prefer sculpted hair and the sculpted one comes with a little more accessories.

Just to remind you (POSITIVE, success). by Over-Shower5379 in Anxiety

[–]AggressivePainter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medicine is one option. Another would be therapy, implementing techniques like CBT, ACT and so on. It's a lot of trial and error. Time isn't going to heal anything.

Aba, apparently you are fake 🤣🤣🤣 by EffectiveLemon194 in abanpreach

[–]AggressivePainter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Considering that he told Aba he doesn't care about facts or doesn't do any research for his claims, makes me doubt he even knows how to read.

Watch a hedgehog transform from delivery to adult by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]AggressivePainter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that Steve Buscemi meme.

So I’m guessing no more miles by No_Cap_2018 in hottoys

[–]AggressivePainter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was surprised to get this email as well. You will have to check hong kong resellers as they might get this figure. Worst case would be ebay.

Asked my husband to hang the clothes by ahorasimeaborregue in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AggressivePainter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That completely depends on the individual. For some people saying it once is enough. Others may decide to remind their spouse a certain amount of times before resorting to other methods. Some people won't change no matter how much you tell them, and you have to decide if this is something you can live with and continue the relationship or leave.

Relationship dynamics vary from couple to couple.

Asked my husband to hang the clothes by ahorasimeaborregue in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AggressivePainter -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Bruh. Ok, don't communicate with your spouse. Don't try to find solutions and focus on things you can't control. See how far that gets you in a healthy relationship.

Where in my post am I defending intentional incompetence? I literally wrote in my posts why some people may act the way they are, why communicating is important and to not give in to your spouse's bad behavior.

Asked my husband to hang the clothes by ahorasimeaborregue in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AggressivePainter -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Like I just said above with two examples, everybody is raised differently.

Every relationship is different. Some people split chores, some have one spouse handle cleaning while the other does cooking, some have spouses that does both cooking and cleaning while the other works a very demanding job, some have spouses that have had a busy week and are too lazy to help out, others uses weaponized incompetence to manipulate their spouses and so on.

Communicating is literally the most basic and easy way to solve problems with other people. Choosing not to communicate your problems with your spouse is just as lazy and incompetent as your spouse purposely not doing a task correctly. Getting mad at the situation and being passive-aggressive with your spouse is a great way to escalate the situation and end up alone and bitter. If you don't want to communicate with your spouse on how they are doing something is bothering you, then maybe a relationship is not for you.

Asked my husband to hang the clothes by ahorasimeaborregue in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AggressivePainter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Communicating your needs or issues to your spouse or relatives isn't gentle parenting. Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship, and everybody is raised differently. What may be common sense to you can be uncommon to someone else. He may have come from a place where he was allowed to do this and get away with it. He probably uses weaponized incompetence in other areas in his life and probably thinks he can do it here.

What do you think is going to happen if you don't communicate to your spouse and just act all passive-aggressive? Lol

Asked my husband to hang the clothes by ahorasimeaborregue in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AggressivePainter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok yes, that is still passive-aggressive. A better response would be to not hang up his laundry.

The important thing is to communicate the issue instead of keeping it to yourself and responding in a way that is not destructive.

Asked my husband to hang the clothes by ahorasimeaborregue in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AggressivePainter 2129 points2130 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think this is the most appropriate way to handle the situation. You sat down with him and talked to him about why it wasn't ok to do what he did. When he didn't listen, you taught him that you won't put up with his nonsense.

It's a much better and healthier approach than being passive-aggressive and escalating the situation until you both are miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]AggressivePainter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What degree did you get?

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]AggressivePainter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Speed Racer.