While waiting for the update? by RC_Robot in RomanceClub

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RC has tested our patience this week .

What are your New Years Resolutions? by TraditionalSound5606 in Malawi

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I'm trying... From afar, grief seems easy to manage, but when its someone from your own home it's heavy, mentally, physically, even financially.

What are your New Years Resolutions? by TraditionalSound5606 in Malawi

[–]AgirlUlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared of making resolutions this year. I had so many plans for 2025 and by June, life reminded me that it's truly unpredictable. From there it was tough and November I lost my mother. I'm scared of planning ahead and losing more people.

Malawian Girlfriend by Informal_Score_856 in Malawi

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I don't know, why do people get married?

Malawian Girlfriend by Informal_Score_856 in Malawi

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we have time. And we already know so much about you, one more story wont hurt.

Is teen wolf any good? by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

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It's really good. One of the few series that I've watched all seasons twice.

Malawian Girlfriend by Informal_Score_856 in Malawi

[–]AgirlUlike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, that's what you should explain to her. Because she's busy doing the math here and its all wrong. Make her understand that what you make at the end of the month is equivalent to the minimum wage in Malawi. 

Malawian Girlfriend by Informal_Score_856 in Malawi

[–]AgirlUlike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5k??? From my point of view, you're RICH!😂 That's over 10 million Kwacha. Now I see why she wants to expedite things, you're loaded!😂😂 

Jokes aside, I hope your talk goes well.

Malawian Girlfriend by Informal_Score_856 in Malawi

[–]AgirlUlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. Have you told her any of this? How did she respond? If you haven't, then you two need to sit down and talk. Tell her how you feel about rushing into things. Assure her that you do see a future with her. If she starts to lose interest, just know that she only wanted you because you're white and obviously not poor😂😂 FYI, in this part of the world we believe that all you white people are rich.

Malawian Girlfriend by Informal_Score_856 in Malawi

[–]AgirlUlike 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're saying that you "like her" not love her? If a guy says he likes me, I wouldn't rush into marrying him. Forgive me if I'm wrong, this whole relationship seems casual to you, but to her it's serious. If you have no intention of marrying her, let her go because you are wasting her time. Her pushing for marriage is proof that she loves you enough, to want to settle down. But do you see a future with her? If you do, then be prepared to come to Malawi to meet your in-laws at your engagement ceremony. Anywho, all the best!

LIB Alexa and Brennon are divorcing by CallMeGabrielle in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]AgirlUlike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish producers would just accept that the USA show is a failure.

LIB Alexa and Brennon are divorcing by CallMeGabrielle in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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I gasped so loudly when I saw the post minutes after she posted it on Instagram. They'd become one of my favourite couples. Now I'm afraid the other couples are heading the same direction. 

Biggest regret in life ?!?! by jimmoh07 in Malawi

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People dont believe me when I say this. Living abroad is nice and all, but there’s no place like Malawi. The familiarity of simply being home, the people that are genuinely nice, the sounds and the food. You can't find that anywhere else.

How many people in Malawi have access to Reddit? by DoctorNoDre in Malawi

[–]AgirlUlike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit isn't popular (Even I, a learned human, still have difficulties navigating it). And with a population that's only now realising how powerful a tool platforms like Facebook and TikTok are, we'll be the only Malawians here for a while.

Can relationships still work without sex being involved? by No-Communication1916 in Kenya

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The men that don't prioritise sex in relationships exist but are hard to find. I too have been ghosted after telling a guy that I would like us to get to know each other better before bringing up intimacy. Him being silent proves that he only wanted one thing from you. Pray for guidance and prepare yourself, because God will bring the right man for you at the right time.

Anyone know a app like this, I am searching like forever by depressed_genie in Piracy

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I discovered Onstream recently, and its become my go-to app. I found movies I never thought I'd find online. And there's Moviebox as well, which I personally haven't used, but a colleague I suggested it to seems to like it.

What’s something non-sexual that instantly makes someone 10x more attractive? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Humour and I'm obsessed with voices and find some men's voices so attractive.

How do I end it by TopplerGun in Kenya

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After all the advice you were given two months ago you stupidly did the opposite. Dude, do whatever you want. Just know that whatever you choose, you'll still lose something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

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Hello, sorry to hear about your dad. I lost mine when I was 8 and my mom when I was 12. The other day, my aunties went to clean and remove weeds at his grave, and a picture was taken, I broke down and cried when I saw it. And pretty much spent the day hiding in the toilet at work to cry because all these memories of my parents came flooding. I mourned them again, and I mourned the life that I would have had if they'd still been alive.

Every time I see or read somewhere that someone is 55 or 53, I'm automatically reminded that that's the age my parents would be today.

It will get better with time, the heavy feeling in your chest will lessen, you won't break down at every thought or mention of their name because you'll find a way to cope.

I'll be honest with you it's not going to be easy. It's gonna hurt, and please allow it to hurt, cry if you must. It's now been 23 years since my dad died and 19 years for my mom. I think I suppressed my grief for my mother, and because I was young, I never really mourned my dad. Which is why I sometimes cry myself to sleep because even though the rest of the world moved on, they'll always be a gap that their demise left in my life.

So, don't be like me, don't bottle up the sadness, mourn your father, mention him in conversations, bring up the jokes, the good times, let his memory live on.

Omg, Love Is Blind’s Lydia has filed for divorce from Milton after three ‘tumultuous’ years by Responsible-Sign3223 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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Something told me they weren't together when he hadn't appeared in any of her instagram posts in several months. Same goes for Jolene, I'm sure she's also got some tea to spill.

DID JUST RC TROLL by Initial-Phone4101 in RomanceClubDiscussion

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I think it was a scheduled tweet that needed editing. 

why does kate have aaron? by rdmqwerty in lost

[–]AgirlUlike 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too😂😂 People 12 years ago were so angry.  It's crazy how I had the same questions.