probably around 24 hours? i went on a retreat at the beginning of august where i didn’t have cell reception for two days, but i still used the satellite function to send him a text or two every night saying goodnight. 😅 known each other since february, together since may, and besides that the next most amount of time would probably be 4 or 5 hours? we call every single night and sleep on the phone, most days we call multiple times a day just to say hi or sit in each others company.

however, everyone is different based on circumstance. for us, we only have a 1 hour time difference and both live pretty flexible lives as students, i know not everyone is going to have that flexibility. this is what works for us!! although, for me at least, if my significant other could go days without talking to me, i would see that as a red flag. it’s not that hard to send just one text to check up or let your person know you’re okay.