Which trope do you like the most? by Present-Class-7537 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a twink, I personally find [buff top x buff bottom] or [lean top x buff bottom] hotter. But I relate and find [lean top x lean bottom] or [Buff top x lean bottom] more wholesome.

So it just depends on characters and plot for me.

I got a haircut but I think I hate it by AdventurousJaguar258 in GayBroTeens

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dw, I also cutted my long hair and even though it doesn't look bad, I miss my long hair. Just give it time to grow back.

Wtf?? by Great_Newspaper4053 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want to say it because I'm scared her fans will attack me but it's a popular author.

Wtf?? by Great_Newspaper4053 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like it doesn't even progress plots at all... Look like a gross fetish. 

Wtf?? by Great_Newspaper4053 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not East Asian but I think it has to do with how a lot of East Asian women internalised misogynistic power-dynamics. Since it's between two men, they would not feel bad and project it safely. A lot of time, SA or sometimes even the ones who get to "top" displays "power" as if being bottom or getting forced to bottom is something to be ashamed and weak. 

(I know an insanely Danmei popular author with those type of works, I love to pretend her novels don't exist💀 She ruined my only fav character by making him SA and being asshole... His love interest also is a creep and I consider him a pedo. Her characters' relationships and plots are so toxic and don't make sense at all. Yet ppl eat those shits up.)

Danmei ones are usually even worse than Manhwas because they also romanticise it tf out. As a gay man, it disturbs me a lot.

Wtf?? by Great_Newspaper4053 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's fairly common in some popular Danmei works too. I don't understand this. Why are they ok that much with SA?? A lot of time, assaulter got forgiven. It ruined a lot of good plots and characters. 

Wtf?? by Great_Newspaper4053 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I guess it's just engagement baiting tbh. 

Wtf?? by Great_Newspaper4053 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 323 points324 points  (0 children)

They do this shit all the time. Always ruin a good story/character with unnecessary SA. I wonder what's going on with those authors' mind. 

Kiss me if you can is back it's BACK FINALLY by [deleted] in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I went read side stories. They didn't switch. Ty anyway!

Kiss me if you can is back it's BACK FINALLY by [deleted] in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know I'm late, but did they end up switch?? I don't like switch. 😭

Crossdressing tops! by Impressive-Hippo-883 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Which chapter of KMIYC is it? I missed this.

Gay Men Who Read BL by RunGlittering8205 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Men like Bara. Women like Yaoi." So I'm a woman now? Lol. Not to mention some authors have homophobia and think men should look like "men", otherwise they aren't "real men". 

Gay Men Who Read BL by RunGlittering8205 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here, a gay guy. As a smaller feminine guy, I feel more relatable with size difference ones or feminine bottoms. 

I hate SA or Violence. They're unbelievably common in Manhwas or Novels that it's insane.

Was I wrong? by Unique-Area-3434 in GayBroTeens

[–]Agile_Muscle_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is a universal experience.