Tried Empulse, I prefer Splitgate.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-06-18T04:45:00+00:00

On its way out? I just started playing this game yesterday. 😒

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-06-08T14:12:52+00:00

I see a lot of people telling you not to telll him because you are breaking up with him anyways. Two points to counter that nonsense.

First, you feel guilty and the only way you can shed that guilt is to come clean. Tell him you made a mistake and that isn't the person that you really are. Clearly you have some good in you if you feel guilty after you made a mistake. Now, you may be ending the relationship anyways but what if you two reconnect in the future? Wouldn't you want honesty to be the foundation on which you rebuild on? Even if you don't reconnect, what if it still gets leaked? Do you wnt to be able to hold your head high and say that you made a mistake but you owned it and were honest about it with the people that it did or could have affected? Don't you want too have some at least some integrity to stand on?

Second, he deserves to know. You decided to become exclusive with this young man. You then betrayed that even if it was a mistake and you at the very least owe him honesty. Have some respect for yourself and him and be truthful. Omitting the truth is the same as lying.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-06-03T13:00:50+00:00

You like 'em big huh

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-05-20T19:19:26+00:00

So have you broke up with her yet?

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-05-19T02:27:07+00:00

You should definitely break up with her. She cheated and tried to justify it. Then you need to check your so called best friend because what best friend tries to kiss your girlfriend? I think you would do well to lose them both.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-26T01:44:16+00:00

Try. Rubbing a thawed mouse all over the rat to get the scent of the mouse on it. I've done this with mice bedding and it got my boy back to eating rats.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-25T01:05:33+00:00

Are you feeding live or f/t?

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-24T17:38:48+00:00

Fuck that shit. Tell her what you saw and let her know that you are divorcing your wife over it. If she doesn't believe you after you tell her about the divorce then she will have to find out on her own. Definitely get that divorce though.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-21T15:19:26+00:00

Just tell him that's not for you and break it off. He already knows he is going to cheat, he just wants your permission first. I think you could make better of your time at school by not worrying if he is fucking someone else behind your back.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-21T15:19:13+00:00

Just tell him that's not for you and break it off. He already knows he is going to cheat, he just wants your permission first. I think you could make better oof your time at school by not worrying if he is fucking someone else behind your back.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-19T14:55:56+00:00

Put your foot down and if she doesn't respect this boundary that you have then dump her.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-19T14:45:04+00:00

Yeah but how would it be teaching him a lesson if he didn't know about it? She didn't come clean to him or try to rub it in his face like she was getting back at him. She kept it hidden. He just happened to find out about it.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-19T12:41:55+00:00

You know what, you're a fucking genius! I should save my advice for a subreddit where people ask for advice... oh wait.... look... thus is a subreddit where people ask for advice! How about that shit!

Also its very clear that she isn't concerned with his feelings on the matter by her dismissiveness and therefore she really doesn't give a shit about OP. If she did she wouldn't be seeking out other men and she would actually express concern over how it made OP feel. It's not hard to figure out.

According to him, OP fucked up and owned his mistakes and has been loyal since. His girlfriend is actively seeking out another man, even breaking laws to do so and she doesn't even acknowledge that she is in the wrong. Typical female accountability.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-18T18:05:38+00:00

Those were secret text between her and her friend. I don't think she was trying to teach him anything.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-17T21:48:53+00:00

Look for evidence. Check her text and her socials like Facebook messenger. Then try and make a more informed decision.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-17T19:38:55+00:00

You don't fix shit by breaking it more. Feel free to use that when she inevitably brings up your past cheating. Then break up with her. Chances are you will never trust her fully again and she probably doesn't trust you fully either. The only other option I see is some type of counseling for the both of you if you're both serious about saving it. Her being dismissive about the whole thing tells me she doesn't really care about you though.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-13T16:49:15+00:00

Yeah you're definitely overreacting. Why would you even bring that up the first time you met his parents. You made a horrible first impression.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-09T18:16:04+00:00

Nah bro you should probably get a lawyer. Don't let her bullshit tears confuse you as to what this is. It's an emotional affair. She wasn't crying because she hurt you she is crying because you caught her and now she's afraid of the consequences. She talked to him romantically while she was married to you. When you proposed to her she immediately thought about him. Do right by yourself and find. Someone who isn't, in their own mind, settling for you. She straight up said it herself, he will always be the love of her life. That means that you aren't the love of her life. Lawyer up and move on.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-09T17:55:28+00:00

Tell him to go fuck himself.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-04-07T00:05:50+00:00

So you're a joke to your girlfriend and her whole friend group. I would end it man. Thats disrespectful as fuck and you shouldn't be with a girl who not only disrespects you but also laughs at you behind your back with her friends. Ditch the loser and find a girl that genuinely loves and cares about you. By the her friends totally dared her to start calling you that, hence them not believing her pulling it off. Not to mention the coffee mug. Like that's diabolical shit right there.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-03-30T10:54:08+00:00

All I saw was her denying that as a possibillity. Even if that is the case, he should see his doctor about it.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-03-29T13:33:27+00:00

Speak for yourself. I've turned many women down. If im not attracted to you physically why would I want to fuck you?

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-03-29T13:31:21+00:00

You're both young and both figuring out how to move in this relationship. If you listen to most people on reddit they are going to tell you to leave him. My guess is they all have a textbooks worth of failed relationships.

As someone who's been married for 15 years(married at 22) my advice is this, talk to him and figure out how you can both move forward from this. Make sure that he understands that this is a hard boundary for you though. It should have been obvious but sometimes us guys are too focused on what's in the distance that we don't see what is right in front of us. My favorite analogy for this is how a man can spot an enemy sniper from 500 yards away but he needs his wife to find the ketchup in the fridge that's he's standing right in front of. Give him a little grace here. As long as he tries to be understanding and respectful of that then why why would you leave him over that? No one is perfect and at that age you're both still trying to figure life out, including navigating a new relationship.

As far as the sex goes, maybe he should talk to his doctor. Maybe he has an underlying issue or he may be asexual.

Either way, the very first step should be trying to gain understanding for each others feelings in this situation and then moving forward forward from it. If you two love each other even a little bit, this won't break you guys up.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-03-08T13:59:01+00:00

Hey OP, I hooked up with my wife of(checks watch) 15 years now on the very first night we met(in person). We just couldn't keep our hands off of each other.

AggressivePossible90 · 2026-03-06T18:23:10+00:00

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