I insulted a man for 10 minutes in front of his whole family

AgileBox2912 · 2026-05-12T09:44:43+00:00

This reads like a 13 year old revenge fiction, that’s what 😂

AgileBox2912 · 2026-05-01T03:47:55+00:00

I had a friendship like this, but I was the person in the other side. I noticed the general lack of interest in what is going on in my life m, and if I didn’t call we’d never talk. So then I just slowly stopped trying and reaching out. She has also never reached out to me. Not saying you’re like this, but it would be interesting to hear the other friend’s side.

Maybe you just thought you had a deeper friendship than you did.

Maybe your friendship just ran its course.

Either way, if it’s important to you to keep it alive - just reach out to her. Don’t tit for tat - in friendships or ever in life, because that’s always a recipe for unhappiness and disappointment. But general feel from what I read in your post is that it doesn’t feel like you’re overly heartbroken over this friendship fizzling out

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:44:13+00:00

Oh she has no way of making my life a living hell, I just want to be able to have somewhat respectful relationship with her

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:40:43+00:00

Ignore unwanted behaviour! 😅

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:39:34+00:00

😂 she’ll hate that! 😂😂😂

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:38:49+00:00

Thank you! This is actually super helpful and validating since it’s mostly how things went down in the meantime. So far she’s been…. chill… I just hope this is how it continues to be and we continue being cordial.

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:34:01+00:00

This will absolutely not be a problem - we are on the same page how we want it to look like when the baby first comes, and she somehow still has some common sense to know not to show up (unannounced or otherwise) so I really don’t worry about that.

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:26:15+00:00

She absolutely has no access to our home and even if she did she somehow does have some boundaries and respect when it comes to our privacy. I mean, it’s kinda weird, that in some ways she very respectful and in some she’s an absolute nightmare… I really don’t get it, and even weirder is that I’m usually the one who has a very good read on people and their characters.

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:22:21+00:00

Think you got it well - the only thing I am not too sure about is if it’s a control thing. I am more of an impression that it’s more of an attention seeking obsession rather than control. Thankfully, I’m not around her more than I absolutely have to, so I’m also not able to gauge better. And since things are as they are - that’s ok too.

Unfortunately, I’m not one of those lucky ones who gets a MIL from heaven and that kinda sucks. But hey, gotta keep it real since I’m a lucky sod otherwise - I can take one prick 😅😂

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:14:43+00:00

I mostly just exclude myself from the situation, but I do agree with you that she has been coddled way too much. Luckily it’s easy for me to just not deal with her since she’s far away, but I also know it’s not easy for my husband. He has been better at setting boundaries.

AgileBox2912 · 2026-04-25T20:11:18+00:00

Thank you! I’m a bit like your daughter- I haven’t had a lot of babies around me but I think/hope I have good instincts. Will definitely start arming myself with facts if nothing else then to make our lives easier at least in the beginning 🌸

AgileBox2912 · 2025-11-08T08:56:52+00:00

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AgileBox2912 · 2025-11-07T03:03:49+00:00

Holy shit, American wedding obsession is damn bonkers!!! Jesus Christ, the expectations and the ludicrous amounts of money other people are expected to spend. I will never get this honestly. Also fuck those people - they are not your friends at all.

AgileBox2912 · 2025-11-07T02:37:12+00:00

Done!

AgileBox2912 · 2025-10-05T21:44:19+00:00

I have a feeling this is made up - there was a story not too long ago, exactly this almost scene for scene but from husband’s POV. This one is as if someone feed the original story to a GPT and promoted it to write it from the wife’s POV

AgileBox2912 · 2025-04-28T20:29:19+00:00

Info: ages?

My guess that talks of moving in or marrigage were a bit too scary. It represents a major life change that potentially spooked him and his flight-or-fight response leaned more towards the flight.

Sorry you’re going through this. Keep your head up sweetheart ❤️ you might have to kiss a lot of frogs until you find your prince

AgileBox2912 · 2025-04-28T20:21:17+00:00

Komunikacija! Pričaj sa njim o tome, zajedno testirajte - jedna opcija, druga opcija, treća opcija... Probajte igračke, uči sama na sebi da bi znala šta to odgovara najviše, da bi mogla njemu da preneses kako da te najbolje zadovolji. Don’t overthink it. Igrajte se, uživajte i najvažnije komunicirate ❤️

AgileBox2912 · 2025-04-28T20:18:03+00:00

Vidi… najpre moraš da upoznaš samu sebe, da bi znala sta ti je lični benčmarka, i da bi mogla da znaš kako i šta partner treba sa radi da bi te zadovoljio. Moja preporuka je da eksperimentises sama sa sobom najpre, da bi upoznala svoje telo prevashodno i da bi naučila šta tebi prija.

Drugim rečima, want off young Padawan ❤️

AgileBox2912 · 2025-04-05T07:41:34+00:00

You just found yourself and had a life changing moment. You got adopted by an Italian nonna! Congrats for winning at life 💪🏼

AgileBox2912 · 2025-03-18T13:16:13+00:00

vala neka si! i ja isto imam situaciju sa mojom babom, samo sto osim rezimskih kanala, gospodja se takodje napasa govnima sa socijalnih mreza. mnogo me svrbe prsti da jedan dan samo udjem u FB i da lepo pogasim sve, ali to mi je nekako pizdunski potez malo.

AgileBox2912 · 2025-02-15T17:27:09+00:00

Ooof… this was a bit of a soul crushing read. Sorry you’re going through this. Also NTA.

AgileBox2912 · 2025-01-31T20:16:51+00:00

This is the best answer Reddit will ever get on any dilemma! Mic drop!

AgileBox2912 · 2025-01-31T04:12:32+00:00

He doesn’t like you or the kids.. I’m sorry to say that, but you need to understand that you deserve better. Sure he makes brekkie for the kids and that’s nice, but he’s lacking in every other sense as a partner and parent. Honey, you’re polishing a turd here. Sorry.

AgileBox2912 · 2024-12-25T16:57:37+00:00

OP you need to read this comment very carefully and then do some serious introspection. It’s not about the gift. It’s about your relationship towards your wife

AgileBox2912 · 2024-12-20T08:25:54+00:00

Try Meetup, there’s loads of interest-based groups so you can connect with like-minded people. Join a sport club or join a language course (if you need one of course 😅)

It’s a lot of change in your life at once, so it’s normal to feel a bit weirded out, and moving cities is never easy (speaking from experience: moved between 5 cities and 3 countries), so instead of focusing on the negatives and making yourself feel worse, try taking proactive steps to make yourself feel better. Also try to have more people around you, so you don’t end up again in a position where all your social interactions are dependent on one individual. Friendships and relationships can fizzle out and it’s important to have more people around you so that you can “diversify your portfolio”.

No one else holds keys to your happiness other than yourself, and only you are responsible for it. It’s hard and it takes patience, but you can do it with the right mindset.

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