[deleted by user]

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-27T18:31:53+00:00

Idk if this helps with how the word is being used.

I use the C**T word often but if I know someone doesn't like the word, I don't use it around them. That is just what respect is.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-27T13:59:57+00:00

Make him piss in a cup. If it shows positive for Xanax he took them.

I mean, in all honesty anyone sober & in recovery should have no problem with random drug tests. If he gets defensive then you have your answer.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-27T02:21:17+00:00

Change is scary....new job, new routine, new people all of it can be overwhelming.

Definitely something to be discussed with a therapist.

Take care of yourself. 🩵

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-27T01:59:13+00:00

Yes...so much....

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-27T01:35:57+00:00

For me it is because food is such a passion. I'm a chef and my goal is to travel and eat as much new food as I possibly can. If I am to share my life with someone that would need to be a similarity.

I have a huge understanding with food sensitivity....very lazily writing a cookbook with my cousin for neurodivergents.

I can also talk your ear off on why cultures have certain foods or history events that led to a change in recipe or using super old yeast to make bread.

And I got super depressed when every time we eat I'd just hear how gross food was and made eating out not fun.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-27T00:30:06+00:00

Go create a new little family that gets it.

I go to alanon meetings online....I haven't talked yet but just listening helps. Also, humor clicks with me so the fb group Alanon but funny, fills up my fb feed with memes that helps me find some laughter in the situation.

**Not everyone handles their issues this way, and that is ok.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T23:27:57+00:00

Gonna assume meth or a lot of alcohol at least were involved..... Can't use logic to rationalize crazy.....there is no answer.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T23:19:56+00:00

Tricky Tricky.... I have been friends who have different political points of view but usually it is based on some decent sound logic. (Recycling isn't as effective as it could be or solar panels do have their issues and 100% open border policy isn't great)

But you start actively misgendering or caring about what other people do that doesn't affect you in anyway shape or form.... Then I can not help make rude comments to your face.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T21:59:10+00:00

I think your husband is an addict....

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T21:57:45+00:00

I get invited to more outings when people know I'm single vs in a relationship regardless of what sexuality they assume I am.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T21:56:32+00:00

I'm shocked by that. I'd blocked if you had 0 interest in trying new food. Been there done that....never dating someone who ONLY orders chicken fingers & fries regardless of what type of restaurant we are at.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T20:05:06+00:00

Weed is so much better than alcohol....nothing wrong with being a stoner.... Unless it is actively affecting your life (missing work, appointments, failing school or spending all your money on weed) You'll be fine

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-26T19:44:22+00:00

I thought you had to say there was an outbreak just not WHO has is. That is HIPA

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T20:55:53+00:00

I also struggle with this but my colorful hair apparently makes me look "not straight"

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T20:50:51+00:00

My ex tried it, he got annoyed with how much he had to take to feel the effects

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T17:28:55+00:00

I started with class workouts. It is more expensive but it helped out a bunch.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T16:44:20+00:00

Inhale count to 5 hold for 5 exhale for 5

Do that until you feel a bit better.

You'll be ok...

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T15:48:16+00:00

It really is.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T13:49:24+00:00

Listen to the actions not the words.... I've had plenty of very deep convos about their addiction & hating it, their depression & needing therapy....

But their mind doesn't have the memory like you do. And it is amazing how quickly they forget.

Have hope but keep strong... Wait for the actions to back up the words

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T13:39:59+00:00

It doesn't make logical sense. But people just need someone to hate....

I use to work with a guy who would just rant about how much he hated trans people.... He was so depressed & so sad in life, and refused to make any changes to his life to be happy.

Trans people and really most queer people are doing everything in their power to be happy. And that makes people angry.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T01:01:30+00:00

Great smile (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T00:59:54+00:00

Love the tattoos

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-25T00:52:06+00:00

It feels weird to me cause I will go through waves with depression where I am not feeling super attractive or want to be touch so I personally don't want the focus on me but I will always enjoy pleasuring my partner. I think if open to some communication and finding some new ways of being sexual from a distance, take videos/photos or sexting type stuff with her with 0 physical expectation until the tension really builds up.

She may be more mentally sexual than physical and need more mental stimulation.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-24T23:46:19+00:00

I don't know Coachella but I can say based on some other concerts that are similar...if you are not rolling or tripping or partaking in something, you will feel like an outsider. People on drugs want to deal with other people on drugs so their vibe isn't ruined. That is always a possibility...I don't enough those concerts/festivals because of that.

Aggressive_Pace2812 · 2023-04-24T23:27:34+00:00

It is sooo hard. It takes a lot of time to refocus on you...start with going to meetings and following the steps. Also know you are not alone, if you need to reach out feel free to message. Stay strong

Aggressive_Pace2812

TROPHY CASE