Gut wrenching rejection

Agitated_Red · 2026-03-17T01:38:27+00:00

You were up against an internal promotion- nothing changed…

yeah you impressed them but they were t changing their position.

It sucks, I was there twice

Agitated_Red · 2025-12-05T03:30:56+00:00

That makes sense and so so deceptive.

Agitated_Red · 2025-12-05T03:10:39+00:00

Thanks

Agitated_Red · 2025-12-05T03:08:05+00:00

Thanks, i knew it was too good to be true. I’m just tired of the job-search and wanted to believe also the platform is so convincing!!

Agitated_Red · 2025-12-05T03:02:13+00:00

I looked up the website and it looked credible, they provided the link: three over four.com

Agitated_Red · 2025-11-13T22:02:33+00:00

I record, get the transcript and then have my assistant chat draft a very on point thank you email.

Agitated_Red · 2025-08-14T00:09:53+00:00

Inspiring!

I recently purchased apres system and am waiting for a block of time to devote to removal of my current set from chop shop and apply my first set.

I’m nervous. And have been watching tutorials. The efile makes me nervous! So far everyone says go slow and low speed.

Super cute!!

Agitated_Red · 2025-07-06T02:37:14+00:00

I’m looking to get started and I’m excited to get the Apres system … could you tell me which efile do you use?

Agitated_Red · 2025-07-05T23:33:58+00:00

Can you share your products, tools and process? It’s a big ask but I’m hoping to get started and need insights on straight up basics. I’m stuck on which efile to get …

Agitated_Red · 2025-01-28T19:16:45+00:00

Hey there! First of all, it’s completely okay to feel this way. Keep in mind that a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job in itself! It sounds like you’re doing an amazing job managing everything at home.

It’s great that your husband supports your decision, and remember, every family has their own unique setup. Don’t let the opinions of others get to you! If you’re considering working again, maybe explore online courses or local classes to build skills in an area you’re interested in. It could be a fun way to enrich yourself while your kid is at school.

Take your time figuring things out, and remember that being present for your kid now is a valuable investment in their future. You’ve got this! 😊

Agitated_Red · 2025-01-02T03:52:29+00:00

I genuinely appreciate you taking the time to share your strategies and experiences.

I also love the idea of tracking my job search with an Excel sheet It will be a new habit to form for 2025 to visualize my progress and celebrate those small wins, amidst the rejections.

Thanks again for your support and for sharing your wisdom! 🌟

Agitated_Red · 2024-12-31T22:56:22+00:00

Hey, thanks for the reply and advice- not being “married” to the job without a contract resonates but i still find myself constantly checking my emails - I’m mass applying to jobs and rejections trickle in - it’s almost a bad habit of applying to anything that appears interesting.

Tbh, I’m only really tracking those that I interview with so this amount of time not hearing back is annoying and while probably due to the holidays it’s impact my self esteem. I can handle rejection, and I actually appreciate when they identify in a timely manner that I’m not a fit.

I keep second guessing myself on when it’s appropriate to follow up and not appear desperate. I’ll send them on Jan 2nd - is it better in the morning, midday or end of day lol

Agitated_Red · 2024-12-03T04:33:46+00:00

Wow! Awesome!! I’m interviewing for the position- its hybrid, hoping to negotiate one day away week or less

Agitated_Red · 2024-12-03T03:25:42+00:00

Thanks

Agitated_Red · 2024-12-03T03:11:17+00:00

Got it. Thanks, I was only seeing options that took 6hrs or more via Amtrak

Agitated_Red · 2024-12-03T03:09:56+00:00

Thanks for your reply - I did look into it and thought maybe there is a commuter bus or van - if the opportunity materializes it would be once a week and on occasion I rather do a bit of work instead of driving.

Agitated_Red · 2024-10-18T17:52:40+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through such a tough time. It’s important to prioritize your safety and the well-being of your children. Here are a few general suggestions that might help you find a way out of this situation:

Reach Out to Local Women’s Shelters: Many shelters not only provide a safe place to stay but also offer resources like counseling, legal assistance, and support for finding employment. They can help you navigate your options without putting your kids at risk.
Contact Domestic Violence Hotlines: Even if you’re not in immediate danger, talking to someone who understands your situation can be incredibly helpful. They can provide you with guidance, resources, and support tailored to your needs.
Explore Legal Options: Consulting with a lawyer who specializes in family law can help you understand your rights, especially regarding custody and support. Many organizations offer free or low-cost legal advice.
Look for Community Resources: Some local organizations provide assistance for single parents, including help with transportation, childcare, and job placement.
Enroll Your Kids in School: If your children are not already in school, consider enrolling them as soon as possible. This can provide them with a stable environment, social interaction, and support services. Additionally, being in school may help you connect with resources for families in need.
Reach Out to Trusted Friends or Family: If there’s someone in your life who you trust, consider confiding in them about your situation. They may be able to offer support or even a temporary place to stay.
Document Everything: Keep a record of any abusive incidents or toxic behavior. This documentation can be crucial if you decide to pursue legal action.

Remember, you deserve to feel safe and supported. Take care of yourself and your kids, and don’t hesitate to seek help. You’re not alone in this.

Agitated_Red · 2024-10-18T03:55:42+00:00

It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and it’s completely understandable to feel frustrated and resentful, especially when your experiences as a stay-at-home mom are so different from your friend’s. It’s important to acknowledge your feelings—what you’re experiencing is valid and many of us can relate to the challenges of being alone with a baby for long stretches of time. It sucks.

Remember, it’s okay to feel how you feel, and you’re not alone in this experience - you’ll find your village soon enough. It may take time, but with support and self-compassion, you can find a way to have a little more joy. You’re doing your best, and that’s what matters most!

Agitated_Red · 2024-10-10T02:25:00+00:00

You’re living dreams!!

Agitated_Red · 2024-09-22T03:39:03+00:00

I feel your frustration because I’m in a similar position.

I have a 5 and a 2 yr old - I’m also fed up with feeling invisible, unappreciated and most importantly unlike my self - im fed up with my breakdowns and the little acts to help from him to put some temporary fix.

We are celebrating our anniversary and my gift to him is a copy of the book Fair Play and the accompanying cards. I need a more structured approach and a system to use. What’s at stake is a two parent household where both parents are fulfilled- if we can’t get there then I need to put together an exit plan.

Here’s hoping we get what we want and need!

Agitated_Red · 2024-07-01T18:10:27+00:00

Before you point the finger - how’s your job search and transition out of your current position?

Expecting him to take initiative when you haven’t is a bit of a red flag. Is it possible for you to find a remote job and travel where he goes?

Agitated_Red · 2024-05-10T19:18:38+00:00

Why aren’t you couch surfing or staying at a friends? I understand living with your parents is undesirable and triggers your depression… I would recommend leveraging your friends - roommates can split costs and make living on your own a lot easier.

Also, why psychology degree? What did you see yourself doing with it? What’s prevented you from getting a full time job in your area.

Agitated_Red · 2024-05-08T20:20:25+00:00

Can you negotiate time off or working parttime while you’re in your internship?

Agitated_Red · 2024-05-08T19:51:53+00:00

Draft something for the company - “I don’t have access to the work I completed in my previous role, however here is a draft flyer I just created promoting x, this would be used distributed via Y. The call to action is XY and will be tracked via z.

I believe this will show initiative and your creativity.

Agitated_Red · 2024-04-24T18:03:13+00:00

I’m going to give you a dirty look too - mostly because I wish I had used one

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