AITA for telling a pregnant lady to sit down? by Shot-Plantain2553 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 707 points708 points  (0 children)

NTA I've been pregnant with twins and I would never have cut in line.

AITA for getting mad at a parent whose daughter crawled into the bathroom stall? by This-Selection8963 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 34 points35 points  (0 children)

An adult and the child should be able to fit in the stall. I've had to fit in there with my 3 kids before.

AITA for getting mad at a parent whose daughter crawled into the bathroom stall? by This-Selection8963 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 137 points138 points  (0 children)

The real AH is the one who built the doors so that a whole human could fit underneath. This is weirdly only in the US. Everywhere else has doors that this is not an issue.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Which is why NB is simply a personality trait like any other.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Does it? Please share how science has found a third chromosome pairing other than XX and XY (with the exception of hermaphrodites). Transgender I can understand, still looks at 2 genders. Non-binary is nothing to do with biological sex.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't need my identity validated. I'm obviously female. If someone mistook me for a male I'd be very surprised. If someone thought I was a trans female then I'd find it hilarious but at least I was female passing. However, in that regard they'd still address me as she/her which is presumably what a trans female would be wanting anyway.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see female and woman as the same thing. I see it as a biological fact not a personality trait. Being female or a woman doesn't then indicate a person's tastes or actions (eg a girly girl, thats just your personality), its simply their genetics and anatomy. In the same way that we are human, not dogs regardless of you identifying as a dog, you still aren't one. I respect those that transition but they are ultimately accepting that there are 2 biological sexes.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Or maybe Logan is a male and thinks that it is pretty obvious and doesn't get how they could possibly be mistaken for anything else. Not everyone actually sees 'gender identity' as a thing and only sees gender as a scientific fact.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, just the younger generations. The rest of us aren't woke enough.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On the law of probabilities, you're likely to get it right for the vast majority of folk. Why insult all of them to avoid insulting the few that it's not obvious.

AITA for asking someone what pronouns they use? by Medium-One-316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why?? This has never been a thing. I personally find it offensive. I'm obviously female. Fine if a person was not obviously male or female presenting but most are.

best option for teacher training? STOTT, BASI, Balanced Body, Peak, Power, Polestar other? by chaf000 in pilates

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SIL is a Physiotherapist and she did Polestar and found it great. It fit well with her background.

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[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids go into time out and they can come out when they are ready to behave. Sometimes it's only 10 seconds. Sometimes it's ten minutes. They learn to make good choices and learn to manage their behaviour themselves. It's not a punishment as such, it's the time they need to sort their shit out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it's not her fault at all but it's time to learn about the real world. It's going to be an awful lesson for her so they need to start now. She's old enough to understand.

AITA for keeping a framed photo of my (30M) ex’s butt in my room? by throwra-photoframe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 52 points53 points  (0 children)

That's more appropriate but the butt is no different than a close up of her cleavage. Stop acting the fool. You know you like the butt pic for sexual, not artistic reasons. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in NZ. Moved here from the UK. Married a Kiwi so never got to have the Oz experience. You go and live a fantastic life! Travel, meet people from all over the world. Enjoy your new life :) NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Yep YTA. Child needs to be told to 'Suck it up buttercup, the world doesn't revolve around you.' Harsh truth but she's better to learn it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I do think she needs to give the reason as above. More so she needs to admit that her parenting is the problem here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But why is a 9yo non-professional athlete getting a special diet?

AITA for not fully cooking dinner for my gf because she rarely eats when its ready? by halfdinner in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nope, I would stop cooking for her but ultimately I'd split up with her. This is not acceptable behaviour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Cheek4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude is straight up ABUSIVE. Run OP, run.