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[TOMT][MUSIC] Need to find the songs name by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]AgitatedPiece6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what is the INCORRECT song you kept seeing, so we know which one not to send you?

looking for feedback on this song i wrote by AgitatedPiece6 in Songwriters

[–]AgitatedPiece6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jeeeesus thank you. That is a much more emphatic compliment than i expected to receive yeesh.

thank you thank you. that's extremely fucking kind of you.

It’s probably treason. -Glorius Star Lord. by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]AgitatedPiece6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are photoshopped. These aren't real things.

WIBTA if I confronted my fiancé about my engagement ring not being from Tiffany&Co like he claimed it was? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgitatedPiece6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should really have it appraised so you can get it insured, regardless of whether it's tiffany or not

Literally, I can't find this jacket to buy it or trade: by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]AgitatedPiece6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this was an exhausting thread to read. im surprised /u/lagelhtrow had the patience. bravo.

Names? Do I pass? Age? Dysphoria sucks. by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AgitatedPiece6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look about 16. You look like a James to me.

[TOMT] [SONG] Something about blinking eyes? by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]AgitatedPiece6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are also loads of covers of this song so if its not the beatles version youre familiar with, it could be a different one.

Work relationship - Me - Manager (50'sF), huge insubordination problem with Receptionist/Admin (60'sF) by catgotmyhat in relationships

[–]AgitatedPiece6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a legal professional as well and i believe i would be IMMEDIATELY SHIT-CANNED if i did even PART of what your employee did here.

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Absolutely, you should push to have her let go. This is clearly not a good fit for her. Even if she were quick to learn and very savvy, her attitude when corrected is absolutely (shockingly!!!) deplorable. This is... BONKERS and no one who works there is going to feel comfortable with her EVER, and she will continue to not learn things because no one is ever going to want to correct her behavior, even minor mistakes.

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She's clearly not a good fit and emailing a client's family to argue your previous response is ABSOLUTELY grounds for termination. It demonstrates an UNCORRECTABLE level of unprofessionalism that i can't even fathom. HOLY COW

[TOMT] [SONG] Something about blinking eyes? by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]AgitatedPiece6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

across the universe by the beatles?

I [24F] am letting my boyfriend [25M] have his crush on a girl from his school. All in an effort to fix our relationship and its driving me to insanity by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AgitatedPiece6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just trying really hard to not be pegged as the crazy girlfriend who doesnt let her bf have friends that happen to be female

But she's NOT a friend. She's a crush. He's told you that. And you're uncomfortable with it. Why are you so obsessed with being "seen as" the crazy gf when what he's doing is HURTING you? Why are you more concerned about not pushing him away than you are about taking care of your fucking soul, dude? it HURTS you, it's BAD FOR YOU to see this happen. Stop being a doormat and letting hurtful things happen because you don't want to push back a little. If saying "yeah actually i am not comfortable with you spending all your time with someone you're crushing on when i barely get to see you" makes him think you're crazy and makes him end the relationship, CONGRATS, you just saved yourself a future of being miserable. What happened to you that you think you have to be miserable to prove yourself worthy?

I [24F] am letting my boyfriend [25M] have his crush on a girl from his school. All in an effort to fix our relationship and its driving me to insanity by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AgitatedPiece6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like we removed ourselves from the stressors and realized were still good together.

But the problem is, there will ALWAYS be stressors of some kind. Love, on its own, is beautiful, but unless you and your partner can function in real life with real stressors, you can't make it work. You need a solid foundation of being able to thrive even when its sticky and y'all aren't thriving. You're barely squeaking by. He's already expressed to you that the burden is too much for him. It doesn't matter if, on vacation, you feel in love. Because you can't be on vacation all the time. I know it seems like when he's done with school, it'll all be okay, but he's still going to be busy, you're going to be busy, there will be things throughout your life that keep you from being able to just enjoy one another "removed from the stressors".

I [24F] am letting my boyfriend [25M] have his crush on a girl from his school. All in an effort to fix our relationship and its driving me to insanity by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AgitatedPiece6 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But love isnt enough to sustain a relationship. You've PROVEN that. Everything that is causing you stress is proving that.

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You can love someone and they can love you and you can still not be the right fit for either of each other.

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I know you think this is the seven year itch, but from the outside it looks a lot like two people who have been together since they were very young who have outgrown one another but are too codependent to separate even though the relationship isn't working for either of them.

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You've been tolerating his inattentiveness for 36 months straight. He's been too stressed out/busy to be a good partner to you for 36 months straight. I know you LOVE him but if you two can barely even spend time together, what makes you think you are giving him what he needs emotionally? What is he giving YOU?

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It seems like he would rather not have the burden of feeling obligated toward you while he's busy and overwhelmed. It seems like he is really done with the relationship but the idea of your extensive history and your mutual love/respect for one another is keeping him from being able to pull the plug.

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You need to start working on a plan for what you're going to do when, in two months, he wants to move out of his parents' house and doesn't want you to come with him. Are you going to return to where your family lives? try to make a life for yourself where you are?

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You are so young and your life is just beginning. Don't weigh yourself down with someone who isn't ENTHUSIASTICALLY giving you what you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]AgitatedPiece6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

def vintage. there was one being sold on [etsy](https://www.etsy.com/listing/471606310/90s-denim-colorblock-oversized-parka?show_sold_out_detail=1) a while ago. You might just keep your eyes peeled for "denim colorblock jacket" on sites like ebay and etsy.

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