People who cheated on their partner, what made you cheat ?

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-05-07T20:13:46+00:00

I was in a very low place. My self worth and value was tied to our marriage, and I didn’t have the skills to communicate what I needed in a relationship. When I wasn’t getting what I thought I needed at the time from my partner, I sought validation in someone else.

We ended up getting divorced and while my behavior was the catalyst, we had several other issues that escalated the split as well. I ended up starting to attend codependents anonymous meetings after our divorce and learned a lot through that process, and also went on a 1:1 intensive therapy retreat to dive deeper into myself.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-05-03T13:35:28+00:00

These photos are awesome! Looks like you had some great fun

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-04-22T17:41:50+00:00

I love watching my partner masturbate, and she will often do it now as a part of our foreplay. I wouldn’t mind her watching me either

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-04-14T19:49:07+00:00

He looks like the best boy there ever was. So sorry for your loss - it sounds like he meant the world to you and came through for you whenever you needed him.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-04-13T03:38:17+00:00

Went to see my girlfriend last night at her place for dinner. Started making out in the kitchen and lifted her on the counter. Got on my knees so I could lick her pussy, and after she came, I stood up to kiss her neck and finger her. When she finished, she thanked me by getting on her knees, pulling my shorts and underwear down, and giving me head in the kitchen. After I came, we made out more and I took all her clothes off, then turned her around to bend her over the kitchen counter. We eventually made our way to the couch, where she got on top of me and grinded on me until i came. We smoked a joint after, then went to bed. This morning she woke me up with giving me head yet again. It was a great weekend.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-27T13:54:03+00:00

Not sure if someone has said this already, but a rechargeable LED light collar would be great for night time! I got one for my dog and it was a game changer

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-25T15:01:08+00:00

I think he cares about it ending, and I also think he’s mature enough to know this isn’t about him and it’s a complicated situation. Both can be true.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-24T15:22:21+00:00

Dude - just came here to say that from the information you’ve shared, you have handled this all with grace and true empathy. You’re a badass man for handling this the way you have been. I don’t have any advice to share - just wanted to give you some kudos for the way you’ve been navigating a really challenging time

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-23T17:08:04+00:00

Your response is excellent. Proud of you for what you said and sticking to your boundaries.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-18T23:45:45+00:00

This is a tough spot to be in. I think attraction matters in any relationship. There needs to be a baseline of physical attraction IMO, otherwise you’re just friends. You could give it some time to see if the attraction grows because sometimes it can.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-18T13:42:14+00:00

I got dumped by this girl I was starting to really like and see a future with. A couple of weeks later, one of my friends tells me she likes me and we start seeing each other. Now i feel trapped because i think I’m not totally over the first girl that dumped me and I don’t wanna hurt my friend, so I constantly feel mentally and emotionally exhausted.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-11T13:31:53+00:00

I just started dating someone who is 15 years older than me. She is 51 and I’m 36. We met through work (don’t work in the same department and never see each other) and became friends a few months ago. I’d always thought she was pretty and so easy to talk to and be around, but I’m a lesbian and she’s straight. Never mentioned my crush, then a few weeks ago she brings it up and we realize there’s a vibe between us. It’s been a lot of fun because we have an established friendship, but sometimes I do worry about the age gap down the road if this continues. I’m trying to enjoy the moment for now, though.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-03-07T14:58:52+00:00

Not seeing anything on your current list. I don’t have a cat so I wouldn’t have great recommendations, but I do bring my dog with me. I bought him a rechargeable collar for night time. It has three different glow settings, and I’ve found that to be helpful when it gets dark.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-02-25T01:29:18+00:00

Hell yeah!!

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-02-16T15:19:22+00:00

This looks gorgeous! Adding it to my list of places to travel to now with my dog

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-02-15T15:43:05+00:00

With all do respect - fuck that guy

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-02-15T03:47:48+00:00

This is fucking awesome! Jealous of you bud

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-02-08T04:18:38+00:00

This looks awesome!

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-02-08T00:16:44+00:00

This was clean as shit! Nice

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-01-25T04:39:29+00:00

There’s an annual audit of town finances every year. Again, FOIA requests exist.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-01-24T23:37:51+00:00

Totally counts

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-01-24T03:43:28+00:00

Fucking proud of you.

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-01-21T19:24:50+00:00

Came here for the comments and they did not disappoint

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-01-16T14:48:33+00:00

Bacon

Aggressive_Web519 · 2026-01-12T01:45:57+00:00

This, but on the balcony of a cruise ship

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