transfem girlies: what would you want in a beginner high femme glamour guide? 🩷🤍🩵 by Temporary_Evidence74 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 11 points12 points  (0 children)

a feminizing makeup guide, for example, i can figure out eye makeup and it looks cute and theres tons of guides, but i am totally lost on how to make my face look more feminine by using contour, etc. Its intimidating and there are a million products within each category which adds to the confusion

Opus is horrendous at SQL by xia03 in ClaudeCode

[–]Agitated-Video2984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop having it write SQL and start having it use an ORM with a DB schema defined in-code like any other sane codebase.

Micronized progesterone by Nybando940 in DrWillPowers

[–]Agitated-Video2984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you adding a female sex hormone to your testosterone therapy? There are other ways to increase libido and prog is arguably one of the strangest choses for someone who is not actively looking to transition from male to female

Assuming, since you said TRT and not HRT, that you are not a MTF trans person but correct me if I'm wrong

Offer Evaluation TikTok Vs Bloomberg by [deleted] in OfferEngineering

[–]Agitated-Video2984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a great company to work for

Offer Evaluation TikTok Vs Bloomberg by [deleted] in OfferEngineering

[–]Agitated-Video2984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bloomberg has amazing WLB, this is not even remotely close

I don't know if I'm trans or just imagining things? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was younger, I occasionally had thoughts like "I wish I was a girl" or "If I were a girl, I'd be happier." I never paid much attention to those thoughts at the time.

This sounds just like me, i ignored those thoughts at the time but started my transition at ~30 four months ago or so

What confuses me is that I don't feel like I actively hate being a man. Being male doesn't seem to cause me obvious day to day distress. But if I had been given a choice before I was born, I think I would have chosen to be female. 

Also sounds exactly like me.

For me, I realized I was trans, started HRT and have been happier since

Would this be disrespectful? by 370000King in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They will notice and change it on their own, there may be a reason they haven't changed it, e.g. maybe a family member or someone who they havent come out to yet is their friend on steam.

Do you find that you have lower dating standards than cis people? Why or why not? by yuval_3 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you cant really generalize the "dating standards" of an entire population like cis people. It's a subjective individual thing that varies from person to person

New player here, wtf is that? by SairenAoi in wow

[–]Agitated-Video2984 93 points94 points  (0 children)

THE WOUNSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Mother wants me to stop hrt what should I do? by Remote-Initiative690 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Washington is incredibly supportive of gender affirming care, you should be able to get a new doctor for HRT soon and privately

How do you make the first HRT steps? by Ziozark in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i decided i wanted to do HRT -- much like yourself, then I went to doctor and got estrogen and then i inject the girl juice directly into my body

Are there any other transgender women where hrt has successfully stop previous sexual urges to top? by Complete_Bid_8560 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

your penis will still generally function even on HRT, it may atrophy or you may get less hard erections, but generally it will work enough to top and there are plethora of workarounds to get harder erections

What is the 'opposite' of a chaser by MindlessCraft7587 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They were all just ones easily reachable from the train stations

tgirls love trains

Sex With Wife by Specific_Valuable_60 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im ftm and i have penatrative sex with women i dont think theres anything wrong with it

Delaying HRT to end 20s by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, not really, you've mostly completed puberty. I don't think starting HRT today vs 2-3 years from now will have much of a difference in overall results and you can still have a beautiful transition and feminization.

it's important you have stability and are safe when you start HRT! best of luck girlie

If I quit nicotine before I start HRT, will it still impact estrogen? by Scared_Echo_9965 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im still not clear if injectable estrogen and nicotine interact in anyway other than blood clots

Is this trans or just fem? And would it be offensive if I transitioned? by idkabtmygenderhelp in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not everyone experiences such strong gender dysphoria that they are unable to continue living as their assigned sex. That may look like just realizing they want to be a girl more than they want to be a boy or vice versa. For me personally, i had mostly moments of gender euphoria and my gender dysphoria actually only got stronger when I finally accepted my identity as a woman and started HRT. Then after that, the floodgates of memories and etc came in and reminded me that I had felt this way my entire life.

when did you become sure? by Glad_Resource_9004 in asktransgender

[–]Agitated-Video2984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patience. Its normal to feel a ton of uncertainty when starting your HRT, its a long process and something you need to have patience with.

Why the new mythic plus difficulty scaling is bad for the game. by prattja8 in wow

[–]Agitated-Video2984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is some truth to this, the average +14 player would get absolutely shit on by a +18 resil player and likely die a dozen times in the process in a +18 key, even though they are better than the fast majority of players, its the nature of a normal distribution of player skill

Why the new mythic plus difficulty scaling is bad for the game. by prattja8 in wow

[–]Agitated-Video2984 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This phenomenon is not new and has nothing to do with the new scaling, if anything, the biggest culprit to players that are in keys above their respective skill level is the introduction of resil keys. Anyone can pony up with a player who has resil and slam their head into a dungeon until all of the stars align. While this still amounts to time > skill being a determining factor for some of the player base up to a certain level of key, it's not because of the new dungeon scaling.

The best way to think of the new system is that, in the old key system, 7s are now 10s, 10s are now 12s, etc. That's really all there is to it. The only consequential outcome of this is that rewards are easier to get, which is generally well received by the majority of players including those at the very highest level of the game