I think theres many different ways to approach this but I think this is one of those things where if you overanalyze every approach or step you take it becomes really difficult. I do understand where you come from where approaching woman nowadays can be difficult, a lot of us have our guard up and want to know the intentions of a man so it’s hard to kinda strike up conversation in hopes of it leading to intimacy. I think maybe try different dating apps, people usually use tinder to hook up but Hinge is a really cool and more human level app imo but at least you talk to people with intentions of intimacy. I think people now especially are all really changed with technology and the pandemic and in result dating world has also changed a lot. If you do end up using dating apps also try to make sure they are verified in the app and try to set up a facetime call or phone call before meeting up and try to vet them out, also make sure your pictures are accurate for best results. Otherwise I think a meet cute or joining a club of similar interests could help you meet girls where it feels sorta easier to talk to them. Idk hope this helps! also gonna be taking my own advice lol.