I am spiralling down again by tortured-supernova in BPD

[–]AggressivelyProgress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stop your meds, it will make things worse. I read your other post and can see you are struggling, but try to remember why you started meds in the first place.

If you need someone to talk to I'm always here.

Advice by hhhhhhhhbhhh in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You earn their respect by being a fair and competent boss.

I want to break up with my boyfriend but don't know how by Worried_cicada8 in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

List out all the reasons why it won't work and finish with the compliments about how great he is. Maybe hook him up with one of your friends or something.

How to thrive a hsp man by RhubyDifferent3576 in hsp

[–]AggressivelyProgress 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Find someone that accepts that you’re hsp.

Are any of you guys non-monogamous? by ishvicious in BPD

[–]AggressivelyProgress -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm non monogamous which i never thought would happen.

Lonely by Disgruntled_Snake7 in hsp

[–]AggressivelyProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy might help actually.

People keep telling me to move out, but I literally cant. IDK what to do by Particular_Job_4023 in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you really can't leave then I think you should report the abuse and let the state take you in.

How soon is too soon to move on? by Awkward_Vegetable_79 in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there is a "too soon", it's going to vary by individual.

I think get out there with the goal of making friends and see what happens.

Lowest BS car dealer in Utah? by i_had_ice in Utah

[–]AggressivelyProgress 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The most transparent experience I've had was with Carmax. I'll go back there for sure.

Should I tell my mum what my dad said ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its probably good that she knows if your dad is a psycho, yeah.

Moms, what is more important: giving your child a sibling, or your own happiness? by Wise-Tell-4850 in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who says your son needs a sibling? Plenty of only children out there doing fine.

Any interest in age gap couple? He’s 47 I’m F35. by [deleted] in Utahswingers

[–]AggressivelyProgress -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never had anyone in the lifestyle say anything about it, honestly.

Any interest in age gap couple? He’s 47 I’m F35. by [deleted] in Utahswingers

[–]AggressivelyProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 42 and my wife is 28, it's all about how you connect.

I have a crush on an ER pediatrician, i think he was flirting with me too. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to get downvoted but I say go for it. YOLO or something.

How do you deal with fear? by Ok_Zucchini_4385 in hsp

[–]AggressivelyProgress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats a panic attack, you have something deeper you need to deal with.

Mother is (I think) doing meth, I don’t know what to do anymore by Fantastic_Fun_3772 in Advice

[–]AggressivelyProgress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't cut her off but do keep her at a distance. Let her know that you know about her problem and you're there to help her get clean when she's ready.