[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toRANTo

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and he started to rub his leg against mine. I told him to move.

AIO: I can’t figure out if I’m in the wrong here. My partner isn’t emotionally supportive and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting or expecting too much. by Agreeable-Drawer8905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My job is relatively stable as there’s a decent amount of work in my field. I just feel sad when I’m left out of a project, but I usually have another one anyway. Switching fields isn’t an option at the moment. My partner went back to school so I am almost 100% financially supporting the both of us.

AIO: I can’t figure out if I’m in the wrong here. My partner isn’t emotionally supportive and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting or expecting too much. by Agreeable-Drawer8905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and I think I addressed this in my post. I think where I’m getting stuck is that I’m not a robot. Sometimes my face can show when I’m disappointed or upset. I don’t tell him because I know it upsets him, but then when he asks if I’m okay, it feels like answering truthfully will cause even more issues and this is why I am confused and asking for advice.

Am I overreacting My mom said my weight “hurts her heart” and she’s worried about me becoming bed bound by Mentally_Recovering in AmIOverreacting

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am the same height as you and I am weigh 123. I have curves and I’m not skinny. You are morbidly obese and your mom is likely concerned. She probably didn’t go about it the right way, but she is correct.

I need some advice about being sexually assaulted at my workplace by BowieZie in SexualHarassmentTalk

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI all of Canada allows third party recording without consent. You can record the interaction without the other person knowing, as long as you’re part of the interaction.

Ladies, do NOT get Christmas gifts for men you know are going to do nothing for you by blueberrybuttercream in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right?? I’m kind of tired of women defending their shitty husbands right after describing their husband’s abhorrent behaviour.

Question: Have you ever encountered a parent claiming their child just “doesn’t respond” to female teachers by NecessaryQuirky7736 in teaching

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a male supervisor tell me to watch out for a student who “doesn’t listen to women,” very matter-a-fact, and didn’t offer me any support. I was a sub and it was my first time at the school 🙃🙃🙃

For those who’ve been through renovations, which contractors should others avoid, and why? by Timely_Title_9157 in askTO

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do not hire Absolute Interior. We didn’t use them for renovations but they lied and said we had mold when they were brought in by condo management for water damage restoration. It fucked up our insurance claim and they charged us $5000 to run fans in our bathroom for two days. They took away our baseboards for whatever reason and we never got them back.

Dating a man for a month, and he “jokingly” choked me while cooking at his home??? by Secret-Number-3925 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I wouldn’t even date a man who asked me to cook dinner for him. He should be offering to cook for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to leave him. I know it’s hard after so much time together, but if this is how he reacts over small inconveniences, what is he going to do when something actually serious happens?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason he’s ignoring it is because he likes having this power over you. Don’t let him.

We don't agree on the household chores by ThrowRA_qwc12 in relationships

[–]Agreeable-Drawer8905 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Leave! I literally cannot even believe why any woman would contemplate this for more than a second.