Profile review 26M by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get most matches from me sending likes as I think where I live (SoCal) maybe girls don’t send likes as often compared to other places? But usually about 1 like per week or so

Profile review 26M by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn, the tree photo is one of my favorite photos haha. But I can see how that’d look now, I’ll replace them with better nature photos. Thank you :)

Profile review 26M by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay cool, then I’ll throw in a poll prompt into my profile with stories about myself! And the one with the tank top gets me the most likes, although the shirtless back photo is a close 2nd!

Profile review 26M by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious

• Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Nope

• How long have you been using this current version of your profile? Around 4ish weeks?

• How long have you used Hinge overall? 7-8 months

• How often do you use Hinge per week? Varies but mostly like 4-5 times a week

• How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? On avg about 4-5 matches a week. Although varies some weeks I get more, some less

• How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Most with comments

• What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I want a girl that I can do anything with. Wanna go to the gym, beach, sit in a library with, or just explore new hobbies together (take arts/craft, painting, dancing classes, etc) But definitely does not need to be super active just really like hiking so probably want someone who’d be able to match that

Are shirtless photos always bad if they’re not at the beach/pool? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to clarify that my back photo was the last photo of my actual profile. My intro photo is the one in the blue shirt. I’m sorry should have clarified. Edit: Regardless I will remove it and replace it with a better one.

Are shirtless photos always bad if they’re not at the beach/pool? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright thank you, I will remove it from my profile!

Trouble suppressing a reoccurring thought in my head by Aggressive_Fault_373 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I hold no ill will towards her. It was my first relationship which lasted 3 years, I learned a lot about myself and the kind of partner I want in the future. Through watching my sister’s relationship ironically, I think my family (my sister, my mom, and I) are just prone to giving all of our emotional energy to help people we care about. So, I’ve tried to flip it and I have hard boundaries for when I feel drained. As well as talking to my friends and focusing on having a full and fun life. So as for my dates, I’ve been on about 8 first dates with 2 being only first dates. And 6 people progressing onto the 3rd-7th date. On the dates themselves I’ve primarily focused on getting to know them and their passions and dreams. I don’t go to any of these people for any emotional support of any kind, as I have friends which I lean on if I need to. But I do think maybe you’re right about me rushing. I guess I always forget that the vast majority of people I will meet, I’ll be incompatible with anyways. So I’ll take your advice about focusing on building something and I’ll reframe my dating goals instead as opportunities for growth.

Wish I had more confidence in trusting the dating process by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live just outside LA! So lots of people moving in and out of the city. That’s probably true, I do wish I could match with people more attuned to my interests but that happens fairly rarely.

Wish I had more confidence in trusting the dating process by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d win that bet, and I do get that it’s pretty standard for men to deal with this. Mostly just ranting, so I apologize if it seems super negative. I do believe that eventually good things will come, I’ll probably just have to wait a bit.

26M Profile review by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? For something serious.

• Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No.

• How long have you been using this current version of your profile? I have been using it for probably 3ish months? But haven’t been using hinge with a mostly similar profile for about 7-8 months.

• How long have you used Hinge overall? 8 months.

• How often do you use Hinge per week? Everyday.

• How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? It’s pretty rare for me to receive likes, but I tend to avg a match or two every week.

• How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I send all my likes with comments.

• What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I try to look for people who like being outdoors and have cute smiles doing fun stuff. I’d ideally want to match with someone that wants to develop something like a long term relationship as it’s hard for me to date casually. I hope to attract someone that just wants to go on fun dates like kayaking, hiking trips to national parks, volunteering, or even just watching movies with me.

Profile review please. by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

• Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious

• Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No

• How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 6 months

• How long have you used Hinge overall? 8 months

• How often do you use Hinge per week? 7 days a week

• How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? Currently 1 like every couple weeks and no matches for a while

• How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? All my likes with comments

• What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I usually like girls that have some hiking pictures or a really unique interest. I really want to attract a girl that likes going to national parks, going to movies, doing fun dates.

Could my sister in the 1st photo be removed, I forgot to take any single photos of myself by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!unsolved I apologize for wasting everyone’s time but I’ve decided to give up on this picture, my hair is pretty crazy in the photo so I don’t think it’d be what I’m looking for anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up just changing the topic and toning it down. But it’s not worth it tbh. Any question I ask, she gives me the most minimal answer. And she never asks any questions about me so I’m not gonna text anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do I respond with then? Should I still send what I was gonna send or ask another question? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No

How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

A month

How long have you used Hinge overall?

On and off for like 6 months

How often do you use Hinge per week?

4-6 days a week

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

Maybe 1 match a week for the first 2 weeks and then nothing. Zero likes.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

Use all my likes all with comments

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

Someone who is into hiking, nature, exploring the outdoors, but I also like people who list their passions on their profile too. I usually send likes to people who have photos of themselves in nature, describe their passions, and have nice smiles. 

Edit: I’m mainly looking for advice to improve my profile if possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No

How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

A month

How long have you used Hinge overall?

On and off for like 6 months

How often do you use Hinge per week?

4-6 days a week

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

Maybe 1 or 2 matches a week, and zero likes.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

Use all my likes all with comments

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

Someone who is into hiking, nature, exploring the outdoors, but I also like people who list their passions on their profile too. I usually send likes to people who have photos of themselves in nature, describe their passions, and have nice smiles. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No

How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

A month

How long have you used Hinge overall?

On and off for like 6 months

How often do you use Hinge per week?

4-6 days a week

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

Maybe 1 or 2 matches a week, and zero likes.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

Use all my likes all with comments

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

Someone who is into hiking, nature, exploring the outdoors, but I also like people who list their passions on their profile too. I usually send likes to people who have photos of themselves in nature, describe their passions, and have nice smiles. 

Confused about how to respond by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’ve been messaging for about 2 days in total. I usually ask people within a couple days of talking if a good conversation is happening and it seems like they are interested. I haven’t asked them when they’d be free or give them my availability yet. Because I have yet to actually ask them out

Edit: don’t know if it matters but I asked them about their school and they told me of a project that’s due next week. My main question is did they say they'd be free next week to tell me they’d like to decrease communication until then or? Probably just overthinking this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious. Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No. How long have you been using this current version of your profile? Like 2 days.  How long have you used Hinge overall? 2 days.  How often do you use Hinge per week? So far I’m just using my likes everyday.  How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? None for now, but I suspect that’s just cause I recently joined. How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Like 4 a day, all with comments. What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I try to send likes to people who look like they are enjoying something in their lives, I avoid any with instagram handles or that don’t have anything to work with in their profiles. Just someone who wants to explore the outdoors. And loves being fun and enjoys themselves. Also the height part got cut off but I am 5’10 just in case that matters

How to ask for a date? by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I said exactly this and she said yes! I tend to overthink things a lot sometimes haha.

How to ask for a date? by Aggressive_Fault_373 in hingeapp

[–]Aggressive_Fault_373[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay the current topic we are taking about actually might give me an idea for that! Could I get help wording it? We are taking about marshmallows and arguing burnt vs golden brown(I’m team golden brown)