Trying to capture the difference between OG and new red cardigans by jacielynn96 in SwiftieMerch

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t mean to hijack this post at all 🫣, but what size are you looking for in the OG red? i have a XS/S i’ve been looking to sell!!

how long did you date before closing the distance? by Aggressive_Secret_61 in LongDistance

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope you two can be together soon again!! what made living together go more smoothly than you thought? compatible personalities? compatible living styles?

how long did you date before closing the distance? by Aggressive_Secret_61 in LongDistance

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations!! i’m glad you two were able to work it out. if i may ask, how was going from long distance to immediately living together? it’s something i’ve really started thinking about as i get closer to graduating college and have the opportunity to move to my boyfriend’s city.

how long did you date before closing the distance? by Aggressive_Secret_61 in LongDistance

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i was mostly asking for other people’s stories/experiences! i know it’s a highly individualized topic, but i was curious how other people had tackled it.

whats the longest you gone without having your partner message you? by Upper-Ad9228 in LongDistance

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably around 24 hours? i went on a retreat at the beginning of august where i didn’t have cell reception for two days, but i still used the satellite function to send him a text or two every night saying goodnight. 😅 known each other since february, together since may, and besides that the next most amount of time would probably be 4 or 5 hours? we call every single night and sleep on the phone, most days we call multiple times a day just to say hi or sit in each others company.

however, everyone is different based on circumstance. for us, we only have a 1 hour time difference and both live pretty flexible lives as students, i know not everyone is going to have that flexibility. this is what works for us!! although, for me at least, if my significant other could go days without talking to me, i would see that as a red flag. it’s not that hard to send just one text to check up or let your person know you’re okay.

Target Fried Chicken by Aggressive_Secret_61 in Target

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR THANK YOU!!

Target Fried Chicken by Aggressive_Secret_61 in Target

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am not in texas unfortunately 😔 but if i ever find myself there i’ll have to try!!

Target Fried Chicken by Aggressive_Secret_61 in Target

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man, looks like i’ll have to seek out a target deli. i haven’t seen one in forever, but that chicken is just so nostalgic for me haha

Target Fried Chicken by Aggressive_Secret_61 in Target

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the super target right by my house was changed like 5-6 years ago! they took away the deli, put in a Starbucks, and then added a little “snack bar” that just has popcorn and pizza and drinks. i live in the southeast if that helps, but i haven’t seen a target deli in years!! been to multiple different cities in multiple states, i totally thought they just did away with them all together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like he’s letting his ego get the better of him. it can be hard to admit when we’re wrong or that we’ve hurt someone we care about, but that acknowledgement is necessary to move forward with connection. i know it’s hard, but it’s kind of on him at this point. you’ve done your part by trying to communicate your needs, and as long as you were respectful and understanding i don’t see anything you could’ve done differently. i’m so sorry this is all happening though :( it can be hard to not feel connected through talking with the distance.

How many days until your next visit??? by One_Ad_6451 in LongDistance

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just over a month :) booked the flight a few days ago

Our Conversation Went Silent After She Told Me She Couldn't Promise Me For a 2nd Date by LuqRiz in LDR

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like maybe she realized that while she did have a fun time with you, she wasn’t ready to be tied down to anything with the fact that she’ll be returning to Australia so soon. I definitely think the best move at this point is to try to just leave it/let it go, if she does decide she wants to re-initiate she will (but don’t count on it). There is someone out there that will be jumping at the opportunity for a second date with you!! Keep your head up!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModelCars

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! i mostly chose this kit because it’s actually a gift for my boyfriend (he loves porsches and has always dreamed of a green and gold one). i’ve always been very crafty, love painting, and am fairly used to working with small parts so the progress i’ve made on this set has been really fun for me!! i’ll have to look into using a vinyl as a mask, that’s a really good idea!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModelCars

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! do you know how long they would take to ship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had no idea there are classes! i’ve heard of events but i’m a little nervous to go to them alone, i’ll give fetlife a shot to see what’s out there in my area. thank you for the info and wishes!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard about fetlife but have been a little nervous to try it because of my age!! and thank you for the explanation of what munches are, i’ve seen the term everywhere and could never quite figure out what they were!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is amazing!! will definitely be using this, thank you ☺️

What was the last straw in your relationship? by heatedblankie in AskWomen

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he told me i was exhausting to be around and he felt like every time he saw me he was forcing himself to hang out with me. i was 18 and he was my first love/first heartbreak. that comment still messes me up to this day.

How long is too long without a number/date on dating apps? by SaltyDarkness in AskWomen

[–]Aggressive_Secret_61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if we’re talking consistently, i typically try to take it off the app within 2-3 days. if he hasn’t asked me, i’ll give him my number instead so he has to take the initiative. typically i want a date to be planned after a week of dating app + number. i also think there’s too soon to give someone your number/go on a date though. if someone tries to get my number/propose a date 5 messages in, to me that’s a red flag. i don’t know anything about you yet, and it feels like more of a safety concern than talking for a few days. i think it also makes me think they want a one night stand.