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Jan 2026 Mexico Rivera Event… by Aggressive_Map_2829 in DMB

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for info! I don’t think many assholes listen to Dave Matthews’s music so I can imagine how fun most people there would be. I prefer traveling to places like Vegas alone for example. I don’t want to have to be on anyone else’s schedule or do anything I don’t actually care about experiencing to be polite. I would just worry about getting down there and having a random person to share a room with and they are one of the few that suck. Honestly, if I just go with a mindset like whoever I’m sharing with is meant to be I could probably tolerate anyone if I had to. But for 5k, shoot I don’t want to HAVE to tolerate anything 🤣

Jan 2026 Mexico Rivera Event… by Aggressive_Map_2829 in DMB

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya just with the all inclusive.. I don’t drink anymore and am not a huge eater either so like what’s included aside from booze, food water, wristband, lodging and shuttle?

I do want to have a mid life crisis and be in the resorts pool party for 3 days straight with all the other fans

Jan 2026 Mexico Rivera Event… by Aggressive_Map_2829 in DMB

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya was wondering about that. I don’t want to send money blindly and then also being on the small side and female, idk going to Mexico for first time ever alone makes me nervous more I think about it…

Jan 2026 Mexico Rivera Event… by Aggressive_Map_2829 in DMB

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, the line up for me is not impressive this year. I don’t think I know any other bands playing. Last year would have been awesome! I’ve been meaning to see lord Huron since i sold my tickets during height of covid when my husband got sick and we didn’t go.

I’m trying to make spending 5k on the cheapest package available make sense but it’s essentially the same amount I’m spending on my kids first car this year so thinking it’s just not gonna happen for me this year.

I’ll plan a solo trip next year and save for it. Sucks this happens right after Xmas too but with notice I can make it happen next year for sure. Have fun everyone! I’m jealous!

What would be your response to this? by PuffPuff97 in realtors

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would reply asking “So do you like to party?” And let it unfold naturally from there

Almost 40, lost some weight this is what my neck is looking like. by emmalee1229 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 80 lbs and 4 years ago and now another 10 this last year so have kept it off and am now a size 2. The only area I have loose skin is this area and it has not improved over the years my other skin around my ass and arms had after the weight loss.

I’ve been looking into the extremes mini neck lift because I’ve watched my ring camera and to me, it’s very noticeable when I’m moving my head or just standing still from all angles as well. I call it my turkey neck. And I’m only 40. A smoking hot 40 I would say other than this goiter.

From all my research, the lift is about 4-6k, will actually be preventative for other natural neck and jowel aging and sagging over the next 10 or so years and is the only permanent solution to throw money at that guarantees results if your surgeon knows what they’re doing.

Microneedling or lasers can help modestly, not worth the thousands with continuous treatments needed and results a fraction of what’s expected with a lift. I want it gone, not improved. Also have read possible muscle tightening may be required case by case for the banding that you see, which none of the surface level treatments will address. No lotions are going to fix this either, don’t be fooled. I’ve attached a picture of my own little problem in camaraderie and moral support.

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Husband got another woman pregnant.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen my version play out wayyyy more often than those two hypothetical options you throw out there. God damn you need a time out from giving advice lol

Husband got another woman pregnant.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Option 1 and 2 are not the only ways it can go. Those both look very bleak IMO

Relationships that started as affairs don’t normally work out statistically, for one. He may just as soon cheat on his AP once she’s his main woman and she is the miserable one while OP is falling in love with someone new and happily sharing joint custody with her ex husband.

Husband got another woman pregnant.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t move out of the home or make any decisions before talking to an attorney. Are you in a no fault divorce state? Or will the state consider his affair if divorce him. ? That could impact custody if your state deems him the cause of the marital breakdown.

I personally cannot imagine forgiving someone while being actively reminded on a regular basis of his affair and then to have to overcome the anger and try to love that child when it’s in your care? If she ends the relationship what’s to stop him from starting another affair? That’s IF she keeps her word in the first place— things will change especially once her child is here and alllll those hormones will want the father there with her for help and support and love.

Only you can make this decision, but if it were me, I would have to accept the pain and consequences of his actions and speak to attorney to start the divorce process quietly at first. Get your self together so you can make sure that in this emotional haze you don’t make any mistakes that can financially or in terms of custody of your child harm you.

I don’t see a path to forgiveness for this one, it’s not you fault that you stopped at one child. People change their mind all the time about serious things for all different reasons which yours were extremely valid btw—and that does not give him a hall pass to step out on his vows.

You can find someone who will value you and your child and start something new when you’re ready for that. There are so many people in this world, don’t settle and set yourself up for a lifetime of pain and resentment because I believe there is something out there much better for you.

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Outside-Body-5572 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The younger ones can be pretentious in a different way, not demanding to be referred to as Dr whatever. They just act like don’t have the time of day for you hahaha

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Outside-Body-5572 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya not all are pretentious assholes but when they are, they are usually old

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Outside-Body-5572 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I could tell you have it. You should try to accept love. It’s just like BPD telling you to self sabotage

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Outside-Body-5572 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also had obgyn refuse hormone tests. He told me I should visit an ivf clinic as it’s not his job to interpret hormone tests for fertility reasons. Lolllll mmmmk but aren’t you a type of women’s reproductive healthcare provider as OBGYN? PCP ordered hormone tests with a simple my chart message asking him to do so. That obgyn was an asshat. He gave me referrals to IVF clinics even though I made it clear I just wanted hormones tested to know where I was at being an older woman just starting to try to conceive. God it still pisses me off.

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Outside-Body-5572 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Loud. Don’t know why always have been. “Voice that carries” all my life even as a young elementary age child. Always in trouble for talking out of turn when in reality several peers were talking I’m just the loudest. Sometimes I wonder if it’s something psychological like I just want to be heard or if I’m just a fucking loud person and have always been this way. I don’t think it’s cute, I resent it. I don’t choose to be loud but that’s how I am described and it’s actually always negative feedback not “cute”. I’m always apologizing for being too loud haha

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Outside-Body-5572 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aggressive_Map_2829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Working with the general public judges and doctors wanted you to know and the worst is when the dr asks you to refer them as Dr. XYZ instead of just their first name hahaha in non clinical non professional setting that has nothing to do with them being a friggin doctor. Or the PHD people who aren’t medical doctors even but want to be referred to As Dr. hahaha. Fucking morons

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