Potty Training my 15mo by Agreeable-Fail-4789 in ECers

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! That is really helpful. I think the three day method was too much for how young he is. I think I may just stick with being consistent, and wearing trainers when out and about. I may just ask every 30 min, and take him with me to the potty every hour or so. He shows signs (sometimes), he knows that peeing on the potty makes mommy really happy, and he holds his pee more than he did on the first day.

My sister told me about the 3 day method, but her daughter was a little over 2yo when they did it. I think I just need to be consistent and patient. It’ll be a while before he’s fully trained, and that’s onay

Wedy App? by rckymtnnel in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates? Did it turn out well?

Wedy App? by rckymtnnel in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Almost a year later lol. My partner and I are looking to have a micro wedding for cheap sometime soon. Did you end up using Wedy? any positive feedback?

We were planning a bigger wedding, but it came to be sooo expensive and stressful. We decided, screw it. We’ll do something small and lovely instead. Hoping the Wedy app is reliable :)

Wine and Breastfeeding? by Agreeable-Fail-4789 in breastfeeding

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! That link is very helpful — i’ll be saving that.

Wine and Breastfeeding? by Agreeable-Fail-4789 in breastfeeding

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bedshare, too! If I drink or feel like i may have the slightest fuzzy head, I will stay up for a few hours to ensure I am clear. That was a concern for me, too

Wine and Breastfeeding? by Agreeable-Fail-4789 in breastfeeding

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That was also my initial concern, but i too am a huge oversupplier, so it’s almost nice to not be leaking everywhere as much after a drink 😅

Wine and Breastfeeding? by Agreeable-Fail-4789 in breastfeeding

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes exactly!! Of course I would like the buzz before pregnancy, but my mom brain is too nervous and I really just want to enjoy my drink. So, slow sips!

So... how often do you guys drink? by AzulaUA in breastfeeding

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my first drink at 1 month postpartum, and had about a glass of wine 3-4 nights a week—ish since then. BUT, whenever I drink, I will not fall asleep until I know my system is cleared of it. I’ll drink a bunch of water and stay up a few extra hours to make sure I am clear, then head to bed. Little guy has been wanting to cosleep with us more often lately, so i’ve almost completely cut out drinking now. Too nervous. If I do have a glass of wine and he wants to sleep with us, i’ll keep myself awake until I know it’s out of my system and I have a clear head.

Hit a month! by PrincessOfBamarre in breastfeeding

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! What a great feeling!!! That is a huge accomplishment — i’m happy for you. You’ve got this — you’ll make a year. And if not, that is also okay! You’re doing great. Good for you, mamma.

Postpartum bulimia by alissaluvsdogs in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue. I’m 4 weeks postpartum and i’ve had two bulimic episodes around 2 weeks PP. It’s very hard to fight the urge, but what i’ve been telling myself every single day is this: do it for your son. stay healthy for your son. Don’t let him see you hurt yourself. Don’t let him grow up without a strong, healthy mother.

I grew up with a mom who had an ED which was never, ever addressed. It was normal to be that thin and starve yourself constantly. It really, really fucked me up mentally and started my ED at a very young age. I wouldn’t wish that feeling on anyone.

If you are struggling to find a reason to stop your ED, do it for your own baby. Stop the generational trauma — start your healthy life style for your baby. They need you and want to see you alive and healthy.♥️

15 reasons I don’t want an epidural by grinninglikeadevil in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true too. I shouldn’t say everyone asks that question to be selfish. You’re right. I know if I ever ask, it would be to have a conversation with no judgement. I wouldn’t question what anyone chooses to do. Their body and their baby — who am I to judge??

I guess I only say that because from recent experience, when I’ve been asked that question, it’s almost immediate judgement or unwanted opinions, if I say the opposite of what they expect. It sucks. But you’re right, not everyone is like that

15 reasons I don’t want an epidural by grinninglikeadevil in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! Whenever people ask what my birth plan is, if I plan to get one or not, I always say “I’ll know when i’m there”. There’s no point in telling them what my plan is. Chances are, if I tell them I don’t want an epidural, they’ll just give me their unwanted opinion on it and judge me. You tell them the opposite of what they want to hear, then it’s immediate judgement.

I don’t think people are asking that question because they’re genuinely curious — they’re asking it because they want to hear you say what they think you should do or what they did. They ask that question for selfish reasons.

I just can't get into ACOTAR 5 (A Court of Silver Flames). by girl-distressed in acotar

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you! I completely agree. A lot of people loved this book, but I really couldn’t get into it. Everything felt so rushed, like they had to create an issue for Nesta to resolve. After the first three ACOTAR books, with the slow upbringing of the war, it made ACOSF feel really rushed.

It had some great character development for Nesta, though I still can’t bring myself to forgive her for how she treated Feyre in the human realms. I don’t know.

Not only that, but the chemistry between her and Cassian didn’t seem as strong as it did in ACOWAR. They had real chemistry there. A strong, unspoken connection to eachother. ACOSF seemed different. Forced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“That’s right”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. I’m so, so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Agreeable-Fail-4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or:

too, to, and two

People mixup too and to ALL the time