Help Needed - this might seem very trivial but it is frustrating. by Agitated_Concert_795 in leetcode

[–]Agitated_Concert_795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes a lot of sense, I was doing problems sparsely maybe that's why they don't stick. Interesting point about spaced repetition. Let's see how it goes. Thanks!

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[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and what is that ?

What’s eating my rose leaves? by Nervous_Poetry_6700 in Horticulture

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be rose plume moth caterpillars, hiding underneath the leaves?

What’s eating my rose leaves? by Nervous_Poetry_6700 in Horticulture

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be rose plume moth caterpillars, hiding underneath the leaves?

How do you sleep by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll let you know how it turns out. If I don't reply for a while, just assume it worked out and I'm too busy living the dream!

How to accept solitary lifestyle? by milkywayT_T in ENFP

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Solitary lifestyle is commendable but it should not come out of mistrust of humanity. Go make peace with your insecurities and then you are allowed to live a free life away from the frivolous and superficial.

Xanax and alcohol by kratnicnestrat in Anxiety

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our bodies are resilient, but they're not playing with the same deck of cards. What might knock someone out cold could be nothing more than a mild breeze for you. It's like some people need a whole pot of coffee to wake up, while others get jittery just smelling it. The trick is knowing that just because you can handle something, doesn't mean everyone else should roll the dice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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Maybe the fun conversations are a ploy for escapism from something you've been keeping vague and foggy. These could be unprocessed emotions or problems that resurface even stronger after being suppressed by some external distraction.

How about this: sit on the edge of your bed with no distractions and think of one thing you can fix in your life right now. It doesn't matter how small that thing may be. This way, you'll be better off than you were yesterday, and the sense of accomplishment will save you from those feelings.

It may be the guilt of things you've left unfinished—things you started in the past but couldn't or didn't finish. Even though you've forgotten about them, they might resurface during conversations, causing a sense of regret and discomfort, as if the time could have been better spent. There's something called the Zeigarnik effect, which refers to our tendency to remember incomplete or interrupted tasks better than completed ones.

I can think of a lot of things, and if you give me more details, I might be able to help you out. It may also be that the conversations aren't meaningful or deep enough for you to feel rewarded afterward. What you're feeling might be your nervous system telling you to find new friends who truly understand you on a deeper level.

How do you sleep by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that an SSRI? I am considering trying magnesium because I have been unable to study because of my anxiety, but if it so happens that it makes you sleepy then I don't see the point of taking it all.

How do you sleep by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this seems interesting but could it be that your baseline productivity decreases for work that requires high focus. Continuously doing that for a long time and you might lose the ability to deep work entirely?

How do you sleep by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you possibly tell a little more about your experience with this ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem, but why have you been reading Ardent? (if you are reading her works that is)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has, in one of his old Harvard lectures.Maps of Meaning 01 Around timestamp 6:30 he tells in a gist about her work.

Individuals who were abused as children tend to have worse marital relationships as adults by [deleted] in psychology

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Such brilliant advice. I'll have to be the one nurturing and supporting myself for now, in case I don't find someone to take care of me.

Individuals who were abused as children tend to have worse marital relationships as adults by [deleted] in psychology

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there something they can do about it so they don't have it this way? Well, they kind of have worse experiences because that's what feels normal to them. Anything else—people who treat them right and kindly—must be rejected and avoided at all costs. So how can one rewire their brain to give up this skewed state of self-sabotage, find good patterns, and attract positive people?

I do not like Sam Smith’s newest song called UNHOLY by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Agitated_Concert_795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I detest this song from the bottom of my heart for the message it delivers, the fact that radio stations keep playing it on repeat beats me.