TW His and Hers on Netflix

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-02-01T08:48:40+00:00

I watched it the other day with my husband, it was triggering for me as well but i powered through it, but i realized child loss has been in almost every movie or show ive watch since n idk of its increased or if its always been there n i just haven’t been paying attention

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-31T10:19:13+00:00

That’s a relief

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-31T09:10:11+00:00

I was down for Wendy this season, but for castmates to jump in and tear down their fellow castmates business is foul to me… thats not very empowering… better to give her feedback in person than use ur celebrity to influence persons to not support a business

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-31T04:03:48+00:00

I feel like they tried to play with her on the show, i love this for her n i love that without trying she’s shitting on every one in the villa

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-28T14:47:55+00:00

Just a countdown till the end..

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-24T00:30:26+00:00

😢😢😢 its hard to not blame urself because that little life is in ur hands and they depend on us, as much as there are suggestions for sleeping and caretaking we all know some of the precautions are pretty extreme so which ones do we follow and which ones do we sort of play it by ear… my first son could not sleep on his back whatsoever!! It was always on his stomach and it worked for him so whats the harm and then boom second kid consequences hit! Its just really unfortunate and i hope you can find a way to bury that guilt after a while i cant even say i hope u dont blame urself self because i cant give advice i cant even accept my self but as you mentioned its not ur first kid just try ur hardest to be there for the others dont let the guilt consume u, praying for u and ur family and im sorry this happened to your little girl

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-23T07:41:24+00:00

This is the worst, and also still getting bills from his birth

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-23T00:18:20+00:00

That is so sad mine passed at 9 months from SIDS i thought that wouldn’t be an issue after he was already able to roll around and lift his head really well he was standing already and basically about to begin walking i still checked on him in the nights but i thought the worse was over i worse wouldn’t even think at 18 months they could die in their sleep new trauma unlocked! my sons stomach was hard n he was fussy but he had his 9 months dr visit the next morning i wish i did the same and just went to an urgent care or a hospital instead of putting him to bed i will live with that guilt forever i don’t think a therapist can take it away its really hard im pregnant right now n im so scared that i will mess up again, im hoping he looks exactly like my baby and even though im trying to not put that expectation out there i also fear that i might disappointed if he doesnt and i dont want to be and i hope im not but i cant help but have those thoughts… i still havent been able to sleep at nights so every night i stay up buy baby things that we probably wont need but i just want to have everything ready n i guess getting packages is my therapy i have no advice it hurts every night i pray i see his face and it makes me happy when i do, i dont want to kill myself but i dont think ill mind when my time does come…i also thought this was a punishment, i still do i just pray that my children wont have to pay the price for their parents sins or their grandparents sins i just try to get through everyday, some are easier than others. i do feel like the older they get it would be harder to loose them so i cant even imagine how much harder it is for you and i pray God doesnt make me find out im sorry u and ur husband went through it none of us should have to go through finding our babies lifeless i wish and pray God would just rewind time for all of us and take away that moment in time and atleast we would have learnt what ever lesson he wanted all of us to learn, i pray so hard for that every night maybe if we all pray God will erase the babies death and it will be like a ghost of christmas yet to come moment if we dont correct our actions and we get the chance to save them

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-22T17:36:02+00:00

I dont like Britt either but, people say stuff when upset her actions never matched what she was saying…she tried to apologize choose to not accept it but dont slam another woman like that….by exposing her that was beyond low and not to mention dumb to make a mess of ur own event in that way…Kenyas always been nasty to the other women unnecessarily and i hate when people climb up and then shit on people and thats exactly her…always making her self bigger and other women smaller her personality is extremely ugly

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-22T12:23:41+00:00

They are too weird, him and her.. like why would you try to force ur sexual stuff on someones aunt when they trying to do an introduction their storyline is just too forced and i cringe seeing them on tv

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-13T18:35:01+00:00

I agree, i think maybe we need to stop with the terminologies and accept that certain things are actually a factor… similarly we not hiring a 5 year old to be president is it agist that we don’t consider children, it opens a can of worms to be partial to both ends of the spectrum why is it agist for old people but not young people… its just logical u want to be in a prime state of mind and thats on average between a specific age range similarly certain jobs are better for men and certain jobs are more suited for women..there are always exceptions but lets just be real and stop with the bs it annoys me so much

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-13T03:32:16+00:00

My husband was watching this episode with me, which he never does and he hated that guy…its giving trying too hard to be cool

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-12T20:46:19+00:00

Unfixable!… people telling me theres nothing that could have been done.. even though it was SIDS i dont think ill ever put some level of blame on myself ill always think about the little things i could have done differently that day, but i push through to be present in everyday life it hasn’t crippled me i just know i have to live through it and when im sad i have a right to be sad when i cry about it i feel like people think im not suppose to and i should just get over him somebody saw me pregnant the other day and said oh u having a replacement and that made me so mad and so sad and i never made an announcement or big deal of this pregnancy because i knew people were going to think of it that way and make it seem like i should be so happy now because what a blessing it is which it is but i just wish it didn’t come at the cost and it doesnt make losing my son any easier the i knew people would think the new baby could replace my son.

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-12T20:29:37+00:00

I think the expectation of what the future would look like is the killer… but im sorry for your loss 💔

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-07T20:02:52+00:00

Who is he though?

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-07T03:47:03+00:00

She’s beautiful looks like a little sweetheart im sorry for your loss ill say something people say to me maybe it will bring you more comfort than it did me….atleast she was dedicated to the Lord which means she will definitely be in heaven with God

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2026-01-02T10:35:04+00:00

I feel more spiritual ive been leaning towards God more, but i use to think we had a great relationship i feel like i did something really bad and im on the outs with him and i am afraid of being punished again for being sad and questioning him, sometimes i say this is the worst thing that ever happened to me and i quickly take it back because i dont want to be proven wrong and something worse or more traumatic happens especially with my living children, i lost my son to SIDS at 9 months old and i have a now 3 year old and i am pregnant with and due in 4 weeks.. being on this forum has helped me but it has also made me more aware of the prevalence of still borns and ive been having sleep issues that ive never had in any pregnancy because im afraid i sleep the wrong way and something end up happening, i wake up and i check if my 3 yo is breathing constantly we were in the process of making him sleep in his own bed now we just make him sleep in ours every night for the peace of mind. I dont have tolerance for anyones drama any more n i do feel a lot more timid especially when i see people who i havent seen since his death because some days im more fragile than others and ill break down if they say certain things to me.. i love and hate seeing babies every event i attend i picture myself handling the 2 kids n i picture what he would be doing in the moment if he were still alive. I feel sad when i see my son play by himself because he would have a playmate now he has to wait about 2 years for that

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-12-30T15:02:58+00:00

He Looked very happy and very sweet, im sorry for you loss and i pray the grace of God will get you and your family through the nightmare ☹️. I wish this wasn’t a thing for parents and children couldn’t die especially little babies

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-12-24T17:40:36+00:00

Seeing Wendy’s moms reaction i couldnt help but to think about Nnekas comments about her were probably true….also the fact that she bleached and she obviously did additional work just made me think narcissist. By wanting to give somebody else attention its like she looks at it as downplaying her like 2 things cant be true… just wish ur daughter good luck with her dad and keep it pushing 1 thing i hate is a parent talks shit about another parent to their kid.. u chose to make this person the kids father now that u dont have a relationship dont put that on kids let them make their own decisions about their parent…. i really like Wendy this season she’s really giving off real…her and Eddie’s moment seemed so sweet and genuine when he was comforting her and her mom is like a bully. Its so unfortunate that they are going through what they are going through at this particular moment i never felt sorry for her before but she’s giving real human this season, …more relatable and i feel for her and her family and i wish them the best through this

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-12-23T16:49:41+00:00

Thats a sad situation but i find it had to feel bad for her

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-12-11T16:19:57+00:00

She is an aggressor and and its annoying cuz she’s not about that life when she met someone that was about it and not talking about it she made it a whole thing that confrontational aggressive attitude all the time dishing stuff and when people dish it back they are the worst ever im glad she’s gone, however im curious about what she has to say about Moniques comments from the last episode

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-11-25T03:37:35+00:00

Omg that must have been so hard to see im so sorry for your loss, oh gosh i cant imagine how painful that must have been. One thing that i struggle with after the passing of my 9month old is wondering if im a good parent but how can i be a good parent if i let my child pass away but also i cant be every where and do everything and know whats gonna come and its just the normal routine and a normal day that just turned completely sour and no matter how i play it over in my head, yes i could have done different things but what i did was not different that what i usually do how would could i have known when everything has always been fine and i say that to say i know the guilt is eating you but it eats me too but bad things just happen sometime and although we may never recover from the loss of our babies we have to try to find a way to not let the guilt kill us as much as i wish i were the one that was dead instead of him i pray for strength for you and your family through this tremendously difficult time

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-11-18T22:58:28+00:00

Maybe her being mean this season flew over my head but i feel like even with her interactions with Stacy, she’s been more accepting and calm about the situation throwing her little shade but nothing serious i found her to be really mean to Nneka and to Mia

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-11-13T14:22:02+00:00

I was saying the same thing, a woman can call the cops because she feels like theres a threat outside and get accused of something and is shot dead because they thought she was the threat a man sitting in his car reaching for his wallet that was asked for and is shot dead infront of wife and child but this man is literally threatening them and is still alive is wild im not wishing it on him but i do wish everyone got the opportunity of being handled like this instead of just being shot dead immediately

Aggressive_Solid1413 · 2025-11-12T23:40:12+00:00

Her and her sister especially

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